Thread 82090810

So I bought a dildo recently and today tried anal sex for the first time after finally feeling clean enough
Honestly I don't know why people do this, like it does not feel bad but neither overwhelmingly good like all that porn larp out there
And yes I know where and how to hit the prostate and can't say it feels bad but just not exiting
Maybe as a method to simulate a pussy for your bf it's good but I will just keep jerking it with a vibrator in prone position for now because that's how I get the hardest orgasms
No I'm not a tranny just wanted to know what the fuzz is about.

>>82090810 (OP)
Ok gay anon awesome

FAGS OUT OF R9K
GO AWAY ALL FAGGOTS

I'm also gay and I had a similar experience. Stimulating my prostate was so underwhelming. I can't imagine doing it for fun. My future boyfriend better be a side

>>82090827
>>82090833
I'm not even gay but I don't wanna miss out yk
>>82090848
I am fairly sure they are just faking it in porn

no diddy but i love it

>>82090810 (OP)
I love when people think they will have mind numbing multiple prostate orgasms the second they put a dildo in, and when they don't they denounce it forever. You just don't know how to cum.

>>82090942
Then tell me your secret faggot

>>82090962
You just need to have the right mindset when doing it.

>>82091052
What mindset? I was incredibly horny

>>82090810 (OP)
it's much easier to pull off with an aneros
also you probably have to resist touching your weiner (it distracts) and resist cooming (you underestimate your max horny level) at first

>>82091209
>aneros
what's so different about them? I'm already a prejac that's why use the vibrator

Might sound like trite pseud shit, but from experience >>82091052 is most likely right about the mindset, "getting into it" etc.
Speaking of practical things, though, I've only ever managed to get actual hands-free orgasms with my fingers, never with a dildo. Coincidentally, massaging the prostate while also jerking off is what regularly resulted in the most intense, hands-shaking orgasms, instead of said "hands-free" ones everyone keeps harping on about, which were substantially inferior in comparison.
The feeling of fullness a dildo gives is very nice, though.

>>82090810 (OP)
werkz on my machine

>>82091264
>The feeling of fullness a dildo gives is very nice, though
This I agree with, it's very satisfying, like a massage. I just never felt any "built up" and funnily enough despite being horny my dick wasn't hard

>>82091240
it's a buttplug designed to aim at your prostate and to be manipulable by contracting your butt.
with a dildo you have to have your butt further open the whole time, keep it in somehow e.g. by sitting on it, and do more manual positioning.

>>82090962
Its a learned skill you brainlet, try harder.

>>82091461
so basically the flapping up and down of your dick is stimulating enough to cum

>>82091497
what? google it and do some research its not hard. Or be a cumlet i honestly don't care

>>82091527
I think I literally don't have a prostate since I can't feel anything where everyone describes it to be ugh

>>82090810 (OP)
I thought the same until one time I got the right angle and felt a full body orgasm thing.

>>82091590
Nah, it's there, bro. If you're having trouble finding the correct spot, just try fingering yourself while masturbating. It enlarges the closer to climax you get, making it easier.

>>82091209
so much money for a piece of plactic is uuuuh
>>82091595
you give me hope

>>82090810 (OP)
It takes practice, you usually have to lay on your back and aim UP. Smoking weed helps as well as having JOI or porn up. It takes a while but once you feel it you won't want to cum any other way.

>>82091709
hmmm do stims help?
the position you mentioned literally tires my arm out xd personally I found that laying face down and pushing downwards was the best

>>82091754
>laying face down and pushing downwards was the best
nta, but that's also how I usually do it.
You won't get actual "prostate orgasms" that way(if that's even what you're looking for), though, since your dick is still getting stimulation from whatever's under you through friction.

it is genetic imo. Like the second I anally masturbated, it was like something clicked into my head like "wow this is so good I might not be able to cum with just my penis ever again". It's unfortunate that you don't like it, idk my prostate is very sensitive and I can HFO basically every time I anally masturbate. I dom't even get that denied orgasm feeling I feel like anal is a lot better than using my penis. No homo

>>82091823
>it is genetic imo
Sounds like something made-up by those "strict tops" to get out of doing something they (sub)consciously consider emasculating and maybe even subhuman.
Don't believe their lies. Everyone can learn to love getting their bungholes re-arranged if we but try hard enough. Intensively. And through multiple, consequential sessions.

>>82091898
saying it's entirely genetic is just as retarded as saying it has nothing to do with it

>>82090810 (OP)
>he fell for it
lmao faggot alert

>>82091754
Stims help too much but weed is better.

>>82092051
I'm hedonism in person what can I say
>>82092058
why does weed help it makes me really tired

bought an aneros, desu not expecting too much but the fun is you can jerk off while doing it

>>82092083
don't smoke too much m8

>>82091650
What worked for me was placing a dildo in the gap between sofa cushions and then sitting on it all the way until it was resting comfortably up there. Then I rocked gently back and forth with it inside which felt really good. Riding it up and down was still pleasant but not as good.

>>82090962
there is no secret. you just have to be a fag. I've been doing it since elementary school. mindset is needed if you want to cum hands free.

>>82090810 (OP)
It's pretty lame doing it sober and with a dildo, if you are not a fag get a prostate massager and do drugs, the only time I had a hands free orgasm was with a cheap chink prostate massager and lsd

>>82090810 (OP)
I think it all depends on mood and setting. If youre blueballing yourself, have time and space, thrn it can be 9/10, still prostate massager is a bit better for relaxation, dildo is almost a workout, especialy when you ride it.
In comparison to my gf pegging or her handling the toy/fingering me, the latter is another level. You can hit your prostate all you want but when you can relax and focus on feeling when your partner does the job, its waaay easier to reach that tense-feeling and climax. The only other way that I can get close to it by myself on reliable basis is by aneros in a hot bathtub.

>>82090810 (OP)
You can try e-stim but if hitting your prostate like that doesnt feel good, youre litterally not built for it and your neural pathways arent "gay" enough
If you really want it, you might be able to make new connections with shrooms while fucking yourself but yea
Feel sorrry for you anon
>t. gay bottom with p orgasms

>>82091823
This, completely same experience, first time i ever put anything up my butt was a banana and i clenches so hard when i came that I squeezed it out of its shell lmao

>>82090810 (OP)
you bought a dildo? what? you're gay?
>like it does not feel good
how is it not supposed to feel good?
>but neither overwhelmingly good like all that porn larp out there
what larp? do you really get off on getting your expectations dashed by reality