Why do so many women (if not most) hink like this?

>>82086340 (OP)
Even at 26 they dont want to marry
They dont want to marry and have families at all even

>>82086340 (OP)
i was so desperate to get in a relationship when i was 19 and no one would date me i eventually stopped caring because sometimes the point is without u

>"investing to retire" dude you're 19 relax

>>82086340 (OP)
Idk if most women think like that desu...i've seen a lot of girls on tiktok (and some men) complain about how people on dating apps just want one night stands and how hard it is to find someone who wants a serious relationship

>>82086373
you get into a relationship ajd then that person is mentally ill

>>82086373
Yeah they say that after having taken 20 Chad cocks

>>82086373
girls have always complained about that but then they turn around and have another ons with the next nice face that comes along. guys who complain about that are just humblebragging

>>82086340 (OP)
I don't get this mentality.
It's like know before you know.
wow, cool. try living life that way and you'll realize by the end you've gone through life trying nothing.

>>82086340 (OP)
They are whore who want to spend 10-15 years having casual sex and orgies and other things to "get it out of their system" before they inevitably settle down into miserable marriages.

>>82086340 (OP)
They think marriage is a prison when in fact being a slave to your desires is the true prison

Women are susceptible to social norms which include devalued motherhood and capriciousness. A woman who doesnt want to commit to a suitor does not desire him. Isn't it funny that something so simple and obvious needs to be said.

>>82086340 (OP)
Because our society has been hijacked by demons who have been brainwashing the populace for decades.

Best we can do is fight back, inch by inch.

Women cry about infantilization yet at the same time say shit like that. Are you responsible for your own life or not? Are you an adult or not?
Make your goddamn mind

>>82086340 (OP)
>I'll live to 80 so that means I can waste my youth doing dumb shit
They seethe at something called biology

>>82086340 (OP)
>don't marry, go suck cocks and "enjoy" life
Women really are women's biggest enemies. At least older men say for young men to not commit the same mistakes he did, meanwhile older women incentive such mistakes
It isn't possible to understand such reasoning if you've a working brain and not be a retarded nihilist

>>82086340 (OP)
If I wanted to be an AIDS infested faggot retard with downs syndrome and read xitter posts I would be visiting xitter right now, but no, I'm not, oh wait

you can only really do things once anyway

>>82086542
Yeah, go rob a bank and get topped by a big guy. You only live once so you should try everything

>>82086564
obviously i mean you should do everything right to avoid issues since things can go badly

>>82086514
>if you've a working brain
The problem is that women don't have working brains

This is why as 34yo I'm already fucked. The only women willing to date me are going to be late 20s/early 30s women and regardless of how they feel, I already know they are ran-through by that point.

Might as well just pump & dump or prostiemaxx, or both.

>>82086340 (OP)
Almost anyone who isn't a pathetic virgin with no life experience thinks like that, at least outside of Saudi Arabia.
You're insane.

>>82086630
Do most people just want have mindless sex with no connection whatsoever? I don't really get it

>you only live once
That's a retarded argument. Imagine saying to somebody that they should try to be an engineer, a baker, a doctor, a teacher, a police officer, a lawyer, a banker, etc.
You aren't supposed to do everything and you need to be super retarded to believe so

>>82086630
You're delusional. The large majority of people want to be loved by the person they are with in a lifelong monogamous relationship.

Women say shit like this then complain when you say they're whores
If enjoying life to you is just being a slut then there's no logical defense to that

>>82086443
Post new pics of Snood, anon

>>82086644
No, people just think it's bizarre to even think about marriage at the age of 19 and think that's a massive irresponsible red flag and probably indicates having no prior relationship experience.

>>82086670
Which is an entirely different thing than dating to marry at the age of 19.

What you weirdos don't get is that people in general don't "date to marry" to begin with. They date and then iff they're still together after 7 years in a healthy relationship have confidence that it'll last and decide to get married proposing to get married to someone you're dating for even a year is considered a sign of massive irresponsibility by any adult with a modicum of life experience, especially thinking about marriage before you've even started really dating is.

