>>82100856
> I genuinely want to grow a connection with him
okay OP, that's very nice and wholesome, but only ~1.8% of the US population is east asian
If you are reducing your dating pool by a factor of 50 (compared to someone with no racial preferences), you will need to have something very, very attractive to offer in order to still find a partner.
That or you'll have to significantly relax other standards (height, looks, body type, geography)
But if you're immature enough to have hard line requirement that eliminate 98% of men, I'm sure you are probably expecting 6'+, handsome, and muscular too