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Anonymous No.82115220 >>82115280 >>82115321 >>82115346 >>82115368 >>82115720 >>82116129 >>82117704 >>82117714 >>82117805 >>82118135 >>82119794 >>82119991 >>82120196 >>82123147 >>82125447 >>82126774 >>82126780 >>82126785 >>82126883 >>82126988 >>82127138 >>82127173 >>82127407 >>82127626 >>82127634 >>82127710 >>82128293 >>82128401 >>82128431 >>82128876
how do you cope with tfw no gf when all the copes you had no longer work?
Anonymous No.82115259 >>82115270
Suicide idealization.
Anonymous No.82115270 >>82115274
>>82115259
how's that gonna help
(I already do it btw)
Anonymous No.82115274 >>82115294
>>82115270
It doesn't, but lessens the psychological stress to such a degree that you don't actually kill yourself.
Anonymous No.82115278 >>82115294
i turned into a faggot now i just go tfw no bf
nothing changes
Anonymous No.82115280 >>82115294 >>82127173 >>82127252
>>82115220 (OP)
That's actually a good point, what if the only girl I could ever loves has kids and a husband, I'm supposed to let her keep fucking him? You take me for a fool op, a fool I am definitely not.
Anonymous No.82115294 >>82115302 >>82115310
>>82115278
I will never turn into a faggot
>>82115274
doesn't help much tbhdesu
>>82115280
i think you need to try to find someone else if you can
it's too late for me thoughever
Anonymous No.82115302 >>82115310 >>82115312
>>82115294
>I will never turn into a faggot
Prison gay comes for us all.
>doesn't help much tbhdesu
It does, more than you'd realize.
Anonymous No.82115310
>>82115294
>>82115302
I was kinda joking you can't 'turn into' a fag, im not prison gay im not into troons/femboys
Anonymous No.82115312 >>82115314
>>82115302
>It does, more than you'd realize.
i still svffer though
Anonymous No.82115314 >>82115318
>>82115312
Yes, but you're still here.
Anonymous No.82115318 >>82115325
>>82115314
>Yes, but you're still here.
and that's good because?
Anonymous No.82115321 >>82115340
>>82115220 (OP)
Find a cute guy and make them your gf
Anonymous No.82115325 >>82115335
>>82115318
Your existence is an entrenchment in regards to entropy.
This makes it an objective good.
Anonymous No.82115335 >>82115352
>>82115325
I don't give a shir about the universe
I just wanna be held
Also the point of copes is to make u svffer less
Anonymous No.82115340
>>82115321
>Find a cute guy
Not a fag
Anonymous No.82115346 >>82115390
>>82115220 (OP)
I have a small dick, so I couldn't keep a girlfriend long-term anyway.
Anonymous No.82115352 >>82115390
>>82115335
>I don't give a shir about the universe
And yet you continue to persist within it. Hm, curious.
Anonymous No.82115368 >>82115390
>>82115220 (OP)
>how do you cope with tfw no gf when all the copes you had no longer work?
gotchu covered senpai
Anonymous No.82115390 >>82115490
>>82115346
I don't. And i will never use it
>>82115352
Only because there are no good ways to go
>>82115368
Very expensive
Anonymous No.82115490 >>82116084
>>82115390
At least you have a chance at a relationship. I'm completely devoid of that possibility.
Anonymous No.82115720
>>82115220 (OP)
Fortunately, my main cope of being a hermit still works.
Let alone access to internet and vidya.
If I become homeless, I'll sui.
Anonymous No.82116084 >>82117654
>>82115490
I don't lol
I will never have a gf cuz i'm too old and probably too ugly as well
Anonymous No.82116129 >>82116157
>>82115220 (OP)
I do drugs fucking love drugs and doing drugs can make the old copes feel good again
warning: drugs are bad mmkay? but im still doing them and it's the best cope
Anonymous No.82116157 >>82117960
>>82116129
How do you get drugs, anon?
Anonymous No.82117244
i suppose there is no cope
only rope
Anonymous No.82117654 >>82117694
>>82116084
Have you tried? How did you try? Did you try when you were younger?
