Thread 82084014

You wouldnt be an incel if you just had a hobby and met people through that hobby

>>82084014 (OP)
I have a hobby, I do game development for fun.

>>82084014 (OP)
I do and join meetings for 2 of those
>hiking
Only men do it
>foreign language
Same only men show up
Some boomer told me to join salsa classes and i did, it was all men and most if those had to be cancelled because no women showed up

>>82084014 (OP)
i literally do top 3 all the time but still no bitches
top attractive hobby should be hitting the gym, hobbies only start mattering if you're handsome

My hobby is making threads about "moids" while wearing lipstick and women's clothing, the larping gives me a boner

>>82084014 (OP)
>reading
I wonder if they're okay with me reading Houellebecq
>cooking
Not really that tough when you follow the recipe. It just takes a lot of time. I love baking more.
>swimming
I do this every week as cardio

>>82084019
Anything gaming is an instant no for 99.95% of women
They will see you as still a child, unmanly, unsexy, unfuckable

>>82084014 (OP)
>You wouldnt be an incel if you just had a hobby and met people through that hobby
I have hobbies, foids just aren't interested in them because they are hypernormies

>>82084014 (OP)
How the fuck is speaking foreign languages a hobby?

>>82084058
Same with anime, manga, books etc anything that makes you feminine is an ick to them

>>82084014 (OP)
I play a couple instruments badly, read, and play video games. Then sometimes I'll dabble in random little things like drawing or writing or origami or something like that. Women are disgusted by me.

>travelling
>cooking
>hobbies
What the fuck kind of definition are we using here?

>>82084014 (OP)
i wasn't aware that reading untranslated hentai was so popular with the ladies

>>82084068
Women love when you read as long as it's not incel shit nothing will dry up a girls panties faster than when you tell her how much you loved the 48 laws of power or atlas shrugged.

>>82084058
That honestly makes me enjoy it more. If women aren't seething at it, is it really worth doing?

>>82084014 (OP)
>cooking
>writing
>photography
We all dabble in these things. These are basic life skills in the era of the smartphone. Nobody cares about this unless you're too retarded to functionally do them.

>>82084136
Yeah no they especially despise when you read stuff like classic litterature, its nerd shit and the hate it

>>82084160
Are you talking to women who enjoy reading? I've had plenty of great conversations about classical literature with women and they engage really well.

>>82084160
Women read smut, fan fiction and Harry Potter and think it counts as reading but they also judge me for reading Houellebecq.

>>82084202
I bet it's Jane Austen. It's a meme at this point.

>>82084160
I only like to read fantasy for the most part. Sometimes something that has to do with religion or philosophy or psychology. But mostly just fantasy. What am I supposed to read? What do you like to read?

>>82084202
>women who enjoy reading?
Ive never met a woman who enjoyed reading anything other than 50 shades of grey or gone girl.
Hell i barely meet women who read.
Everyone despises a man who read classics especially if hes ugly, that makes him sound pretentious and faggy. Real men (according to women) dont read.
>inb4 book clubs
Only attended by old people
>inb4 libraries
Only men and kids go to those

>>82084014 (OP)
Pffft. My top three hobbies (excluding videogames and boardgames) are literally the top three on your pic and I'm a 40 year old incel. (I'm not a virgin, but I haven't had sex in over 12 years and will most likely die alone.)

>>82084212
I didnt read a lot. Now i am trying to cath up with classics so i just read whatever is on a hs reading list on my country. I am pretty sure you wont know those authors but amongst the american authors we usually read steinbeck and hemingway.

>>82084014 (OP)
I honestly want to get hobbies and be extroverted but I'm just too anxious and bashful

>>82084055
>I wonder if they're okay with me reading Houellebecq
What a silly question, anon...as with everything else with women it only counts if you do it the "right" way, i.e. do it the way women do.
So, only brainrot politically correct pop shit allowed.