Literally everyone that holds that opinion are nihilistic pieces of shit. Just press then enough and they'll spill it, just ask enough whys and they'll say "Nothing matters anyway. We're just dust/atoms/cells"
And those people don't deserve to be heard and they should kill themselves if they think that nothing matters

>>82086739
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAA
Literally the best marriages that I know they married at 19-21
Now, mister retarded, go ahead and be a retard. No healthy relationship last 7 years before marriage being proposed, the guy or the woman are just wasting your time

>>82086739
>bizarre to even think about marriage
So most people aren't looking for a long term committed relationship at 19? That seems weird to me

>>82086739
Dating is for finding a partner in a lifelong commitment. Marriage is generally understood as an expression of lifelong commitment. Anyone in a relationship can be expected to consider marriage. 19 year olds can marry. 19 year olds can commit. Age does not have the implications you suggest. Not because they are mature or committed but because age is not related to commitment. As a teenager I loved and was committed as were most in relationships. The idea that you propogate, that young adults are incapable or unaware is the biggest harm to commitment.

>dating is for fun
Most people are soulless, narcissistic and evil
Other people aren't clowns and entertainment for you

>>82086340 (OP)
This is why you don't marry anyone after 30 at most. They only want to marry when their youth runs out, and when they have youth they want to spend it with other men.

>>82086359
Women want to wait until they're in their 40s before they think about having kids. They don't want to use their youth on their beta husbands.

>>82086365
Yeah that was me. What's funny is that the girls we wanted to date were likely also desperate for a relationship from the guy they were sleeping with

>>82086765
Anon, almost no one marries at 19-21.
That you even say this shows how off base you are with no real life experience. Being married at 19 is highly unusual.
https://flowingdata.com/2017/11/01/who-is-married-by-now/

>>82086796
That's not what "dating to marry" means. It means that at 19 years of age you're telling someone "I can see myself marrying you" and many people consider that a serious sign of irresponsibility because you can't know that yet at that point and you can especially not know that when you haven't even spoken to someone yet.

You date to find out /whether/ marriage is feasible and guess what, in most cases it isn't and people with actual relationship experience know that, which is why most people consider comments like that a sign off someone with zero prior experience who's still living in the naive delusions that first love is going to last forever.

Like you people, you probably all have zero actual relationship experience and seriously think that the first time you'll find someone it's going to last forever; statistically it won't.

>>82086843
>le experience
Just call what you are, a slut or a manwhore
>le virgin
First that isn't an insult, second I've a woman. Retard fucks like you're annoying. You don't have experience, you're just a retarded that fucked/got fucked by many people and think that makes you understand people

>>82086340 (OP)
i was dating to marry at 16 and gave up on women at 22, ill be killing myself on my birthday

>>82086739
>iff they're still together after 7 years
thats actually kind of sad
that sounds like what someone in their late 20s and afraid to be alone in their 30s would do

>>82086340 (OP)
Women have their options, they're in no hurry to settle down unless a man checks all their boxes. Men are dumb enough to believe that marriage equals infinite access to easy pussy.

>>82086630
>>82086739
>you're a pathetic virgin for wanting a committed stable relationship
Seriously, go kill yourself. If you're gonna be a whore then at least shut up about it and don't shame others for wanting fulfillment and love.

>>82086843
Most people in relationships want to be with their partner for the forseeable future. Dating means you've already considered them, not a process of considering. Your guessing at my relationship experiences is humorous and not relevant. Commitment is not irresponsibility. Those two are not perfectly related either.

>>82086860
Anon, the statistics don't lie. Almost no one stays with his first love and it's just utterly naive to believe it's going to last forever.
Being convinced you're going to marry your first love is no different than those retards who tattoo the name of their first love on their body at a young age and then they break up.

>>82086739
>What you weirdos don't get is that people in general don't "date to marry" to begin with. They date and then iff they're still together after 7 years
So they're dating with the intent to marry?

>>82086843
>You date to find out /whether/ marriage is feasible
That's literally dating to marry you absolute retard.

>>82086843
Do you want to bring statistics?
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10989935/
Marrying a virgin is statistically the best thing you can do in all possible realms, though I doubt you think that's a good thing
People like you don't want the truth. Just want data that agrees with your pre established beliefs

>>82086888
>Almost no one stays with his first love
That doesn't mean it isn't better than having a bunch of partners and whoring yourself out. You're a woman though so you don't understand morality

>>82086340 (OP)
Why would I want to be emotionally vulnerable with someone who I know is going to become a stranger again? That doesn't sound like fun, that sounds like setting yourself to get hurt

>>82086924
>who I know is going to become a stranger again
How could you ever possibly know that you fucking retard? God women are genuinely retarded, they think they can read minds and see the future yet end up getting lovebombed and pumped and dumped by abusechads

>>82086843
>Women talk about how they need to go to therapy because of their ex
>Also claims that they are better for having more relationship experience.

