i thought it was bullshit that moids made up but my mum is the prime example as to why theyre right - my mum lost her virginity to an older guy who wanted nothing to do with her romantically at 19 and she still to this day talks to him and visits him. shes had ~10 sexual or romantic partners in this time but hes always been around. shes been pregnant to him twice through hookups with him (aborted/plan b'ed)

i realised i cant lose my virginity to someone im not totally certain i wanna marry because i really dont wanna end up as pathetic as my mum and be doing this shit. cause i have the exact same attachment issues as her

>>82096661 (OP)
>Mum
Nigga is u non american?
In today's climate, you'll be lucky to find a virgin

>>82096661 (OP)
honestly good on you foid for being self aware

>>82096685
yes im non american

i am the virgin, someone clearly didnt read the post

>>82096661 (OP)
>i realised i cant lose my virginity to someone im not totally certain i wanna marry
Man, I did lose my virginity to someone I married and it still went wrong.

Why does God hate me, bros?

>>82096728
those things just happen dude, its ok. not every relationship will work. im just trying to minimise my own risk

>>82096715
I read your post, bbygrl. I was able to infer that you are a virgin and want a virgin. You didn't understand my post. You will have a hard time finding a guy who is a virgin, the kind of guy you want to fuck, get married to, and are attracted to. Women look at a man who is a virgin as someone who is defective and who was filtered and rejected by women; "if no one has had you, why would I want to?"
Men don't view virginity the same way. Maybe she is chaste, maybe she is a good one, maybe she isn't a hoe

>>82096760
>things just happen dude,
True, but what are the fuckin chances? The stats for couples that get married as each other's first partners have a >95% success rate.

Fuck man.

>just trying to minimise my own risk
Definitely a good idea, and I ain't trying to knock it. I just feel like bitching right now, I guess.