Anonymous No.82117694
>>82117654
I never tried because I would've been rejected immediately. Also what's the point if you don't find one you "click" with instantly. I found a couple over the years but they were all either far away, or taken, or both.
Anonymous No.82117704 >>82117737
>>82115220 (OP)
When I ran out of coping mechanisms I went outside and got a gf. Now I don't have to cope anymore.
Anonymous No.82117714 >>82117737
>>82115220 (OP)
Getting over it
Anonymous No.82117727 >>82117794
I realized we live in reality, so it's not all that bad. Even if I got a gf, it would suck ass and my life would probably come crashing down anyways, because real women aren't like fictional women. I'm not going to resent them for it, I'm just going to stay away from them, they don't have to put up with me, and we both end up winning from this.
Anonymous No.82117737 >>82117747 >>82117760
>>82117714
>just get over your natural needs bro
>>82117704
How
Anonymous No.82117747 >>82117753
>>82117737
How about free will motherfucker? Difficult to break out of npc programming
Anonymous No.82117753 >>82117820
>>82117747
Free will doesn't exist thougheverbeit
Anonymous No.82117760 >>82117767
>>82117737
>How
Asked a girl out. She said yes. We have sex and I love her. It's that simple.
Anonymous No.82117767 >>82118145
>>82117760
How did you find said girl?
Anonymous No.82117794 >>82117813 >>82117816
>>82117727
I see happy relationships around me all the time
Anonymous No.82117805 >>82117834
>>82115220 (OP)
I'm pursuing something that never pursued me
Anonymous No.82117813 >>82117834
>>82117794
They will end
Anonymous No.82117816 >>82117834
>>82117794
I don't trust things from surface level interpretations. A loving relationship on the at a first glance can have a lot of strife underneath it all. The pretty picture on the outside doesn't tell the full story. I won't say there aren't happy relationships, but I'm not going to delude myself into believing that being with someone is magically going to be everything like the surface level experience.
Anonymous No.82117820 >>82117849
>>82117753
That's a matter of perspective. You have one without free will and suffer
Anonymous No.82117834 >>82117861 >>82117898 >>82117914
>>82117816
>>82117813
I know how things are under the surface though.
Saying that muh relationships are only happy in the surface is a horrible cope
>>82117805
Like what
Anonymous No.82117849 >>82117877
>>82117820
Science does not support the existence of free will
Anonymous No.82117861 >>82118560
>>82117834
I'm not saying all relationships are unhappy deep down, but rather that you're not guaranteed to be happy in one, not even close. Otherwise everyone wouldn't be getting divorced. And I'm not gonna let that be me. I can't get divorced if I don't get near women.
Anonymous No.82117877
>>82117849
You are stupid lol
Anonymous No.82117898 >>82118560
>>82117834
>I know how things are under the surface though.
>Saying that muh relationships are only happy in the surface is a horrible cope
Lol read about porn addicts and dead bedrooms
Anonymous No.82117914 >>82118560
>>82117834
>Like what
What do you mean wanting a gf is wanting to be a normalfag but normalfags never wanted robots and they're not actually good people
Anonymous No.82117960
>>82116157
I buy drugs from my coworkers. In my experience manual labor tends to have at least 1 guy who does drugs and he is usually willing to sell some.
Anonymous No.82118135 >>82118560
>>82115220 (OP)
You must be still young. Eventually you get sick of desires you can't fulfill and instead of wanting, you have contempt for the desire itself. Just cope however to get through your days. Nobody said copes are fun forever it's about keeping busy.
Anonymous No.82118145 >>82118560
>>82117767
Met her at work.
Anonymous No.82118560 >>82118578 >>82119146
>>82117914
this is another bad cope i think
>>82117861
>>82117898
that's because people settle instead of finding their soulmate
>>82118135
i am old
i am 24
>>82118145
must be nice. That'll never happen to me.
Anonymous No.82118578 >>82118586 >>82118791
>>82118560
>That'll never happen to me.
You will have a gf, anon. Don't lose hope.
Anonymous No.82118586
>>82118578
>You will have a gf, anon. Don't lose hope.
how do you know that
Anonymous No.82118791
>>82118578
Don't give people false hope, anon. It's not nice.
