Thread 82118544

At what point did you realize you get farther with others by NOT apologizing?

>>82118544 (OP)
I haven't apologized in 5 years. Which is nice because I used to be a bitch and said sorry for everything. If anything, not apologizing gets me more respect than acting like a bitch. Helped my career a lot and I increased my salary by asking for it. It doesn't work with women but I'm an incel, so it doesn't matter.

I don't respect people who think respect is earned. Sorry.

>>82118690
Then why do you respect certain individuals

>>82118544 (OP)
Right now, this second anon

>>82118856
>certain individuals
No. I treat everyone with respect because I have self respect.

>>82118544 (OP)
I always apologize when I'm wrong, but I have rarely been wrong.

>>82118924
Interesting perspective but manipulative narcissists are still a thing

>>82118544 (OP)
I don't apologize for things I'm not actually sorry about
Like the time I had an online friend freak out because I said "nigger" or something as a joke and she browbeat me with a short novel of upset messages
I just cut her off entirely, and all of our mutual friends I met through her
People who get upset over naughty no-no words and not the context in which they are used are insufferable. You're not the language and morality police.

>>82119180
You can't be manipulated by a narcissist if you don't perform a transaction.