>>82097181
NTA but
>women who engage in taboo kinks and so on are cut-and-dry, oversimplistically deserving of being referred to as "whores"
Drop all the pretense. It's as simple as.
Has casual sex = Whore
Doesn't have casual sex = Not a whore
Yes, a woman who doesn't value her intimacy is a whore no matter the spin you try to give it. It has nothing to do with kinks.
Yes, they're exclusive categories. Having mixed feelings only betrays incoherent behavior.
>Dishonest expectations
No, you aren't entitled to absolute honesty from a person you didn't know a few months ago. You didn't earn that degree of trust
>Given
No, the heavily idealized image of a partner is something not only you build in your mind but you pressure your partner to adopt consciously or unconsciously.
It isn't something that has nothing to do with you. If you pressure your partner hard to live up to your ideals you'll only deceive yourself.
You can't place your expectations on little more than a stranger and then feel betrayed when you actually meet him.