Thread 82122785

> people approach you because of your looks without knowing what youre like
> have people say youre unapproachable and that you look cold
> they force themselves to fit into your ideal music/hobbies its cringe
> end up in insecure relationship
> most relationships dont last long because of no true connection
> get dumped and left being called a narcissist
ive never truly met a man that i can match with personality wise it fucking sucks ive crushed on guys before for liking stuff i like but they never liked me back maybe im the problem

>>82122785 (OP)
Harder, debatable. There are times when I wish I was invisible to people because it seems people always have a bone to pick with me, or prove something to me, that I have no interest in proving to them or placating them.
But I do not like being judged as just an attractive face while others arguably typically have less depth than me.

>>82122785 (OP)
imagine being a failed norm and better looking than most. I've been brought down and bullied so hard for my looks and wealth that I ended up on here and my family hides me in the shadows.
>ive never truly met a man that i can match with personality wise
yeah it hurts but whatever honestly. maybe we truly are the problem. I always fall for guys that don't keep me for the long run. it's just depressing and I don't think looking in the mirror helps anymore. people would tell me because im pretty and from a good standing family that I can get anyone I want. but instead I get taken advantage of and thrown away

>>82122800
ive experienced both i was normie then i had a huge glow up i had more people approach me truthfully before i glew up people i talk to always compliment me and men typically say theyre scared of me or think im taken just by looking at me

>>82122813
yeah that's what happened to me in high school. I was made fun of, physically and emotionally bullied because I looked better than most in the small drugged out city I used to live in. its hard and I actually just turned to drugs for comfort and im trying to get out of that all over again. I feel like although its fun to joke with everyone on the popular incel focused board on here, I truly do think some anons don't understand the other side of the same coin

>>82122801
honestly ive grown to resent them in some way i try to attract the right people by wearing band merch and present myself by the way i dress and they simply dont give a fuck lmao

>>82122825
theyre demneted and selfish all they think about is themselves they value life as being able to get their dick wet its depressing

>>82122827
I think you're on the right path. attracting the right people and energy starts with you, and how you express too. don't ever let anyone tear you down and always never give a fuck hehe
>>82122843
they're seriously sex craved. and fine, you can be deranged and depressing all you want but for a whole culture blaming us is insane. it was kinda funny at first, but its been years now. still I come on here for off topic stuff anyways that doesn't relate to incel gibberish

>>82122785 (OP)
>end up in insecure relationship
This is the worst. I would catch my ex's staring at me constantly and it would give me the creeps. I know most guys here would love that in theory, but being worshiped like some God is not a healthy relationship.

>>82122785 (OP)
You need to minmax for your audience. I could probably be a 8-9 to the general population but I style myself to appeal mainly to the people I'm into, so I'm a sub 5 to a straight stacy but a 9-10 for nerdy/alternative girls.
I fucking hate dealing with vapid people so this makes me unapproachable to them.

>>82122915
i do that i wear bad merch im alt myself

>>82122785 (OP)
has never been true. Attractive people are usually happier, not depressed, and are shown to be treated way better and have more opportunities just because they are attractive. Im guessing this is just a humble brag or larp thread

omg im alt too lmao. I need to cut my side bangs soon, im thinking about doing some skunk highlights (draculaura style) sorry kinda off topic lmao

>>82122938
not my fault youre an ugly delusional retard pick a struggle

>>82122785 (OP)
Why did you save that picture?
Does evil appeal to you?

>>82122928
There's more to it than that. Bleached or thin eyebrows, certain styles of makeup & hairstyles, piercings and tattoos can all help repell most men. Though I think it can end up making you fetishized by some so really there's no winning as a woman.
For me it's just long hair, piercings and eyeliner and I've immediately turned off every woman who's too boring for me to want to date.

>>82122954
clocked

>>82122947
honestly im getting bored of my apperance i might dye my hair dark red or something i need to cut my hair and bangs too

>>82122954
Kek you have never had a single hard day in your life, and your little meltdown shows it. You are basically a mega rich ceo talking about knowing the struggles of the poor.