>t. anon who gave up after wasting eight years of his life
Anonymous No.82119146 >>82119209
>>82118560
>that's because people settle instead of finding their soulmate
Soulmates don't exist
Anonymous No.82119209 >>82119767
>>82119146
they do
i have seen them
Anonymous No.82119767 >>82119935
>>82119209
You have seen wrong.
Anonymous No.82119794 >>82119935
>>82115220 (OP)
Bitterness and a want for vengeance are what keep me going.
Remember: the world wants you to literally kill your self and disappear, all while blaming you solely for it and lamenting "why are young men abandoning society?!".
Your job is to say "Fuck you, you abandoned me long before I abandoned you." and LIVE.
Anonymous No.82119935 >>82119976 >>82119992
>>82119767
what makes you say that?
>>82119794
what's the point of suffering like this?
Anonymous No.82119976 >>82120993
>>82119935
>what's the point of suffering like this?
Suffering makes you strong. And, believing that there will be some kind of justice meted out against my enemies in the afterlife.

If life casts you as a villain, why not become an anti-villain and make the story your own?
Anonymous No.82119991 >>82120993
>>82115220 (OP)
....i honestly don't know, but i also don't have motivation for anything other than bedrotting either.
Anonymous No.82119992
>>82119935
>what makes you say that?
Knowledge.
Anonymous No.82120196 >>82120993
>>82115220 (OP)
>how do you cope with tfw no gf
Time will dull you to the point of not caring.
If you do want a gf still, go on dating apps (how I got my gf) though that takes a lot of time and emotional effort, find a social group (on social media for example) you can be a part of (being with a girl in the same social geoup makes her feel safe talking to you and you already have report and topics of conversation), or go to events (cons, game nights at gamestores). Even finding a girl-friend is good, it'll be good practice to talking to girls without being awkward (from experience. A girl adopted me as her nerdy bff and I learned a lot about how girls think and how to talk to them. Mind you, it was also a lot of bs (listening to her go on about exs etc.) cus that's how girl-friends are like, but it's worth it for the experience; once I learned enough, I cut her off).
There is always hope and time, anon. Don't worry, I believe you'll get a gf someday (though it might be different from what you're expecting)
Anonymous No.82120993 >>82121286
>>82119976
I don't want to be strong i want to be held
>>82119991
Yeah me too
>>82120196
It might be too lat for me
Anonymous No.82121286 >>82121390 >>82121795 >>82128659
>>82120993
>It might be too late for me
I've seen 16/17/18yo girls go with 20-30yo men in some social groups; the guys were either passable or high on charisma. I've seen a ~40yo man get a 16yo (7/10) with charisma alone. She gave him a baby girl after a few years when she turned 18. It's not too late, anon. Life is strange and is not a race. You may never know what will happen next! As long as you keep your heart open and keep trying. It's a rough road but you will get what you want if you don't give up. On the road, you'll find that, if you are open for it, all kinds of weird things will happen to you. People and relationships are a hot mess, there is no one way to anything.
t. Short guy with heavy social-anxiety and mental illness shut-in.
Anonymous No.82121378 >>82121390
I'm not really interested in dating children. I want someone who's my own age but has as much experience as I do
Anonymous No.82121390 >>82121981
>>82121378
This one was meant for>>82121286
Anonymous No.82121795 >>82122419 >>82122656 >>82123158
>>82121286
Could you share how you found your relationship? As an anon with severe anxiety and a recently awakening desire for companionship, I'd truly value hearing your story
Anonymous No.82121981 >>82122672
>>82121390
>I'm not really interested in dating children
I brought up the young girls as an example that it's not too late.
