ghosting is literally the meanest, most evil way to break off a relationship you could ever do. I don't understand it. How the hell do you do that to someone you've told you love? You refuse even the slightest bit of conversation or curtesy. The tiniest sliver of closure you could provide someone. For what? Because you're too much of a selfish pussy to communicate? It's scawy to have to tell someone that you lied and don't want to be with them anymore? What the fuck do you even do in this situation. How the fuck do I move on when I don't even know how you really felt about me in the end? Did you really hate me? Did you feel like the relationship wouldn't go anywhere? Was it something else? Why the hell couldn't we talk about it together like fucking adults???

>>82123692 (OP)
been there. sorry op this situation sucks balls

>>82123692 (OP)
Are you a male or female, OP? I only started ghosting women the more women hurt me. Now I do it all the time. Vicious cycle.

>>82123692 (OP)
I have done this before, but not intentionally. I felt like the person on the other end didn't really care or was growing distant because they didn't like me anymore, which made me sad. I seriously should have talked with them about it, though, rather than just leaving them hanging. I am so avoidant and scared of making people angry at me that it affects my ability to conversate. 8 months later I am still regretting it.

>>82123748
you should reach out to them right now. Closure 8 months later is still closure.

>>82123724
same, i ghost women all the time because i know they would do that shit to me without hesitation

>>82123755
I'm trying currently. They blocked me on nearly everything. I think they think I don't care about them or that I hate them. I have one avenue of messaging them left but I am scared because getting blocked on that is going to be devastating.

>>82123724
Male, talked for 2 years. I just want to be able to know for sure. She didn't even block me. Just ignoring me I guess. Why the fuck did they add an ignore button like that to discord. Literally asking for people to ghost and inflict maximum damage and confusion on the other person.

>>82123692 (OP)
if she ghosted you then that means she didn't really love you, happened to me too OP I should be angry at her but I just can't. still very cruel and shitty of her to just do that

>>82123692 (OP)
Women are cowards by nature

>>82123802
Maybe it's better for you not to take online women seriously.

>>82123802
It's because of that whole no contact for a month shit so that the person you ghost can't call back and feel like they're begging to be back in your life.

>>82123858
literally everything is online nowadays and I seriously cannot stand the idea of being with a normie girl.

>>82123692 (OP)
the solution to this is to unironically monkeybranch like a woman normally does.
I got ghosted by a bunch a femanons on here but for the most part i just talk to a different one usually at the same time that i lose track of which ones i'm talking to so at this point when they ghost me i'm like either "who?" or "oh rats what a shame this other one seemed kinda cool though"
they all seem like cool enough people as online friends but i don't know about dating or anything.

>>82123802
>>82123692 (OP)
Poor guy, I know that feel and it hurts so much.

>>82123692 (OP)
I ghost fembots all the time. If they wanted a goodbye they shouldn't have been talking to a mentally ill retard lmao.

>>82123692 (OP)
Sorry for your loss anon. Knew a girl irl who I fell madly in love with. She ended up sexting me and then ghosting me directly after for a year. Hot af latina.

I would still text her though, telling her how much I missed her, how much I really wish I could talk to her, etc. etc. I was a fucking idiot for wasting all my energy on her. I'd even break down crying if I heard her favorite song in public.

She tried texting me back a year later, but at that point I couldn't take the pain she inflicted, and I was worried she'd do it again. So I blocked her.

Hopefully your (ex) gf gives you closure anon, or you can move past this. Do NOT let her try and come back into your life though, have standards for yourself.

Ghosting is not a thing. Not wanting to see another person is perfectly normal, it doesn't turn into a melodrama just because you invent a cute word around it.

>>82123692 (OP)
Sorry it happened to you anon. It happens a lot. Its just that doing nothing is easiest. Don't blame yourself and move on. Not having closure is a bitch but it is what it is, unfortunatly.

I just want 1 real shot

>>82125254
hope it's lethal so you stop spamming, retard namefag

>>82125270
Only my 3rd post today retard