>>82122962
i get fetishised regardless i have straight thin brows i dont like the idea of facial piercings and i usually wear heavy eye makeup wear bullet belts black boots fishnets etc

>>82122971
i still dont give a fuck youre an ugly sad lonely retard keep crying wah wah wah

>>82122962
>piercings and tattoos can all help resell most men
I agree, normal men not into alternative culture are easily judgemental, intimidated and won't (hopefully) engage. im going to get an anti-eyebrow and a chest to shoulder tattoo soon.
>making you fetishized by some
that's why avoiding certain people is the best, even online. some retards fetishize every niche thing so sadly women can't really escape it
>>82122965
you're so real. I love customizing my looks haha. I was pretty much a scene girl for a long time and im hoping to go for a new looks though. I want to take on a pink/black type of aesthetic. I was originally a blue haired scene girl

>>82122987
>wahhh leave me alone in my thread
nah, keep crying about your fake problems lmao

>>82122996
an ugly person would never understand the struggles of being hot since youre not given a choice to pick and choose people to date now keep crying more it makes me happy i want to feast on your tears

>>82122996
what a embarrassment honestly. we all have problems, you just choose to ignore our problems and perspectives because it doesn't align with your issues and your own negative experiences with women. we have negative experiences with men too. its fun to have the incel back and forth but wow some of you guys take it to the extreme ngl.

>>82123005
lmao I dont give a fuck if you are a woman or not. I read the subject of the thread and decided to come mock you faggots.
>>82123004
>muh struggles
roflmao

>>82122974
That sucks. A lot of women in my scene have the same problem. I guess there's only so much you can do to make yourself unappealing when men will fuck almost anything.

>>82122785 (OP)
>have people say youre unapproachable and that you look cold
That's a you problem. Also, many of your problems sound like they are self-inflicted. You don't get called cold and narcissistic out of nowhere. Nothing to do with being hot at all.

>>82123005
they want to feel validated so bad honestly and he wonders why hes lonely screams low test considering how emotional he is

>>82122785 (OP)
>have people say youre unapproachable and that you look cold
That's a you problem. Also, many of your problems sound like they are self-inflicted, like dating people you don't have a connection with. You don't get called cold and narcissistic out of nowhere. Nothing to do with being hot at all.

>>82123026
ive been called a narcissist for cutting off people i simply did not fw and got bored of ive been told i look cold apperance wise by my friends before i became friends with them lmao they said they were too scared to approach me but i wear dark colours so

>>82123040
you sound like an insufferable little faggot

>>82122960
its a fucking black goat religious people are demented it scares me

>>82123044
doesnt stop people from wanting to be with me does it though has being kind ever gotten you pussy? no one cares about your personality in this society if youre hot it doesnt matter ive been called a female manipulator which is supposed to be a compliment by men apparently

>>82123040
What did you expect? Actions have consequences. What are you even complaining about? It has nothing to do with your appearance.

>>82123059
woah so edgy, did you just start middle school?

>>82123076
for cutting off toxic people and those who want to be friends with you because of your looks? well sorry for protecting my peace HA if youre desperate for attention from others just say so

>>82123080
do you know what hypergammy is? its retards who fetishise alt women who come up with cringe compliments yet you somehow choose to blame me for it wow i didnt know this thread was going to attract so many insecure losers

>>82123097
You said you cut them off because you got bored. Get your story straight.

>>82123133
boredom is loss of interest interpret it however you want i dont have to keep people around because your lonely ass would say youve never been in a big friend group without telling me :

>>82123117
you sound really mentally ill and young.

>>82123150
never socialises award

>>82123142
So why are you surprised when people call you out for treating people poorly? What's so difficult to understand?

funny bait did laugh
why do you enjoy attacking incels? its quite shitty

>>82123169
damn i knew a dude and we would do this meme to each other all the time. retarded meme never made me laugh. just a tiny bit. this nigga has to be gay to still be here

>>82123169
why are there so many of you mentally ill 14 year olds here?

>>82123170
do you even know those people? they all carry the same victim mentality like you do theyre all two faced the same person who called me a narcissist tried to convince me to be in a polyamorous relationship kek

>>82123183
you have to be kidding me sage you are my 13th reason why

>>82123183
incels arent real hate to break it to you theyre all stacy sexual ive had subhuman incels always approach me online

>>82123189
why do you like the idea of me being a child does that arouse you

>>82123193
>do you even know those people?
What do you think? I have as much information as you give me.
>they all carry the same victim mentality like you do
The fact that you keep accusing everyone in this thread of things shows that you're not a very good person yourself.

lmao it cant be that nigga he really deserves the death penalty award per usual. are the alt girls still here?