A 35 year old woman looking to marry isn't expereinced, she's got 5 years to find some guy and squeeze out a child, she literally wasted 17 years to get to that point where the only thing she has to show for it, is extra wrinkles, being jaded, having a decaying body and a closing fertility window. Meanwhile the 20 year old has more energy, more positivity, etc. If it fails it's just a waste of time.

>>82086959
Stupid bitch got BTFO and left the thread lmao total slut annihilation

>>82086939
When you read their tinder bio or whatever, and it says they are "dating for fun"? Maybe you should get your reading comprehension checked cause it seems like you've misread what I've typed?

>>82086843
>t. whore
dating to marry means NOT dating just to fuck
ie long term vs short term

>>82086977
So then don't date the person with "dating for fun" in their bio you absolute fucking retard cum slut

>>82086888
Cool. They can date and have experiences of give and take, communication, etc. The issue isn't the dating, it's them fucking these dudes then expecting other guys to get down on one knee, say she's special and risk half his shit after the fact. You fucked a guy, and I'm supposed to pretend we are soulmates or some shit? LMAO nah. You can be special, but only if you don't have another dudes dick inside you, it's emasculating to imply you're somehow special and my other half, when you bent over for a guy who didn't view you that way, if he did you would be married and still together.

>>82086999
reindeer man actually can hurt you though

>>82087000
This comment is exactly why virginity will always be important to men. Foids can cope all they want about how it's "just a social construct" and "doesn't matter", but it will never change the fact that losing your virginity makes you worth less.

>>82087020
Women say virginity is a social construct and men are weird to demand it since it doesn't matter. Then make article after article, tweet after tweet, seething about men not marrying them.

>>82087032
>Everything is a social construct man
>This subjectivism post-modern mentality
Even if you were to remove yourself from religious and moral arguments, you'd still find that there is a difference between sleeping with 200 people once and one person 200 times. It is a difference in mentality, in behavior, and it is incompatible with monogamy if that is what you're looking for. If you're not looking for a virgin or for monogamy then hooking up or marrying a non virgin is a non issue

Btw the majority of normies agree with that Twitter user. Your opinion is in the minority. You have no one.

>>82087032
Idk the only ones I ever see bitching and complaining about not being married is all the faggot moids of this board.

>>82087071
>majority of normies
How do you know that?
Besides "murder is wrong" and things extremely basic, it's basically impossible to prove that most people agree with something

>>82087071
Dont worry im sure your hymen reconstruction surgery will be very convincing on the right person.

>>82087071
Yeah and most people are stupid and morally bankrupt.

What's your point foid?

>>82086340 (OP)
Women don't want to be married. They want the ceremony and cake and their expensive dress and shiny ring. The photoshoot and friends congratulations. But they don't want to be committed to a man. Even Chads are just interchangeable boytoys.

>>82086340 (OP)
I kinda agree with this. I married my childhood sweetheart straight out of high school (we were both 14 when we met). And we separated 4 years after getting married cause we were too much immature

>>82087194
>I married my childhood sweetheart straight out of high school
Anecdotes are the tool of the retarded. My friend did the same and they're going 10 years strong with 2 kids
You and her being "immature" was a skill issue and proof you didn't actually liked each other that much. If you love someone you wouldn't mind them being immature, because you'll grow and learn with them

>>82086340 (OP)
Literally what is the point of dating then?

>>82087228
NTA but you're doing the same thing. Statistics show that almost no one marries their first love and stays together long

>>82087247
for women dating means associating with a non familial male who is expected to pick up the tab

>>82087291
Statistics show most Americans are obese, better just stop that gym membership and diet and just accept your life as a whale. Hell 100% of people die, why try to live?

>>82086340 (OP)
i am a 22 year old woman who only dates to marry so i have never had any sexual or romantic experience in my life but it is so difficult to find a likeminded guy who does not care about hedonism but wants to seriously tie the knot and start a family as soon as possible the clock is ticking for me i have no time to wait for a man to make up his mind on whether he wants a wife and kids or not

>>82087442
Sure you are. You have never had sex? At all?