>I want someone who's my own age but has as much experience as I do
The age thing is ok (a lot of looksmatchs your age will be open for a relationship), the experience thing is harder. I have a 31yo 6-7/10 neet shut-in gf and I was her first. Found her on a dating app(Boo app which markets to nerds and weaboos). But I believe I was lucky. Women have body count (like my ex; she had about 3-5 men and she was my second; and my first one was awkward in bed because of lack of experience and needed coaching), they have a past. For me, idc about bodycount as long as they are loyal. I don't think I got sloppy seconds of CHAD. As long as the relationship is honest and she really likes me, it's all good. I've been with women with more experience then me and they knew my past. They preformed better in bed (as opposed to the starfish position unexperianced women tend to go for because of social media teaching them to expect the princess treatment) and can guide you what is the proper way to pleasure a woman. I definatly guide my gf on what the best way to pleasure me is (and vice versa, communication is key) and it prevents a lot of uncomfort and trial and error. You are not unsalvageable but maybe tamper your expectations. It might be nice to "explore eachother for the first time" meme, but the novelty wears off at some point. Experience can be a good thing; and a lot of the time, unavoidable.
Anonymous No.82122419
>>82121795
Sure. I was in service in an office job; everyone were in eachothers butt and interaction with women was unavoidable. I would try all sorts of things to get women attention, some was cringe (dabbled in jestermaxxing), some got laughs and I was able to ingratiate myself with a group of women my age. They were comfortable with me cus they were familiar with me. At that point I had a friend-girl that helped me learn how to talk to women and how they think. With time, my group of ladies I was hanging out with sew I was a genuine, hard working guy and not a fuckboy or idiot (which were most of the men in our base, the good ones were taken) eventually one of the ladies (6-7/10) in the group got attracted to me and we started to spend more time alone. We had what to talk about since we were at the same enviorment and knew the same people, we also hed simillar hobbies like anime and camping etc. She became my gf for the rest of her service (fucking in the office late at night and visiting her city when not in base and fingering her on a roof of a daycare late at night) she had little experience and had to do the whole explaining how dicks work convo. When she was discharged, we broke up because of distance and different lifestyles. After service I somehow found a girl that worked with my highschool friend I was very close to so she had heard a lot about me. Asked her if she wanted to get drunk with me while helping them to close the coffeeshop and she said yes. We made out that night and next time we met alone she proposed to be my gf and I accepted. That relatinship lasted one year until she cheated on me (she was a massive slut with a lot of kinks, needed to be on a tight leash). At that point I was at stage zero, having left my friends and connections while I was in the relationship (I lived at her place and rearely spent time with other people who wasn't her family) became a shut-in with no friends, social-anxiety to find new friends and mental illness. 1/2
Anonymous No.82122656
>>82121795
2/2
After 5 years of being a shut in (not quite a neet, I studied online and got certs I would wave in my moms face whenever she complained), I got a diagnosis and disability and were able to rent a small place and decided to find a gf. At first, I went through dating app hell. I tried to appeal to all women and it failed miserably. Also had bad pics. Started to go out with my mom to places where she would take pics and I'll put 'em on my profile. Adjusted my profile tirelessly until I found my voice and wrote a profile to attract a girl I'd want to spend time with. That filtered the shallow girls and entitled bitches(said things like "don't take yourself too seriously, cus I won't"). I had some matches (like 1-2 a month) and went through the usual dead end convos, ghostings and canceled plans. I was honest about my social-anxiety and mental illness after they mached with me and before we'd make plans to meet so they know what they are getting into, which was a deal breaker for a lot of them. Some of them were cool so I kept them as pen-pals until they ghosted me for the sake of talking to someone else (girls on dating apps have about 5 or more men they talk to. A lot of 'em see it as a game). Eventually, after a year of texting to mached girls, I used Boo (a dating app marketed fo nerds and shut-ins) and got marginally more matches. A lot of my Boo matches had unrialistic stendards for men or were uncompetible with me (not my type, no common likes and dislikes, etc.). Finally after a year I found a girl that was older then me (31) while I was 27 at the time. She was chill and undersrood my social anxiety and mental illness, having fighting with simillar things. Met her first at a sushi place: a meal which I paid for. We talked and clicked. We had a lot in common. After the second date (which was in my flat) she proposed to be my official girlfriend and I accepted. Still with her after a year and we're happy and help each other to get out of our shells.
Anonymous No.82122672 >>82122845 >>82122961
>>82121981
how do I even find a loving gf then?