>>82123220
>accusing everyone in this thread
and its the two same retarded niggas that are talking about how their life is hard i miss the good conversation i had with the hot people i was relating with now all the subhumans have infested this thread bring back eugenics

>>82123220
>hat do you think? I have as much information as you give me.
so keep making up scenarios in ur cashew sized brain to pin me as the one whos wrong

>>82123252
pfff yeah, i was the first ones just to reply to OP. i miss the convo we had, i felt like i could relate to some other folks on here for once. im still trying to get help and going to rehab because ive been doing hardcore drugs just to get the trauma off of my system. to be beautiful, youll be envied and crushed down upon to be equal to everyone else. if you have a different light to you, others will dim it to their level. sorry that this thread came down to something pathetic

>>82123274
thats the beauty of 4chan theres always going to be a someone who has to ruin everything and somehow make it about themselves

>>82123274
i just got out of rehab and a shitty relationship. i was on the streets and driving to places with sketchy people who accepted me for our alt culture and stuff. i was accused of shit ive never known was going around, like stalking people and being a sex worker. you get the most shit when youre in a better position than most people. i was sniffing cocaine, smoking weed and nic every day and night plus drinking. it turned me to a worse person and i hope to bring my own spirit back into me one day

>>82123290
yeah exactly, but i havent been on here in a couple of months but thats the beauty of the internet in a bittersweet way. i like 4chan for sharing my opinions and niche interests

>>82122785 (OP)
OH NO, they have to get to know the person for a few months to make sure they are compatible before a relationship? OH THE HORROR

>>82123299
that sounds horrible i hope youre doing well now i had a prick stalk me steal my entire personality , music taste and wardrobe then started larping as me to new girls he met men can be so pathetic but thats the most severe ive experienced
> accepted me for our alt culture
sadly theres no alt scenes where im from and the small majoirty that are are woke gay furries but i do get told i have nice style now and then

>>82123213
your replies are so boring

None of you are stacies or chads

>>82123342
your are hackneyed

>>82123349
define it then

>>82123262
>so keep making up scenarios in ur cashew sized brain to pin me as the one whos wrong
What did I make up? I can find quotes from you word for word

>>82123350
every reply you make is just something about attraction or sex. like a parody.

>>82123376
> is on a thread about attraction and dating as a straight female
are you actually this retarded

>>82123342
the guy your talking too is a dude honestly not worth the trouble
if its the same guy i knew in the past from this site and i can tell with his replies and memes, not worth the time he is a cutie sure but its like a moth attracted to a bright light maybe we will both grow one day since we are both zoomer losers
>>82123337
no its okay! just because you havent experienced some of my shitty antics doesnt mean your problems arent on the same severity theres a big alt scene where im from and i go to shows and moshing a lot and i bet you truly have a good style and what subculture do you go for? i like the mallgoth and again scene style

>>82123382
>randomly calling people pedophiles is about dating
how low iq are you?

>>82123398
youre the one talking about children and middle schoolers in that sense if i was why are you still interacting PEDOO

can you retards just stop?

>>82123388
i wouldnt say i have a specific style but i mostly wear black laced clothes long socks tights fishnets skirts with band shirts or leather corsets i also like the oldskool rave scene

>>82123409
because you act like a retarded child. this reply is a good example.

god damn stop causing arguments with people it's unbecoming and only elucidates your insecurity. you're not better than anyone else.

>>82123427
and you love the attention from said retard child thats why you keep coming back

>>82123425
that is really cute i wish i had more skirts desu but im a bit more on the curvier side so idk if my hips and thighs look good with skirts. i usually wear flare jeans and heels but bootcut and heels and the rhinestone pockets are so cute too. im really into thrifting too for clothes. ive gained some much needed weight and im happy i can fit into my older clothes that are cute and dark too

>>82123443
>finally admits it
kek

>>82123368
Chad/Stacy is someone with 9/10 looks. Where 99% of people are highly attracted to you. The level where you can achieve status and some level of fame simply by showing your face.

