I miss her :(((((
when does the pain stop?

>>82089148 (OP)
literally never
sorry bud

>>82089249
love fucking sucks!!!

>>82089148 (OP)
never but you get used to living with it after a few months

>>82089260
it's about to be 5 months!!!! I can't take it anymore!

>>82089254
love is divine madness

>>82089148 (OP)
It either becomes a blip or someone comes along and you forget entirely.

>>82089275
I like that! that's good, I'll use that in the future (or think of it as a warning if another girl comes into my life)
>>82089281
I only seem to attract insane bpdemons though and part of me likes that even though it's not healthy for me

>>82089293
I broke up with my first a year ago who was also a BPDemon. I get how it sucks but giving them the time (in thought or speech) of day is them further taking from us. Keep that in mind

>>82089249
This. Came here to post this. Actually.

>>82089267
5 months is a bit long yeah, look all i can do is giving you a list of things that work for me, sorry i cant be of much help
>try to find something to obsess on, great if you already have one
>design your entire life around it
>get good at it
>delude yourself into thinking you can make it big
at this point you either discover something you are very good at, and can even make a living out of it, or have a new hobby that you enjoy and have goals about
i know it's not easy, but just keep an open mind about things, go ahead and try if you can

>>82089332
i'm just speaking from experience kek

>>82089342
I could channel my sadness into my shitty drawings, I've been trying to get back into that since she abandoned me but I just don't have the motivation, can't even play videogames anymore but I'll give it a try! thanks for the advice.
>>82089321
I mean at least I'm now able to see that she wasn't good for me but fuck! part of me still misses her very much

>>82089381
If I could ask what do you miss about her? Also what don't you miss about her?

>>82089381
anytime my friend, happy to help.
>can't even play videogames anymore
i understand you so well. i havent had the motivation to play games, watch stuff, or even work out (which was my obsession that took me out of that hole). the motivation comes eventually, you just gotta keep at least some connection to the hobby or interest of question, and wait until motivation hits
also if this is difficult to comprehend, pretty high rn

>>82089396
idk I just enjoyed having someone in my life it was nice not being alone anymore. what I don't miss is how anxious she made me feel all the time I was always afraid she was going to leave me if I messed something up, that anxiety even made me start smoking so yeah I guess she wasn't good for me at all now that I think about it
>>82089418
it sucks because just recently I got a decent gaming pc and I can play whatever game I want and I just have zero motivation ugh I hope I can get over this shitty mood soon enough so I can play some videogames, at least I now have enough motivation to watch some anime and read manga but not enough for videogames

don't worry I was able to comprehend your post

>>82089148 (OP)
Same, I miss lots of male virgins I flirted with online, they all hated me doe. that's why they have me ghosted or permablocked

>>82089459
why did they ghost you? too nervous to talk to you?

>>82089452
>it sucks because just recently I got a decent gaming pc and I can play whatever game I want and I just have zero motivation
man i can relate to this too, i got a pretty good laptop in january, had 3 months of free xbox subscription so a shit ton of games were accessible. But ive only been playing stuff like 18+ vns lol. guess its better than nothing
as i said, things will be okay eventually, just gotta stay strong until then.

>>82089489
Nah I did talk to them extensively and a lot of times, they hated me so they all have me blocked currently

>>82089519
I did play a couple of games ps2 games lol even though I can run modern games but I just felt nostalgic but yeah I don't have the energy for anything too intense right now, but yeah hope things get better thanks anon!
>>82089525
is it ok to ask why they ended up hating you?

>>82089148 (OP)
its been like 3 months without her and i still think about her every 10 minutes
literally my only regret in life is fumbling her lol
good luck buddy

>>82089568
oh yeah the first few months were rough man! good luck to you too!

>>82089561
I don't know, they just blocked me and ghosted me. they never told me why. only one suggested it was because I was too obsessive. this one in particular wasn't a virgin but still a incel since he couldn't feel love

>>82089602
man some people just don't realize how good they have it, I'm sure you'll find someone that likes obsessive girls

>>82089661
Anyone who says this has never been with an obsessive girl.
>>82089602
You gotta admit thats a pattern and you're the common denominator. Reflect and get help

>>82089693
my ex girlfriend was obsessive until one day she suddenly stopped caring it was very confusing sometimes she was very obsessive and clingy and other days she was distant

>>82089561
my pleasure, friend. stay strong and take care