Anonymous No.82122845 >>82123362
>>82122672
Put yourself in situations where you have to interact with girls. Be friendly, genuine and interesting. Pracriceing will do you good so find someone to pracrice on maybe a girl will adopt you as her nerdy bff cus you're a good listener and agree with her a lot (such are things) make the most of that relationship to leatn as much as you can. you'll strike out a lot but eventually you'll attract someone at your league (+-1 on the scale) and if you play your cards right (being genuine and knowing what you want), she'll become your gf. The trick is to go for girls you can see yourself with originally and not idealized crushes (which I had a lot of (8-10/10s), that rejected me; before I got over it and figured out what I realistically want. Being a girl that likes you is the basic want ofc but try to see what it's like compared to you and your lifestyle). Also I written some of my life story on this thread, maybe you'll get insparation from it.
Anonymous No.82122961 >>82123362
>>82122672
Put yourself in siruatins where interaction with girl is unavoidable. Find a girl to befriend and practice talking on her, make the most of that relationship and learn as much as you can. Be genuine, friendly and interesting (which practice can help). Eventually you'll attract a girl at your league (+-1/10 on the scale). And if you play your cards right (being genuine and knowing what you are looking for), she'll be your gf. The trick is to go for girls you can originally see yourself with, not idealized crushes (which I had a lot of (8-10/10s that rejected me when I confessed) until I grew out of it). Her being a girl and like you is the basic want, try to compare her to your lifestyle and needs. If yoh clicked congrats, you just got a girlfriend. If you don't either friendzone her (for practice and also having female friends lowers girls' defences). Also I wroth some of my life story with successes with girls in this thread; you might get inspiered by it. You'll strike out often, but as long as you keep learning and going there's no reason you won't get a gf (stipulations apply)
Anonymous No.82123147 >>82123466
>>82115220 (OP)
psyop myself into believing that friendship has got more value than a resource-heavy relationship
Anonymous No.82123158
>>82121795
Hope that helps/inspires you, fren.
Anonymous No.82123362 >>82123751
>>82122845
>>82122961
What sort of situations would those be?
Anonymous No.82123466
>>82123147
>psyop myself into believing that friendship has got more value than a resource-heavy relationship
Friendships with women can be very beneficial for nerds and weirdos it is nice to have female validation and can give resources that cannot be gained on your own device.
Anonymous No.82123751
>>82123362
>What sort of situations would those be?
I'm trying not to be redundent so read my previous posts.
Join clubs, bookclubs, game nights at game stores, groups from social media that meet in person, join sports with women in them like swimming or tennis. heck, join the Army in an office position and you'll be surrounded by same aged or younger girls who are desperate for some action and male validation (wearing uniform and no makeup takes away some of their tools of seduction which makes them unconfident and validation seeking and makes them try harder in conversations). Maybe find a job at an office where you have to talk to secretaries and other female co-workers; later infiltrate their smoke-break group and take it from there. Secrateries are a whole breed of their own; they have a hard exterior and a soft creamy center that is starved for love; they also gossip and complain a lot which gives a window to their minds.
Go to anime/gaming conventions and join the activities; maybe you'll make some new friends or a group to follow around (not in a creepy way, be friendly) which is the first step to being more involved and getting a gf. Practice, watch, learn, try to be involved, and keep on trying. It's not a surefire way or a magic trick to get a gf, but it will get you closer for sure or at least give you a social life which is also nice to have if you choose the right people. If all else fails, use dating apps (and learn how to use them properly) Better then complaining online mfw no gf.
Worst case scenario, let time and degradetion to numb you to being alone it's uncomfortable and will might be suffering but it'll get easier with time. That works too.
Anonymous No.82124541 >>82125708
at this moment, you rope
Anonymous No.82125447 >>82125708
>>82115220 (OP)
the end of copes is the end of life
Anonymous No.82125708 >>82125887
>>82124541
>>82125447
So it's owari da then?
Anonymous No.82125887 >>82126633
>>82125708
if you can't find new copes but thankfully the world is vast, there are always new copes out there. or maybe there aren't and I'm just coping. is the ultimate cope the endless search for more copes?
Anonymous No.82126633 >>82126867
>>82125887
Have you found any copes?
Anonymous No.82126774 >>82126825
>>82115220 (OP)
Grit your teeth and live with it you have plenty of time to come to terms with it
Anonymous No.82126780 >>82126825
>>82115220 (OP)
Innocent people irl are boring as fuck, you can smell the autism on then.
