I've been with the same woman for 7 years and married the last 3.
She has not once sucked my dick.
I have learned recently that she was a hoe in her teenage years which has made me double upset.
WHY WONT THIS BITCH please her man.
We are both white and yes I have asked her, she will get pissed and run off.
I am desperate 4chan

Just disengage and prepare to divorce for it. Women are disgusting rapists who force men to be what they want and put on a performance to have sex under false pretenses. Just tell her you expect blowjobs and obedience from your wife and when she says no pack stop paying for things. Just stop paying for things. Theyre all the same. I cant lie actually. Fuck it. She thinks she has you locked down. Respect doesnt come back. Its honestly fucking over. Marriage is built on the unspoken expectation of male misery.