Thread 82120629

How do I stop caring about a "friend" who clearly doesn't care about me?
>known this person for years
>they're japanese-chinese so they keep to themselves a lot and rarely do anything
>we have a lot of things in common
>im always the one who has to initiate conversations first, literally didn't text for over a year and she only texted me because i was in a pic with one of her friends
But when we're together we have a lot of fun and spend hours laughing and shit, but I always have to start things. I'm certain she talks to other friends more frequently too. She's the only person I've had contact with so it's hard to break away.

There must be a reason that interest is much stronger from her direction. I'd like to know as much as possible about her.

>>82120629 (OP)
Some people just dont enjoy conversing with others a lot over text and prefer in person stuff, or just cant initiate because tism. how do you know she talks to others online more than you? There isnt really an easy way to stop caring unless you get another fren or distract yourself by getting super into a hobby.

>>82120655
>how do you know she talks to others online more than you?
I'm pretty sure she talks to others more online and offline. I texted her for the first time in a couple months last month to say "Happy Birthday!" and she thanked me, then I texted her asking how did she celebrate, and it took for about 1.5 days to respond saying she played some games and watched a show with a friend (a show from a series we talked about last year and I was down to watch with her). She asked what I've been up to and I waited 4 days to respond to her. I posted a story on IG today and she saw it but still hasn't responded back. I wish I didn't care about this or friendships because I'm sure it's all just minor shit.

>>82120819
You minor we major, saar...