>>82087415
You're an actual retard with no life experience

>>82087491
People with no life experience are precisely the ones who don't get married at a young enough age. It's too late for most of them.

>>82087498
Then why do the majority of really young marriages not last

>>82087563
>majority of really young marriages not last
Because they weren't each others first.

>>82086340 (OP)
It's best to wait until 24, then you're good to fuck. No woman in her right mind would fuck you when you're 23.

>>82087578
You need to get some pussy

>>82087583
Why would they asshole?

Marriage is so fucking overrated. You're all zogged.

>>82087463
no. why is this concept so crazy to you?

>>82086838
you can even clownmaxx by going to the club, it probably won't work. the dating game has always been brutal and full of realpolitik

So in other words she's encouraging girls to date to break up, that's what that means, the logical conclusion of any successful relationship is marriage so if you're against that you're already cosigning the eventual dissolution of the current relationship, what an absolute sham

>>82087752
Nah, you aren't 22 and have never had sex. It is easier for a woman to get sex than it is a man to get sex.

Even if women were dating with the intent to marry they still woildn't date me so it doesn't matter

>>82087796
yes i am a 22 year old woman and a virgin, i explained the reasons why in my original post. i don't care about "getting sex" and how easy it is. you people who are obsessed with sex are all animals.

jewish psyops

>>82087833
Yeah but who cares about you

>>82087844
what are you looking for in a moid aside from commitment and not being hedonistic

>>82087858
That's what I'm saying, man

>>82087859
>6 foot 4
>makes over 200k
>good physique
>handsome
>pays for all of her shit
And she wonders why she can't find a guy that meets her standards

>>82087796
There's some, but they often marry a guy and basically force him to cheat or break up because they've low libido and will have sex with him once a month

>>82087491
>anon provides logic as to why appeals to popularity are fallacious
>idiot foid gets angry and resorts to "you're a dumb virgin"
Shoot yourself you useless hole

>>82087955
I have all of this except the money, dating isn't very difficult for me I often have girls pay for my stuff, I also have an 8 inch cock so that helps

>>82087859
>20-29 years old
>eu citizen
>has a source of stable income
>enjoys my company
>wants kids
>not fat

>>82087975
Lmao he just gave a false equivalency. The majority of young marriages don't last and he starts talking about obesity

>>82088025
Standards are too low and not allocated to the right domains, pass

>>82087959
That or they're comphet autsistic women who aren't even attracted to men in the first place and inevitably abandon him and their kids to go have 20 cats with some lady in another state.

>>82088029
Dumbass foid doesn't even know what a false equivalency is, lmao.

Argumentum ad populums are fallacies and Anon proved that. Now take some initiative and shoot yourself.

>>82088053
well what do YOU look for in men?

>>82088061
All I said was that the most sucessful marriages aren't between young couples

>>82088061
>>82088115
Also you're an unmarried virgin so why do you care

>>82088025
>eu citizen
Is this code for white, or if some Frenchie of Algerian descent met those requirements, would you go for him?

>>82088148
i prefer white guys but that was not about race, i just really want to settle down in an eu country.

>>82088115
>>82088128
It's funny seeing women change their tone after getting owned, keep your mouth shut you dumb whore

>>82088192
>>82088025
>32
>not an eu citizen
>neet for life
>dont want kids
>bmi of 26
what are my chances?

>>82088229
Damn this lonely incel sure owned me

>>82088246
>you hear that? You're a LONELY INCEL. That means that I'm not a complete retard
Keep making a fool out of yourself cum dumpster

>>82088081
Enjoys company is a given, redundant to even mention, no age limit as long as they look good and don't act too juvenile, generally composed and collected, not fat is fine that's up to personal preference, I prefer a BMI between 18.5 and 20, they have to live locally sure that's also a given and not worth mentioning, "stable source of income" implies you want them to be able to buy you shit, that sounds like a shallow basis for a romantic partnership, they should be compatible with you personality-wise first and foremost, as for kids I feel like that's a pretty shallow egocentric pursuit as well, "I want more of me!" the world doesn't need anymore of your spores, be thankful for the life you were given, kids are just pets but more demanding and stressful

>>82088235
the biggest incompatibility would be the fact that you don't want kids
>>82088306
you mentioned no standards besides good looks but i am "egocentric" and "shallow" for having completely reasonable, varied ones? lmao fuck off.

