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Anonymous No.82108326 >>82108436 >>82108760 >>82108821 >>82108848 >>82109129 >>82109394
Man I Just Don't Get It
Made a thread yesterday about how I wish I had female friends. Not for romantic prospects, but because I legit just don't talk to many women and I don't know anything about them.

Had a couple fembots ask for a Proton mail, gave it out, got one email that I replied to and got nothing back. Did meet a robot who seems chill though.

Can someone explain ghosting? It confuses the shit out of me.
Anonymous No.82108436 >>82108673
>>82108326 (OP)
Ghosting is cause even a fattie can pop out tinder and catch 50 dicks in one hour.
Anonymous No.82108673
>>82108436
Well I made it decently clear I wasn't in it for a relationship, so I dont think that's it
Anonymous No.82108760 >>82108777
>>82108326 (OP)
Well, you did say you were a fascist. So they probably assumed you were autistic and chose not to talk to you. I would probably just keep the fascist stuff to yourself. People usually don't want to hangout with controlling, authoritarian people.
Anonymous No.82108777 >>82108783
>>82108760
My brother in Christ they offered to talk even after that was said. Why make the offer in the first place?
Anonymous No.82108783 >>82108818
>>82108777
I think only one person did after seeing that and then they probably just changed their mind. My point still stands. I'd keep the facism stuff to yourself or at least not lead with it.
Anonymous No.82108818
>>82108783
Well she asked, I tried not to lead with it because most people don'tlike talking about it. And it was definitely two.
Anonymous No.82108821 >>82108892
>>82108326 (OP)
ill be your female friend, i wont ghost or anything. but anyway, could be a multitude of reasons why they ghosted. it doesn't really have to do with you. just consider it a blessing they left before you got attached, and move on
Anonymous No.82108848 >>82108892
>>82108326 (OP)
>Can someone explain ghosting? It confuses the shit out of me
Because you are just one of 1000+ guys on her mind. She ghosted you not because she decided to, but because you were always just background noise. You just happened to capture her attention for a second. Like the grocery bag that blew across the parking lot that happened to enter your line of sight for a moment.
Anonymous No.82108892 >>82108952 >>82108970
>>82108821
>just consider it a blessing they left before you got attached, and move on
I guess that's fair. Sucks a lot more when someone decides to jump ship after you think you're friends.

>ill be your female friend
Alright, what you wanna talk about?

>>82108848
>one of 1000+ guys on her mind
I mean, maybe. But again, why be here in the first place? I don't understand other people too good I guess
Anonymous No.82108952 >>82108983
>>82108892
>But again, why be here in the first place?
You have to remember that women live moment to moment, almost always without any cohesive narrative. I guarantee you that girl didn't think one step beyond her offer to be your friend. At most, she was like "ooo I like friends", made that offer, then completely forgot about you the rest of the day. When she saw your followup, she thought "meh" and never thought about you since then.
Anonymous No.82108970 >>82108993
>>82108892
dont care as long as it's not sexual or creepy. i'm super into music so we can start with sharing stuff you like to listen to. i'm not a fascist but i don't really care if you're one. you can reply to me with your proton if you want.
Anonymous No.82108983 >>82109042
>>82108952
>remember that women live moment to moment,
I'd argue that isn't a women thing as much as a normie thing. But maybe that's me being naive. I'll reevaluate if/when I talk to more women I guess.

>saw your followup, she thought "meh" and never thought about you since then.
Completely alien to me. Usually if I say something I consider it a commitment and feel wrong until I do the thing I said I would
Anonymous No.82108993
>>82108970
>long as it's not sexual or creepy
Yeah I'm not a fan of talking about sex, personally. I'll make jokes about it with the guys but that's about it.

>music so we can start with sharing stuff you like to listen to
I got weird tastes. E-punk, classic country, and 80s metal mostly.

>reply to me with your proton
jburnsonkeyman@protonmail.com
Anonymous No.82109042 >>82109088
>>82108983
For women, it's not even because they do it out of malice or lack of shame, it's simply a lack of cognative capability. It's like asking a dog to fetch you a water bottle 1 hour from now. You can't hold it against him when he's just chasing the butterfly in the backyard. That's just dogs being dogs. You are seeing women being women.
Anonymous No.82109088 >>82109133 >>82109184
>>82109042
I mean yeah, but again isn't that just a normie thing? There are women out there with 130+ IQs. There are women out there that have helped build nations. Surely, even if it is the rule then there are exceptions?

I imagine it has to be sample bias. If we don't talk to many women, we only see a few, and the most prominent of women are braindead normies then that's one bad apple spoiling the bunch. After all, when you meet a Tatemaxxer that only talks about ESPN and pussy does that affect your view of all men?
Anonymous No.82109129 >>82109170
>>82108326 (OP)
>Did meet a robot who seems chill though.
IT WAS ME
i also have a big fat cock and im NOT albanian
Anonymous No.82109133 >>82109175
>>82109088
Remember that women are much more likely to be normies than men. They epitomize mediocrity.
Anonymous No.82109170
>>82109129
>im NOT albanian
BOSNIA STRONK!
Anonymous No.82109175
>>82109133
I guess maybe that is fair. Damn, what a world eh?
Anonymous No.82109184 >>82109199
>>82109088
my nigga, i talk to a bunch of women wherever i go for the most part i don't know why i always end up in cliques even though transiently, it might be because im a jestermaxxer.
i'll risk it all on my pride as a retard and a gambler.
ALL women are like this...pretty much
Anonymous No.82109199
>>82109184
>ALL women are like this...pretty much
Grim indeed.
Anonymous No.82109394 >>82109432 >>82109490
>>82108326 (OP)
People are busy and forgetful. Don't read too much into it by demonizing the opposite sex, my longest standing friends are female.
Anonymous No.82109432
>>82109394
nigga, i've made a lifelong vow to only have women as friends only and never entangle myself in a relationship not that im found attractive enough anyway and talk to them on the regular.
they are ALWAYS on their fuckin phones fucknigga stop being a normie coper they'll talk to the men they wanna talk to and ghost everyone else, even my "female friends" have ghosted me over text only to act like they didnt do that shit the next day so i don't even bother giving them my number anyway if a chic asks for my number i blatanly lie and say i dont remember any of my contacts.
society gives them an abundance of attention and love so they view the people around them as a commodity they can pick and choose THEY SAY THIS WITH THEIR OWN MOUTHES.
ITS NOT A GENDER DEBATE ITS REALITY
Anonymous No.82109490
>>82109394
>Don't read too much into it by demonizing the opposite sex
Didn't say I hate women or anything. That said, the only time I've ever been ghosted by a man is when he was supposed to do some contract work and then never showed up