>>82123443
go get a room, i dropped your ass and youre still here. at least i logged off and im trying to progress

>>82123455
im not famous but i have 800 followers on instagram does that count kekkkk. no but some of my alt mutuals are the kindest souls, thats all i care about

>>82123457
who are you even talking to kek

>>82123448
im curvy myself i have quite wide hips/thighs mini skirts are really cute with shorts under most of my band shirts are baggy . i havent worn flared jeans in ages because they always end up soggy at the bottom but i usually wear flared leggings with boots its a cute combo

>>82123455
So an attractive person I couldnt care about incel ratings being called a chad/stacy is subjective and beauty standards differ everyone when a vast majority of people are attracted to you its safe to say you are one

>>82123475
you?? are you not the anon? fuck me silly bro.. everyone ignore my posts kekkkkk wrong white boy

>>82123505
>k me silly bro.. everyone ignore my posts kekkkkk wrong white boy
can you guys stop infiltrating my thread with this shit none stop arguing just ignore them oh my god

>>82123505
what the fuck are you even talking about? have you been of your meds?

>>82123479
hehe, yeah hips and thighs are a blessing and curse honestly :) i find skirts and band t shirts as a cute combo! studded belts complete the look for sure, i get mine from spencers. and i get kandi bracelets a lot too from etsy or depop. i wish i can go to more raves instead of mosh pits lol

>>82123513
>infiltrating
lol this fag acting like ninjas are coming in to ruin his good time

>>82123513
hey sorry, didnt mean too
>>82123520
okay sorry youre the wrong guy, damn. sorry again

>>82123528
youre an insufferable asshole geniunely get a life

>>82123448
Flared jeans are the fucking best. I have an amazing pair that I wear basically everyday. If you do start wearing skirts get a pair of legwarmers I love them so much.

>>82123465
That's not a lot of followers but I don't know how much/what you post on IG so that doesn't really mean much. But Chad/Stacy basically means the most attractive people at the top of the social hierarchy, people who automatically become popular based on their looks alone.
>>82123492
>being called a chad/stacy is subjective and beauty standards differ
They differ a little bit, but people agree more than they disagree. That's why some people are top status models/celebrities just based on looks and other people aren't even though they try really hard. Just the fact that you ended up on /r9k/ means you probably aren't as good looking as you're rating yourself.

>>82123545
800 is A LOT in my small west texas town anon kek. most people are ugly rats

>>82123542
>saarrr redeem the life saarrrrr dont redeem the infiltrate saarrr

>>82123545
point of this thread is about being attractive i couldnt care if im not supermodel worthy

>>82123525
I love wearing studded belts I have a real bullet belt now too I pair it with shorts stockings and ripped tights with those fuzzy leg warmers

>>82123562
exactly this. not everyone will be supermodel worthy but at least above average. and thats also up to interpretation to the people youre around with

>>82123544
>legwarmers
omg for sure! skirts + fur boots is cute too :) you have good taste, flare jeans with rhinestones too dont forget
>>82123577
so so cutesy. studded belts truly do complete a cute coord and outfits, and plus hair color influences a lot

>>82123562
>>82123578
Being above average isn't what stacy/chad means though, so your thread is stupid. Blaming all your problems on being slightly above average and then claiming it's hard to be a stacy is just cope.

>>82123578
ive been told i resemble annelies schubert

>>82123594
why are you acting like you know what i look like kek

>>82123599
You're flexing 800 followers on IG when Stacy gets 6 figure followings just by posting selfies and you post on /r9k/

>>82123611
That wasnt me im op retard ive used lookism forums and post myself on social media and get called a Stacy

>>82123595
Was that person a modeling scout? Did they offer you a contract? Or was it just some random compliment that inflated your ego?

>>82123594
im not OP, im sorry youre mad over this thread discussing attractiveness on different spectrums. im just saying my thoughts alr?
>>82123595
wait shes pretty, i know her from instagram at first but then i saw her more on tiktok and she seemed so beautiful in the 90s and now. you must be so pretty :) people dont say i have a celeb look alike but i like to think that im unique in my own way since i have a mixed background. no but i see that she has bangs and long black hair, i really love that so much and i really think it suits her

>>82123588
I'm a dude and more into goth than scene/emo so rhinestones aren't my favourite on me personally, but they are so cute on feminine people. I wish /fa/ actually had people with taste it's so nice to talk about fashion lmao.