>>82086888
>Almost no one stays with his first love
Nobody says "first love" and means it in the normie redditor sense of "fat hognog that gave me a handjob in exchange for $50 and gas station roller food back in my senior year of highschool"

>>82088392
>they look good and don't act too juvenile, generally composed and collected
You're too retarded to speak with thanks for letting me know

>>82086340 (OP)
because its a fun, interactive toy.

>>82086340 (OP)
If you're 19, you don't know what the fuck you want and will probably wildly change your mind multiple times over the course of the next few years, so it's hard to take anyone saying they want a life-long commitment seriously at that age.

>>82088423
wow, your standards are so high and allocated to the right domains, being good looking and mature are not a given or redundant to mention at all. i was way more specific than your generic answer. retarded coming from someone who had a lot to say about my standards.

>>82088565
>it's hard to take you seriously when you say you want something you've been primed for by 100s of millions of years of evolution. It's like wanting to have kids or have money. How do you know that in 10 years you will still want to have money and a family? That would be like, a modestly affluent life but how would you know as a 19 year old man that's taller and has broader shoulders than me?

>>82086340 (OP)
aren't men the main ones saying marriage is bad and telling men to never get married? why are you mad at this?

I understand why normalniggers believe there should be a 5-10 year period where you act as degenerate as possible before settling down. I just wish that standard wasn't forced onto everybody else. Theres nothing out there for young, responsible people.

>>82088798
Marriage is bad because women do that decision at 19 and then in their late 20s they want to settle with the baggage of their decision, and of course, they destroyed themselves so much they can't even settle anymore and after a few years they get bored again and break the marital vow

I don't know any men, so I used dating apps and most of attractive men only look for hookups, basically only indian guys looking for marriage. I'm only looking for white reasonably attractive dude, but it's impossible. I'm 30 year old virgin. I saved it for too long and now it feels too late to have a first time at all, kinda crazy.

>>82088392
>rejected by a femcel
b-but i have a big dick?!

>>82088957
Yeah attractive men don't wanna commit to an ugly bitch and let her ruin their life with marriage when they could be banging Stacies for fun. Shocker.

>>82088734
I would argue with you, but there is no point. You will come to agree with me in a few years, sport.

>>82088957
why couldn't you find someone?

>>82089131
Because when she says "reasonably attractive" that means top 10% of faces

>>82089146
Don't forget a full head of hair and height. My face doesn't matter in the slightest since I'm 5'10 and bald. The fact my "level" is obese with tattoos and this is purely because of my genetics compared to their choices makes this whole thing a sham.

All the women ITT are trannies btw.

>>82089616
Women think they're more morally righteous because their standards are based on genetics instead of choices

>>82086888
>Anon, the statistics don't lie. Almost no one stays with his first love and it's just utterly naive to believe it's going to last forever.
>love
>l o v e
Marriage is not about commiting to the first person that triggers your hormones you fucking idiot. This is why you clowns can't see anyone being competent enough to get married young - you assume what they are selecting for it's hot teen romance that will magically last 60 years. Your nmgi and I'm not even joking, you have the mentality of an adult who reads YA novels.

Marriage is a social contract to get fighting age men to buy into the civilizational project instead of killing eachother over breeding access - or pumping n dumping women, leaving single moms to raise antisocial criminals. You guarentee them breeding access in exchange for fighting to defend the border, working to hold up the economy, and paying taxes to help the state maintain infrastructure. This is not complicated. Marriage is not about romance. "Romance" is a Medieval invention and it always centered around lustful adultery (Sir Lancelot fucking King Arthur's Wife) or later forbidden teen love (Romeo and Juliet). Most marriages were ARRANGED until like 200 years ago, or at least orchestrated and encouraged by families and close friend groups until the 60's social revolution. No one is saying that 16 year olds should impuslively marry the first person who gives them butterflies. They are saying pair bonding and being satisfied in a relationship is easier when you haven't "tried out" a dozen other humans like you were selecting a pair of fucking shoes.

>>82089841
Yeah womens main thigns are face and height. Meanwhile being fat is a choice, tattoos are a choice, having sex is a choice, etc.

>>82090250
Trvthnvke.
Why the fuck would anyone fight for a shithole society that can only offer you a used up feminist whore still seething over being pumped and dumped by fuccbois?

