>>82087627 (OP)Overdoing it.
The average slob is so horrific that being a top 1% man is trivial. You probably don't have the money time or genetics to be a top 0.00001% man so guys get demoralized. But becoming a top 1% or top 10% man is easy because the bar is so incredibly unimaginably low.
Dressing / fashion sense is just like the gym. Its depressing that I'm in the top 1% of human male strength / physique. I am no where near male model territory that takes top 0.1% or 0.01%.
Do what you have to do, to be the top guy in a medium sized room.
I'm the hottest thinnest strongest best dressed guy at Target. That aint saying much but the fact is I am brutally better looking that all those other guys at Target, so whats their excuse?
Going into it with the attitude that "I'm going to look hotter than the hottest guy in the movies or on instagram" is a recipe for failing and giving up. Start lower, try being the strongest most athletic thinnest best dressed guy at Walmart on a quiet day. Thats a hell of a lot easier than you'd think, I don't know if thats good or bad news depending how you look at it.