>>82123616
>ive used lookism forums
How is that supposed to make you sound good looking? If you were actually a Stacy you wouldn't be on incel forums lol

>>82123599
noo i dont i really dont kek im just assuming
>>82123611
okay damn sorry. what should i do post my face for proof or something? please chill dude its all light hearted

>>82123617
Anyone can be a model and my body isnt ideal to model either + ive had over 7 people tell me the same thing but if you want to keep fighting over the silly term Stacy to make yourself feel better whatever

>>82123627
im a failed normie dude. ive been bullied to be online instead kek. just chill out and quit whining
>>82123626
hey no worries at all, goth style is diverse and so cool. i agree on feminine folks they look adorable regardless of gender even. /fa/ is so trash hahah

>>82123630
I'm starting to see why people called you a narcissist and dumped you. You're getting really defensive and angry just because I told you that you probably aren't the top tier of attractiveness

>>82123627
Gio scotti litterally used 4chan and Jordan Barrett owns an org account how does using forums define your status what? and I stated I was a normie and I ascended if you actually spent time reading

>>82123642
read the room please and quit picking fights and baiting

>>82123638
Shut up stupid passive aggressive faggot

>>82123642
defensive over you bickering over a term? maybe because its you constantly spamming and deeping a stupid ass word

>>82123651
im not doing this rn kek.

>im not doing this rn kek
This fag is pressed

>>82123642
>narcissist
youre spending too much time hyperfixiating on me using the term stacy and chad rather than reading the thread because youre a blackpilled org retard who has nothing better to do than pick fights. the person who called me a narcissist was the same one who wanted to start a polyamarous relationship with me and had an alt fetish + was larping to me

is this the same guy who posted the award meme? or is this dude different i cant tell

>>82123655
I've posted 4 replies to your thread, 2 of which were direct responses to questions directed at me. Your mind perceives that as "constantly spamming" because you are a narcissist

>>82123673
;p alr?

>>82122785 (OP)
half the replies are just pressed incels fighting with their inner demons i shouldve posted this on .com instead

>>82123696
just why even be here atp if youre just gonna call then a narcissist. you dont know her at all, this is just a random thread. im not even mad just kind of annoyed bc youre still here

>>82123685
Idk but this thread is shitty due to whichever douchebag is acting like a stupid annoying child in here. someone really needs to grow the fuck up

>he thinks it's one person
Kekaroo

>>82123696
are you the polyamarous faggot? that makes sense since he was an insecure blackpilled mong hi ethan

i havent been on here in a while kek shut up, im gonna go eat.

I had what you can call a glowup as a male and it ruined my life with women just using me and pretending to care about me.

venezuelan empanadas..see you guys again sooner or later, im hungry asf

>>82123722
looks like I won. eat your dinner in defeat

>>82123709
theyre a waste of life and need to self project on here because no one gives them any attention irl

>>82123704
What's .com?

>>82123730
Exactly what happened with me . before I actually had conversations with people I clicked with rather than just being flirted with theres many fake people out there

>>82123743
looksmaxxing.com

>>82123768
Ahahahahahaha holy shit this dude ahahahahahahahahaha

>>82123719
I have no clue who that is, you sound crazy right now.

>>82123772
actual lookism forum that wouldnt give me half brain dead replies like the ones on here

>>82123787
nobody here is stupid enough to take you seriously

>>82123775
proving that you only came here to debate over the term chad/stacy to cause arguement without bothering reading the thread is this the only way you get validation?

>>82123801
why would anyone want to read the boring details of your life?

>>82123798
Dont need validation from incels like you who cant relate I already get enough replies from people who are actually attractive

>>82123801
Serious question: have you ever been to a psych hospital? You sound similar to someone I knew who was having a manic episode

>>82123810
the same boring life that gets you mad over its title? youre still on this thread because you have nothing better to do kek

nona drop your @ can we talk

>>82123811
I don't really remember asking
>>82123825
I'm having fun though. You guys are the ones talking about packing up and moving to your other incel forum.

>>82123842
nigga said "lets continue our stacy roleplay chat somewhere more private"

>>82123862
Why does the idea of an attractive woman anger you this much?

>>82123842
>nona
lol sounds like some granny ass name. are you faggots turd worlders?

>>82123874
I'm an evil hateful incel, i need a mean feminist to come spank my butt and teach me respect

>>82123874
Hes mad we dont want him

>>82122785 (OP)
> end up in insecure relationship
You will never be incel

>>82123842
who are you talking too? nigga doesnt even know what hes typing

>>82124175
when the fuck did I say I will and why the fuck would I want to?

>>82122785 (OP)
>being a billionaire is harder than being poor because people demand money from you and you need a bodyguard
and yet every person on the planet would rather be a billionaire