>>82090372
>can only offer you a used up feminist whore still seething over being pumped and dumped by fuccbois?
Bold of you to assume they offer you that. You will be told you don't deserve anything, and if the woman you desrcibed does feel like you're worthy of her presence, then you're expected to be happy, god forbid you have any kind of expectations and standards of your own. Fatphobic, slutshaming, you're insecure, etc.

Western society doesn't offer men anything. It simply tells them what to do, and tells them to be happy with any scraps they get.

>finding myself before i wanna settle for a good man after my party phase when im 25
bitch thats called being a whore

>>82086340 (OP)
shit bruh, why even call it dating then? fwb is a thing if you want to be like that... is it too late if i never got laid or relationships to age 23 guys? I'm so tired...

>>82086340 (OP)
captcha 8ksgm

>>82086739
>They date and then iff they're still together after 7 years in a healthy relationship have confidence that it'll last and decide to get married
Ok so they date to marry? Thanks faggot you said the exact same thing in a roundabout way.
>>82086843
>You date to find out /whether/ marriage is feasible
OH so you mean dating to marry? THANKS FAGGOT you said the EXACT SAME THING.

Jesus fucking Christ you are either INTENTIONALLY missing the point like a retard or the cognitive dissonance of you fucking dozens of guys or chicks or whatever your persuasion is is setting in and it makes you bitter.
>>82086959
>>82090250
>>82090479
TRVTHNVKES so brutal it BTFO this retard straight out of the thread

>>82086379
Well yeah, obviously. They're dating (You)

>>82091169
>is it too late if i never got laid or relationships to age 23 guys? I'm so tired...
Of course not. Just reevaluate your lifestyle and try to take up hobbies or regularly scheduled activities that can frequently put you in contact with women in your age group. Also work out and make sure you have at least a non-fat body.

>>82087844
we literally ARE animals, and caring about aqquiring a mate is part of being one. you're the weird one. some animals fight to the death for the right to mate. some animals mate anyway knowing full well it'll kill them (insects, cephlopods). just because your overly picky/anxious about sex doesnt mean you're better than anyone. not being able to aqquire a mate is a serious issue and the fact that it's happening en masse is concerning for the species

>>82086843
You are arguing with thirdies who are still absorbing culture shock from the real world coming to their village 10 years ago, as far as they know you're supposed to get married at age 12, arranged by your parents, then squirt out 15 kids before dying promptly at age 40

>>82086895
That is dating with the possibility of marriage, not with intent. They just go into it and see how it goes. Acceptable outcomes:
>meet once, no vibes. never talk again
>meet up, some vibes. fuck 1 to 5 times then never talk again
>date but bail after a few months
>date but bail after a few years
>date and never bail after spending several years with the possibility on the table. get married since there's no end in sight anyway and they feel good about the life-long prospects.

>>82086340 (OP)
Our entire society post hippie 1960s has delayed adulthood by a whole decade. It is a consequence of the sexual revolution of the 1960s, female financial independence from men, the pill, abortion, the "finding myself" life trajectory narrative boomers created, etc. It has been one of the single most damaging 20th century developments for birthrates imaginable. Untold, incalculable damage. The fact of the matter is a woman biologically speaking could have been having children as early as 15 (the whole idea behind the quinceanera). Her peak fertility is 21-22. Her twilight fertility is 28-29. The window is 90% closed at 30. Its over at 35. And 30-35 is exactly when modern hoes think you should get serious about marriage and children. So fucking absurd its laughable if it didn't have such dire consequences.

>>82091946
>thirdies
Just look at India and Africa age of consent and Europa and America age of consent then come back

>>82086340 (OP)
Because choosing a life partner when you're so young is retarded.

>>82092405
>so young
19 isn't young. If you're an irresponsible retarded at that age, then that's your fault, not of others.
Men led armies at that age

You're supposed to get married by the end of uni which is 21. The economy pushed it to 30 but we're no different than we used to be biologically or socially.

>>82086340 (OP)
The only thing that should have been posted ITT is image that explains that women's ability to pair bond tanks the more partners they have. We are long overdue having these threads get ignored for reporting that water is wet for the millionth time.
>>82091247
kekked

>>82091987
Holy trying to split hairs and failing badly

>>82092433
people in the modern age really just LOVE infantilizing everyone. Wouldn't be surprised if some how they raised the age of being an adult again.

