>>82115218 (OP)
I think it's fair to say that it's a waste of most men's time to pursue a relationship. A majority of women are happier single than they are in relationships, they're more interested in the freedoms granted to then by their jobs than any prospect of marriage.
To be fully fair, a good number of men have not updated their expectations of marriage leaving women with unequal house work and lord know how emotional stunned men are. Even changing those two factors I think most women simply do not care for relationships and especially do not want children.
The only way to have a majority of people married and having children is through the oppression of women. Given how inhumane and unlikely it is that women will ever see full oppression again, it's better for modern men's time if they simply go out and focus on bonding with other men rather than women.