>>82084014 (OP)
Does listening to audiobooks count as reading? I got eyesight problems and am nearly blind in my left eye, reading is a lot of effort.
If so, I've probably read more books in the last 2 years than some 10 women put together.
Now...a good part of them might just have been some 200 works in the Warhammer 40k Horus Heresy collection and the remainder an assortment of post-apocalyptic stories, also Houellebecq, but still, probably read more than the average woman in her entire life.

>and met people through that hobby
Entire list is solitary hobbies.

Also, WTF does it mean to have "foreign languages" as a hobby?
You just collect them like pokemons?
You linger in limbo "learning" a single language your entire life?
I mean...I'm ESL, and being from a country with a Romance language I can also kinda sorta understand a few extra languages, can I make it count as a hobby?

All that being said...I've never seen any woman with a hobby, other than making men miserable in any way possible.

>82084123
>What the fuck kind of definition are we using here?
Women's.
They just order doordash.
And travelling for them is a state of being.

>>82084014 (OP)
Unbelievable blue pilled boomer advice. All social gatherings are a form of hierarchy. Women select the top of the hierarchy. No matter what hobby group you're in if you're not the best looking guy or the most skilled or the most appreciated by other guys or stand out positively in any other way you're not going to be selected no matter how many people you surround yourself with.

>>82084211
I mean Jane Austen is a fantastic author, but no I'm talking about Suskind, Mary Shelly, Stoker, Sartre, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Balzart, Allen Poe, Vonnegut etc.
A lot of the girls I talk to actually study literature so they're much more well read than me.

>>82084222
Have you ever attended university?

>>82084123
Are you really struggling with the difference between cooking as a necessity and cooking as a hobby

>>82084297
>I mean Jane Austen is a fantastic author
They're only reading Pride and Prejudice and touch nothing else

>>82084281
Furthermore: women can do everything better nowadays. Want to play music with others? The women have been playing their instrument since 4 years old and look down on you. Want to create art? You're drawing stick figures while the women already earn money on social media with their creations. Want to read, write, discuss? The women are probably rich literature and philosophy students who have learned all the politically correct and in vogue opinions from those they deem intellectually superior so they will look down on anything you have to say. Want to try a cooking class? The women are building wedding cakes while you're cutting onions slower than her grandma. It's all a humiliation ritual to keep you "self-improving" because you're never good enough while they have been fucking criminals, drug addicts, alcoholics, cheaters, frauds and every other scum since childhood.

>>82084312
I'd say pride and prejudice is her best so I don't really see an issue with that even if it was the case.

>>82084306
Yes i have a masters degree

>>82084014 (OP)
I play a team sport but nobody cares.

>>82084297
>sartre the argonian
>good author
Kek

>>82084014 (OP)
I read, am learning Japanese (at n5, so a long way to go yet), I cook, I write, I was a photographer for 2 years - mostly wedding, but some stock photography too. I'm also into astronomy, hiking, and travelling.

Friendly reminder that what people SAY they find attractive and what they actually DO find attractive are very different.

>>82084019
Me too! I have a game on Steam, Switch, and Xbox One. Fun and (mostly) free hobby, and a great way to make some extra money!

>>82084136
Last book I read was Hyperion. Currently reading the second in the trilogy. Mentioning books has never, NEVER, helped me with women.

What has helped me with women? Two things

1. Saying hello

2. Not talking about myself

2 is key. Be evasive, don't say anything about yourself. Be mysterious. Get her to talk about herself. At least, it works for me. Until eventually they meet somebody better and leave me, but I get further than most the bots here!

>>82084058
If 99.95% of women don't like it, that means it is absolutely based

>>82084014 (OP)
So this is stupid, I have plenty of hobbies, 3 of those are on this list and none of them contribute to getting a gf at all.
>woodworking
This just amounts to me staying in my grandpa's old shed and tinkering.
>blacksmithing
Same as above
>archery
Like 5% of archers are women and they are all kids or old, I got to events there's never any women my age unless they are somebodies gf being dragged along.

>>82084340
And you never onced talked to a woman throughout your degrees? Impressive.

>>82084058
Not true at all, if you are attractive its just another loveable quirk they can brag about to their girl friends.