Anonymous No.82126785 >>82126795 >>82126825
>>82115220 (OP)
why would you want a gf when all foids are corrupted and degen
Anonymous No.82126795 >>82126817 >>82126867
>>82126785
nta but pussy and social acceptance are good reasons.
Anonymous No.82126817
>>82126795
yea the only reason id ever want a gf is for coitus but I realize that's kinda degen of myself so I'm fine without it I guess
Anonymous No.82126825
>>82126774
I don't want to anymore
It hurts too much
>>82126780
They deserve love too
>>82126785
#notallwomen
Anonymous No.82126867
>>82126633
nothing new lately but the old ones still work decently well so I got time
>>82126795
that plus having someone I share interests with to do stuff with...basically instead of coping alone we cope together I guess
Anonymous No.82126871 >>82126913 >>82127057
Love does not exist if you have a small penis, are ugly and short. Society and girls in general are disgusting, they do not love a person as a person, as a personality, so the desire for all this disappears
Anonymous No.82126883 >>82127057
>>82115220 (OP)
Having a GF does not work at 25+. You either marry next month or she looks for a fool elsewhere.
Anonymous No.82126913 >>82126940
>>82126871
My dick is average, my height is average and my looks are average, can confirm love still does not exist.
Anonymous No.82126940 >>82126947
>>82126913
more details. what are the sizes?
Anonymous No.82126947 >>82126956 >>82126962 >>82126988
>>82126940
5'10"
bit under 6 inch dick
6/10 looks
Anonymous No.82126956 >>82126973
>>82126947
6 inches is a lot, anon
Anonymous No.82126962 >>82126982
>>82126947
5'11"
5.3 inch
3/10
If society hates people like me, why love it...
Anonymous No.82126973
>>82126956
By a bit under 6 inches I mean like probably 5 and 3/4, it's barely above average depending on country. It's been a while since I measured it and I'm not sure where I should measure from, pubic area or ballsack. I don't really care about it becaues it fits nicely in my hand when I jerk off, my height and looks are a bigger issue for dating.
Anonymous No.82126982 >>82126985
>>82126962
are you obese or overweight? If so the first step to improving your looks is dealing with that. If not then idk, try growing a beard or a different haircut.
Anonymous No.82126985 >>82127012
>>82126982
I'm very skinny, I'd rather gain weight.
Anonymous No.82126988 >>82127012 >>82127057
>>82115220 (OP)
>when all the copes you had no longer work?
Just find new copes. Think of how much shit there is to consoom and experience in this world. Realistically you have a never ending list of stuff you can try your hand at.
>>82126947
6'2'' and slim/fit
6.6in
6/10 face
But I'm scared of asking out even the women who seem to show interest in me and I still think like a teenager when it comes to relationships. Basically I just want someone to cuddle and have sex with. I don't want any of the burden and responsibility of a regular adult relationship. Don't want marriage, don't want kids, don't want to buy a house together, don't want to pool money together and so on. Commitment looks retarded and scary to me, when I see so many married men who are miserable and basically workhorses for their families. I never want to become that.
Anonymous No.82127012 >>82127031 >>82127088
>>82126985
Well then do that anon. It shouldn't be to hard if you're somewhere with access to american pattern diet.

>>82126988
Anon there's plenty of girls out there that want nothing to do with "adult" relationships, basically the only requirement to date them is that you're not allergic to cats because that's their replacement for kids they use to drain their pent up maternal energy.
Anonymous No.82127031
>>82127012
To your first answer, I just want to find the good and live with it in this society of lying creatures and scum
Anonymous No.82127057 >>82127087
>>82126871
I choose not to believe that
>>82126883
I am 24
It's so over
>>82126988
Nothint really interests me if i have to do it alone
Anonymous No.82127087
>>82127057
There is no love in an objective sense, all these lying bastards do not value your personality, then why love and reach out to others, it is easier to hate
Anonymous No.82127088
>>82127012
I like cats and am not allergic to hair. But I'm not good looking enough for any of those women to actually make the first step, so it's very likely that nothing will ever happen. I only really encounter women at work these days, so you can imagine how fucked I'd be if I asked one of them out and she said no. The risk isn't worth it.
