Anonymous
8/9/2025, 6:06:13 AM
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Relationships are pure hell for men
Being in a relationship with a woman is deeply unsatisfying. When you're single, you think that getting a girlfriend would be this amazing experience, mainly because your monkey brain is crying out for sex, so you think that being in a relationship will be the key to happiness. But it's not.
First of all, when you date a chick, you are very quickly reminded that you are the disposable one in the relationship. You are the one that constantly has to sacrifice for her comfort and satisfaction. You are the one who constantly has to be uncomfortable. If it's cold outside, you have to give her your jacket and be cold so she can be warm. You have to be the one paying for dates and be uncomfortable financially, just to satisfy her fantasy of being provided for.
You have to be the one willing to step up in a dangerous situation to protect her at the cost of your own life if the circumstance is dire enough. You have to always be on, always be funny, charming, charismatic and so on. If you aren't, you risk giving her the "ick" and she'll either dump you, or she will just completely lose respect for you and make your life and relationship more difficult.
You have to be the one who never shows too much emotion. You have to not show fear when you're scared, not shed tears when you're extremely sad or distraught, and not show anger when you're genuinely infuriated, for the same reason of not giving her the "ick." You have to suppress every natural human emotion you have for her benefit and to make her feel secure.
It's an exhausting and at times, deeply unsatisfying way to live. You live a life of constantly having to prove yourself to her just to get pussy. Your masculinity and worth as a human being is constantly being measured and scrutinized. Any slip up, and she'll call your entire relationship and existence as a man into question. It's honestly easier just to be single.
First of all, when you date a chick, you are very quickly reminded that you are the disposable one in the relationship. You are the one that constantly has to sacrifice for her comfort and satisfaction. You are the one who constantly has to be uncomfortable. If it's cold outside, you have to give her your jacket and be cold so she can be warm. You have to be the one paying for dates and be uncomfortable financially, just to satisfy her fantasy of being provided for.
You have to be the one willing to step up in a dangerous situation to protect her at the cost of your own life if the circumstance is dire enough. You have to always be on, always be funny, charming, charismatic and so on. If you aren't, you risk giving her the "ick" and she'll either dump you, or she will just completely lose respect for you and make your life and relationship more difficult.
You have to be the one who never shows too much emotion. You have to not show fear when you're scared, not shed tears when you're extremely sad or distraught, and not show anger when you're genuinely infuriated, for the same reason of not giving her the "ick." You have to suppress every natural human emotion you have for her benefit and to make her feel secure.
It's an exhausting and at times, deeply unsatisfying way to live. You live a life of constantly having to prove yourself to her just to get pussy. Your masculinity and worth as a human being is constantly being measured and scrutinized. Any slip up, and she'll call your entire relationship and existence as a man into question. It's honestly easier just to be single.