>>82084358
>Be evasive, don't say anything about yourself.
Think this might be what went wrong for me because multiple women told me to express myself more. It's the end of the trial period. I really would like to be able to express myself but I guess it'll have to wait.

>>82084014 (OP)
Dude if a girl is actually voting on something like that, shes probably like so fucking dumb and ugly. Like I can barely work up the effort to answer a single one of those stupid questions on okcupid. Dude if they tried to quiz me on something like that id be so uninterested. Data harvesting is like the gayest most boring shit ever. It doesnt even mean anything dude, hobbies are like not even a thing at all. Lol if u do a hobby ur literally touching guys balls dude thats fucking gay as fuck. I can barely go outside without grinding my teeth in anger at all these hot guys around me, I think id go crazy if I was touching their balls id probably shoot myself.

>>82084371
You should express yourself! It's very important. Just don't express yourself when you're trying to meet women. Express yourself through music or art, through conversation or the way you live your life. But if your goal is to meet a women then no, don't express your true self, rather express your best self while keeping the mystery alive.

>>82084058
Henry Cavill is an out and proud Warhammer and PC gaming nerd, and has been for years. Still loved by many because he is a tall, handsome guy. He even seethed at the people who made the Witcher show because he spent a ton of time reading the books to get in character while the creators were your generic tard writers. If you look good and/or are not a total turbo autist then it wont be too bad, if you are fugly and an autist its a death sentence, but it would be over at that point anyways.

>>82084014 (OP)
i do have a hobby. i do it for fun. not to socialise and most methods of monotising it does not sound appealing. yes, you ugly foid, you can do something just for fun

>>82084014 (OP)
I do all of these things except Archery and Blacksmithing, and I'd be interested in doing the former.

>>82084014 (OP)
None of those sound interesting

>>82084385
As in more like expressing my thoughts. I do feel I already live my life the way I want it to be, mostly.

How far did you manage to go with femanons here? I might also be a bit clingy because I sound like I want to talk all the time, which is true lol. I just want to have someone to talk to each say.

>>82084014 (OP)
Just become a blacksmithing woodworker.
Those ain't hobbies, those are trade jobs.

>>82084058
Tons of women are also gamers, what are you talking about?

>>82084464
I've done pretty alright for a robot, though never when I was being direct or honest.

>>82084485
Sure, but those aren't the kind of women we meet. The kind of women we meet get the ik the very moment they know we play games.

>>82084511
I feel like that's just normies in general, even as a foid back in 5th grade I got bullied hardcore for having an anime backpack and playing Minecraft by both men and other women. Mind you I was not naruto running or really even talking about it with others. (nobody wanted to play minecraft with me, i feel like this is the event that led to my downfall as a human)

>>82084014 (OP)
I play a few instruments but those hobbies are mostly solitary.

>>82084503
>I've done pretty alright for a robot, though never when I was being direct or honest.
I think I used to be like that as well. I had another online friend mentioning I was always talking to several girls. Still khhv but that's beside the point lol.

>>82084014 (OP)
>Cooking
>Painting
>Photography
>Hiking
Did this shit for over 10 years, where tf is my gf? Oh, right... it all means nothing because women only want Chad, of course. Keep seeing images like this posted once in a while with no sauce. Probably because it's so FAKE and GAY.

>>82084368
Barely, men and women were very separated. You could go youre entire uni life and never talk to a woman a single time.

I'm a professional gamedev (hobby project got 10 million players), and do digital art and UX for fun
so how come no girl has come to sit on my face yet?

>>82084014 (OP)
If you're not a fucking normal person, it usually doesn't work.

>>82084014 (OP)
Glad I don't take foid advice anymore. Did nothing for me while I was led along by shitty women. Now I talk to a girl who just get turned on by the things I do and I actually get to talk about them and not get stupid ass responses like "that's cool". Love how they put this garbage out bit not a single foid will actually be able to engage you with any of this. Most of them don't have hobbies at all. Or they say they do but don't actually do anything. Not worth your time on these harpies.