>Nothint really interests me if i have to do it alone
You can play multiplayer vidya, for example. Or you can join various clubs in your area. Or just learn to enjoy stuff alone. I've done that for most of my life and I like it. Drinking might help with that.
Anonymous No.82127138
>>82115220 (OP)
You just do. I don't even have any potential candidates, so I just keep going and hoping I'd meet someone eventually. It sucks being alone, but what can you do.
Anonymous No.82127173
>>82115220 (OP)
You become a realist and a bitter individual, your realization is common in older adults.
>>82115280
I'm in a stage in my life where it's not a "what if".
Don't fixate on that individual before you are trapped in my place.
Anonymous No.82127252
>>82115280
>what if the only girl I could ever loves has kids and a husband, I'm supposed to let her keep fucking him?
That's me I'm betting on them divorcing cause marriage actually sucks
Anonymous No.82127407 >>82127450
>>82115220 (OP)
why do you even want a gf? it's not going to fix your problems if that's what you think like all a relationship is going to get you is like 1 year of easy dopamine otherwise having a relationship is more work and stress than being single
Anonymous No.82127450 >>82127567
>>82127407
>why do you even want a gf?
It sucks being lonely.
>it's not going to fix your problems
Getting a partner does, in fact, solve a lot of problems.
Anonymous No.82127567 >>82127739
>>82127450
How does it feel being lonely. Honest question.
Anonymous No.82127626 >>82128232
>>82115220 (OP)
I'm reading your replies and you whine like a little BITCH! No wonder you don't have a girlfriend. Girls like men, ya know? Get your shit together.
Anonymous No.82127634 >>82128232
>>82115220 (OP)
Eventually you'll find a woman who will want to settle with you and being the 30 year old virgin who has never received female attention before that you will be you will get married to her. This is the case for 97% of men.
Anonymous No.82127710 >>82128232
>>82115220 (OP)
i just LDAR and NEETmaxx, with occasional thought of becoming fully jokerized and throwing shit at normies
Anonymous No.82127739 >>82127841
>>82127567
Have you ever experienced a pit forming in your stomach from anxiety? That weird physical feeling?
It sort of like that, but more subtle. Every single moment your mind is not occupied with something, that feeling forms.
And every time you're reminded of being alone, that feeling worsens. Most become jealous when seeing others in a relationship, some angry and others just feel sad.
The loneliness also causes depression. You become unhappy simply by being alone. You NEED intimate physical touch from others, or else you will literally go insane.
Some cope through escapism (waifus, dakimakuras, etc.) others seek bonding through shared experience (mgtow, manosphere, etc.) and some simply kill themselves.
Anonymous No.82127841 >>82128986
>>82127739
Uwaah, thank Lord I am a schizoid. Thanks for a detailed response.
Anonymous No.82128232 >>82128733
>>82127710
i can't do that
>>82127634
i don't want to settle
i want love
>>82127626
wdym
Anonymous No.82128293
>>82115220 (OP)
For me it's drugs but even they start to lose effect and just turn me more dissociated with reality.
Anonymous No.82128401
>>82115220 (OP)
i still get laid on a regular basis.
Anonymous No.82128431
>>82115220 (OP)
That's when you go get a gf. If you're still doing nothing and staying locked in your comfort zone then you're not really hurting that much. When tfw no gf reached its peak I figured that I'd rather be dead than loveless so I became more bold and charismatic I suppose, which yielded me a gf.
Anonymous No.82128659
>>82121286
desu id be pretty happy and satisfied with life if a girl like that would be with me.
Anonymous No.82128733
>>82128232
>i want love
Then go and freaking GET IT. Nobody is going to get it for you. Ask yourself why you're unlovable, and change yourself. Yes you have to change yourself because obviously it isn't working as you are. Yes I'm speaking broadly.
Anonymous No.82128876
>>82115220 (OP)
Go for the milf/gilf route and find one. You'd be surprised.
But yeah, you have to settle for used goods.
Anonymous No.82128986
>>82127841
>Thanks for a detailed response.
You're welcome. Let me know if you're interested in knowing anything else.