Thread 82104312

What's the ideal time to wait before replying to a woman?

>>82104312 (OP)
i ruined my life by taking too long to reply to people

>>82104312 (OP)
2 business days minimum

>>82104312 (OP)
as a femstel, femcel + low esteem, it would be nice to get replies 1> minute because then it feels like an actual conversation, and thats my favorite way of texting people

>>82104332
You say that, but then when i talk to some woman it takes like 5 business days to get a reply.

Dont think about it.
You have stuff to do, you evalue if you want to respong and if you have the mental capacity to deal with her atm.
Be authentic.some times you may respond fast, some times you will be busy for hours when sou are doing shit.
But dont fake it... if you have to do that you already have an oter problem.

>>82104312 (OP)
The time they take to respond to you x1.5

>>82104344
based reply
If you're thinking, "I should wait a bit before replying, i dont want to look desperate", WRONG!!
Yes women dont like desperation, but you have to show interest because you are, but dont be so unoccupied you're always insta replying

>>82104312 (OP)
you should reply right away

>>82104312 (OP)
cycle unpredictably between responding immediately and not responding for a few days, thats how chad does it

>>82104340
Maybe it aint working then and you guys are not communicating on the same level. Why dont you ask or try to remedy it with her?

>>82104332
"Femcel" femcels are not real. You are just a tranny, tryna demonize us incels to turn gay. Fuck you.

>>82104379
So far it has been the same with every female friend i had

>>82104380
Femcel is a female incel in the way that I'd rather bitch and moan and blame other people for being an awkward loser who has poor or anti- social skills but sure I'll agree, men will have sex with ugly, awkward, or fat women anyway, if offered, so women are not incels, going by internet logic

>>82104367
That will probably make me look deperate

>>82104398
Oh this is a friendship, OP?

>>82104406
Maybe it is, but i like to keep things flexible. If something happens, then it'll happen.

>>82104414
thats a good attitude to have. im sure the right lady will feel less puzzling to talk to, maybe this just aint right.

>>82104312 (OP)
Whatever you feel like

>>82104312 (OP)
It depends. I have gone a few days before replying to girls I was leading on or messing around with to see if they immediately responded to me. You shouldn't reply instantly to a fresh message in any case, it makes you look desperate and pathetic.

>>82104436
Please define "instantly"
>>82104426
Idk
Seems like every woman is this way

>>82104445
Within 2 minutes. If a chick responds that fast to your message after you leave her on read for a week, she's hooked and you can use her however you want.

>>82104312 (OP)
personally if a guy waits a long time to respond to me i will think he could not care less about me and be half-assed back

>>82104401
Um how do you type so much and not even stay on topic. You are not a femcel, Kill yourself wannabe. There guys that would fuck you definitely.

>>82104312 (OP)
I added a fembot from here once. She said she likes to sometimes take a full month before replying to dms.

>>82104312 (OP)
3 days

Oregon oregano

>>82104506
>Um how do you type so much and not even stay on topic
easy. im retarded
> You are not a femcel, Kill yourself wannabe
are you a femcel?

Just reply whenever you see it.

I have measured the cuntium with a Geiger counter and determined approximately tree fiddy.

if you reply to a woman you are sinning

i reply to women and anyone as soon as i can, doesnt matter if it is 10 seconds or 1 week

>>82104312 (OP)
It depends on how quickly she replies. If she takes a few minutes to respond, you can reply back after a few minutes. But if it takes her two hours or two days, wait twice as long before you reply.

>>82104312 (OP)
Immediately. Reply very fast. Have the chat open as you wait for replies, sit and stare for hours waiting

>>82104312 (OP)
if you aren't typing while i'm typing, i'm removing you

>>82104312 (OP)
Eh, five minutes. Though I've hardly ever had a real-time text convo.
Sadly, they always slow text, dry text, or ghost. So it never really matters.
Also, if they take forever to message, I am not double texting them.
If it goes dead for a day or more, I block them and move on. Those cunts.
Sadly, I have gotten several who claimed to be DTF, before ghosting anyway. FML.

>>82104312 (OP)
I'm at that age where I don't give a fuck about it anymore
We'll chat a while, and if we like each other we'll chat a while longer
If it starts to get dry, at least have the courtesy to say goodbye

>>82104312 (OP)
There's no ideal time or anything this is all retarded. Only 15 year olds think about this stuff

>>82104404
not at all, it will make you lookattentive

>>82104312 (OP)
Eternity. Why would you want to reply to them?

>>82104695
Jup.
If thats how they think and treat someone who is supposed to be importend...
Holy shit. No wonder these people are on this board.

all the people that said replying to someone under a minute makes you look pathetic are so incredibly insecure it's not even funny