>>82086340 (OP)
can someone explain to me what the hell the point of dating is if not marriage? You're entering a temporary connection to see if you work well together before settling into a life you build together. There's no other reason right? If you do it out of love you'd obviously want to make it official. makes literally no sense.

>>82090250
I genuinely think the worst part of the modern age is how much people don't understand what "love" is. Love is NOT a feeling. It is and never should be considered a feeling. Feelings are fleeting from one moment to the next let alone years. What you are describing is infatuation, lust, or a crush. True love is explicitly when you stay together deapite everything, even your own differences. Coming to understand each other and handle problems as one rather than selfishly move on to "better pastures" when the going gets rough. True love is something that anyone can have with anyone. It simply is a matter of being willing to have it with that person and that decision being mutual.

>>82092907
>girlfriend constantly cheating on boyfriend
>boyfriend is supposed to suck it up and spend the rest of his life with her

>>82092927
In that case the bond of love is broken. Not out of a loss of a simplistic fleeting emotion but by a break down in the association between the two.

>>82092946
So what you're saying is
>leaving your partner is bad

>>82092963
...yes??? If the bond between partners is even the slightest bit amendable it should be maintained. Some circumstances and insividual decisions can make it impossible to amend (like cheating) as it breaks the core concept of the bond. but if you just get into a fight with each other over some dumb shit it should be obvious to any able minded adult that you should focus on mending the relationship rather than hedonistically searching for the next "someone"

>>82086340 (OP)
Tat grl is obviously being mislead by the devil thru telepathic impulses. She has a large following of human souls eager to hear her wisdom. This mad her a prime target 4 the devils influence in mankinds affairs. Do not fall victim to the devils telepathic trix. U must keep a clean mind free frm his words. The divl uses wrds to influence, u cn ezly notice his work. He pulls n claws at ur brain with the fury of a woman scorned with lustful desire. Becuz the divl is a gay man who finds men hot. Byt to reach men he often werks thru a woman. Becuz, the dvl is very evil n loves to lead mankind astray. Becz the devil laughs a lot, the devl is in love with the stuff. He cackles maniacally from behind his extra dimension. Bcuz humns r lovable n funny n he loves to hear them screaming in agony at their own weaknesses. U mst keep a clean n steady mind becuz the dvl wants anyone who can hear or see. He lvs every man becuz they all have minds to hear him.

>>82092927
Cheating is a prime example of the difference between loving someone and having a relationship with them. You can still love someone that cheated on you, you can still care about them as a human being and not wish ill will towards them, but you can't have a functional relationship with them. After all, you can't have a relationship with someone that doesn't want to have one with you, it'd be foolish to trust someone like that.

>>82093100
Satan leads women to cheat becuz he likes to watch mens stomach when they learn of her deeds. It is not the girls fault becuz the devil has a telepathic connection to her ego. Humans r plagued by an evil being calling himself the devil. He likes 2 play tricks involving sex, bcuz of how funny it is 2 watch emotional ppl. He leads humans into bad situations, but u cn always just not listen to him talk. But frst u need to notice wehn the devil is speaking. He uses love drugs, 2 dose ur body instantly wit unquenchable lust. Do not submit 2 the feeling, he has merely teleported a type of chemical into ur bloodstream. Tat is not hormones n is not mankinds animal brain. He is literally a magical teleporting wizard who r playing w souls 4 pleasur. U must notice the devil leading u astray b4 it is 2 late. Bcuz he loves to laugh a lot at failure. Bcuz he is free from the confusion of his doings in our minds. U can notice him talking if u try. Tell me wat he says 2 u. U he talking all day.

>>82086340 (OP)
I know from my parents generation that many of them probably married too early, it might be better to have a few free years so that when you get married your not pining for what you perceive to be super awesome shit you missed out on.

>>82086443
People take it too far, people in the 20's and 30's had kids starting around 29

>>82086514
Older women are married and are telling younger women not to because all of them are miserable in their marriages. So for them it was a mistake. Sorry to break your bubble.

>>82092433
Your pedo desires are irrelevant, 19 is too young to make such a decision.

>>82093521
the age of 18 has been decided as the age that you are able to make those kinds of decisions. Literally legally enforced definition. quit being intentionally obtuse

>>82088025
I have all of those. I live in belgium and work in luxembourg. Idk why youd want to go in the shitropean union. It sucks.