Thread 82110728

i wish i could have friends to play vidya with and visit museums with or watch musical shows with but i have the personality of a rock with googly eyes

>>82110728 (OP)
i think rocks with googly eyes look silly what vidya do you play anon

>>82110728 (OP)
>personality of a rock with googly eyes
sounds good, they have a lot of stable charisma

>>82110747
i only play stuff for lonely losers with no friends
i want to play those friend games like amogus

>>82110728 (OP)
>i have the personality of a rock with googly eyes
better than the personality of your average fembot lmao

>>82110728 (OP)
Your personality doesn't matter, it's about how big your penis is

>>82110794
i don't have a pengis

>>82110728 (OP)
same
ive got some online friends i can play games sometimes with but i wish i had ppl to do things physically with. i know nobody would put up with me irl tho, i can mask the boring creature i am online but i cant offline

>>82110728 (OP)
Whats your favorite musical?

>>82110829
at least you can do that
i've tried to make friends online but i can sense they're bored even when i'm trying my hardest to ask questions and stuff so i just give up and stop talking

>>82110785
what kind of things do you play?

>>82110728 (OP)
I can try being your friend, what things do you like doing? Any interests, hobbies? How old are you?

>>82110855
after many many failures it gets easier to entertain ppl. how do you gauge how bored the other person is tho? its easy to over wry and get scared things r going bad even when they arent, id know i do that alot. do ppl stop talking to you?

>>82110853
chicago
>>82110856
fire emblem, pokemon, splatoon, fallout, rpgmaker games, some solo shooters and rpgs, sims 4
but i don't want someone to talk to about the games i've played, i want to play new games with people
>>82110876
i will bore you
>>82110886
i've had many failures and i don't really learn lol
>how do you gauge how bored the other person is tho?
when they start giving dry responses or seem annoyed
>do ppl stop talking to you?
it has happened before but usually i just dip when i see they're bored

>>82110728 (OP)
what friendslop games would you like to play the most?

>>82111027
uhmmm the one with all the horror movie characters that kill each other

>>82111051
Dead by Daylight? That game sucks but I like it. Would you actually play it?

>>82110990
>chicago
I only know Mr.Cellophane from that show. I should really watch the whole thing sometime. Do you like stuff Lin-Manuel Miranda is involved with? I liked Hamilton, but I don't adore his other stuff as much. In the Heights is fun, though.

>>82111068
i would if i had friends to play it with ;_;
>>82111071
>Do you like stuff Lin-Manuel Miranda is involved with?
i haven't had the opportunity to watch any live so not really, it's about the live music experience for me (i don't like concerts that's too scary and loud, sit down theater setting is nice)
i know he did the soundtrack for moana and the music in that movie kinda fell flat to me

>>82110990
>i want to play new games with people
what kind of games would you like to play together, then?

>>82111141
I got to see Hamilton in person! Not with the original cast, but it was still fun. I get what you mean about enjoying the live music. Sometimes I'll watch recordings of musicals on YouTube, but that's mostly because the musicals I want to see haven't toured since the 80s so there's no chance of seeing them live...

>>82111141
Define friends anon I would play with you but I'm not really a friend having type of person you know what I mean?

>>82110990
>i've had many failures and i don't really learn lol
it took me alot of time too lol
>when they start giving dry responses or seem annoyed
oh... do you dip the first time you feel this way with someone? i used to dip when that happened too, but ive found i was often just paranoid abt ppl not liking me, and i wasnt as bad as i thought i was

>>82111166
friendslop
>>82111190
that must've been really cool
i've never been to a big show like that, just small local stuff
>the musicals I want to see
like what?
i really like this old performance from patti lupone, i used to watch this on youtube all the time ;w;
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpjaqswBVIA
>>82111206
like people that i'm really close to and we have a fun group chat and talk everyday and do stuff together
>>82111212
i used to wait a while but these last few attempts yeah i just disappear after the first flop
>i wasnt as bad as i thought i was
but see i don't think my problem is social ineptness, it's my personality

>>82111348
>i used to wait a while but these last few attempts yeah i just disappear after the first flop
mmmmm i understand... it can be so discouraging after so many tries. nowadays i gauge whether things r going ok by whether or not the other person will be the first to initiate a convo or say hi in the first week, if they dont i give up im obv not someone they wanna talk to
>but see i don't think my problem is social ineptness, it's my personality
you seem plenty personable in this thread tho!!

>>82111348
>friendslop
i play mc, lethal and repo with friends, they're fun. but to have even more fun you need, like, a group of friends. maybe you should start a group with people itt?

>>82111398
i usually initiate conversation not the other person
but then i ask if i'm bothering them and they say no?
>you seem plenty personable in this thread tho!!
well i think i'm less nervous being anon but also it gets harder with each subsequent conversation i have with someone
getting to know you phase is usually easy enough unless they are really giving one word responses
>>82111424
yea i meant i wish i had a friend group

>>82111461
>yea i meant i wish i had a friend group
yeah thats what im saying, why don't you take the matter in your own hands? like pick one of those games, say "i'm looking to start a friend group" then make a discord server. that way you can kick people out if they're stupid and keep the ones you like

>>82111348
>like what?
I really wish I could see Sweeney Todd or Into the Woods live, really any Sondheim musical.
>video
I love her energy, she's so cute

>>82111348
Okay sorry that doesn't like me sorry I'm sure other anons will want to play DbD with you, have a nice day.

>>82110990
Those first two games you listed are what I play the most

>>82111461
>i usually initiate conversation not the other person
>but then i ask if i'm bothering them and they say no?
some people are shy and struggle to initiate but ya... some ppl r just weird and wont say their feelings outloud ig. but i use the method moreso to gauge whether the other person cares enough to keep the friendship going, cus that also gives me a solid real indicator of interest from them and if i screwed up
>well i think i'm less nervous being anon but also it gets harder with each subsequent conversation i have with someone
ah... i understand, im like that too. cus i run out of easy fuel to burn for convo topics. i still dont 100% know the fix, besides getting ppl to play games or watch things with me which gives me more stuff to talk to them about

>>82110728 (OP)
How big are the booba, miss?

>>82111479
well... because i'm boring and can't even manage 1 on 1 friendships let alone a whole group
>>82111484
ohh sweeney todd is really fun, that would probably feel magical to watch in person
>I love her energy, she's so cute
yea i took a tap class as a teenager because of this performance (and i was awful)
>>82111497
lol np anon
>>82111539
like you play frequently?
i haven't played either since my switch broke which sucks because i was halfway through my scarlet/violet playthrough
>>82111544
>i still dont 100% know the fix
i think the fix is having things to do with the person or having a very active irl life to talk about / being knowledgable about many topics that you can talk about
but given that these are always friendships between 2 neets, it's like we talk about video games or anime or movies and then that's it
or i dunno, just hypothesizing
the longest e-friendship i had was with a girl who did lots of stuff irl and just liked to talk about herself so she was never bothered by me not having much to say :x
>>82111554
small

>>82111641
>think the fix is having things to do with the person or having a very active irl life to talk about / being knowledgable about many topics that you can talk about
ya u r right... i think the latter is key for neets/loners desu. if one or both parties have a passionate interest then they can talk about it forever, its what i do at least. ofc itll be rare for both anons to share the same passions but it works out in my experience if both understand eachother and let eachother talk passionately and ask questions even if its not the most interesting

>>82111690
>if one or both parties have a passionate interest
i think it has to be both for it to work long term unless it's a case like i mentioned where the person just wants a listener, but then that becomes boring for me too and i feel just as lonely
i wish to be a real person someday and not just a rock with googly eyes

anyway i'm going to eat dinner

>>82111736
both parties need to take turns between being the listener and being the speaker unfortunately...
anyway, i hope your dinner is good anon!! and that one day you feel like a real person one day, i hope the same for myself as i am a husk

>>82111641
Brvtal. I have a history of losing save data on my games myself. Some may say you dodged a bullet by not having to finish that game however
>like you play frequently?
I meant that they are the two series I have the most playtime in. There are very few other games that interest me anymore. Even Pokemon barely counts. I haven't played their actual games in ages, I just like to battle people online
>>82111758
Come on man, you're not a husk. You're at worst a naked monkey staring at a black glass square all day. Go jerk off or something

>>82111853
>Come on man, you're not a husk. You're at worst a naked monkey staring at a black glass square all day. Go jerk off or something
if you knew me youd see i very much am a husk

>>82111641
>small
excellent

>>82111973
>You don't know me mom! It's not a phase, I'm really like this!
Well, whatever. Do you want to not see yourself this way? What would you have to do in order to achieve that?

>>82111068
Id play dead by daylight!

Id also be into playing peak!

FromSunToMoon

>>82112117
this person is a massive pervert, don't add

>>82112126
While I can be perverted, I'm Just looking to play some vidja and make friends anon. No need to attack me. Ive only been sexual with 1 person from 4chan and she wasn't from r9k and that was years ago.

>>82112126
Nah just here for games and food vibes anon. Don't over think it