Thread 82128899

Chad only memes aside, I think women do care about personality and good vibes can make them horny. Its just that the typical robot is neurotic or autistic a trait which is a pussy drier. I never met a autist who was good with women in my lfie.

>>82128899 (OP)
Oh yeah? Well I'm ugly and only beer goggles can fix that shit.

you just need to be half a head taller than her, that's enough

>>82128899 (OP)
why do you keep using gainsbourg who was a super famous artist, as a picture for these shitty threads? it's like using danny de vito or jean paul sartre. it's dishonest and discredits your messager

>>82128899 (OP)
The ugliest men I know are married or have girlfriends. At the same time, almost every incel is unattractive.

It really is about personality. And attractive people tend to have better personalities. But neuroticism is a bigger hindrance than ugliness.

>personality and good vibes
I wonder when people are gonna just accept that pheromones exist and people are fucking each other's immune systems

>>82128925
Jane Birkin rejected Alain Delon for Gainsbourg. She even made Delon drive her on dates with Gainsbourg when after the shooting of La Piscina.

>>82128899 (OP)
it's about height

>>82128899 (OP)
It's actually just doing things + having resources
Do something, anything, I beg you incels just do something interesting for once in your pathetic life

>>82128955

what are pheromones anyway? I've been dousing myself in eau de parufm and no woman finds it sexually appealing, even though I get compliments and women sniffing me.

>>82128899 (OP)
All autists need to do is move away from hyperfixating on weird hobbies and go autistic for the hobby of seduction. Imagine the power of an autistic solely focused on the hobby of getting women. I knew one like this, normally horrible socially and couldnt approach well, but if he got forced into a conversation with a woman it was like he was trained from birth to get her to bed. Nice guy

>>82129025

As someone who gets called "pretty" and "sexy" but rejected after a few dates. I can 100% confirm that this is true. I've been cucked by men with bad breath, balding, tartar stained teeth, or guys who don't clip their fingernails properly... All these years of taking care of my appearance got me numerous compliments and 0 lays. I literally have nothing exciting happening in my lfie.

>>82128999
so what, he was still an outlier and thus worthless as an example

The blackpill is supposed to be about acceptance and closure. What you are doing with your "advice" only leads to further misery. Once I fully accepted the blackpill, I changed my life. I cut out all the things making me miserable that I was doing with the hopes of better dating prospects. Chiefly working full time.

>>82129030
Pheromones aren't scent. You associate them with scent because that scent had sex pheromones on them.
Pheromones are the shit that makes a girl want to steal her boyfriend's sweaty tee shirt and use it as a security blanket. They're what makes you horny instead of repulsed when your crush has a little B.O. on her and you catch a whiff of it over her shitty hippy "all natural" deodorant. They're the shit that makes the pillow they slept on into an especially comforting pillow. They're the shit that gets your mom all riled-up for your dad's nasty-ass man body when he comes in glistening from the yardwork looking like some dude in an ugly bastard doujin. And really, she doesn't like his brut aftershave, she thinks she likes that scent on him because it's laced with his pheromones. They're probably part of why panties are fetishized. They're why people in that study could recognize their partner's gym clothing and tell it apart from others'. They're proximity-activated, too, so they're part of why online dating SUCKS.

>>82128939
Married men can be incels though.

>>82128899 (OP)
That thing is completely disgusting and I'm sure that women only dated him because of daddy issues or some mental illness

>>82128899 (OP)
This was taken in the 80's when people like my dad had sex
Times have changed
>>82128939
The "nonchalance" you feel from attractive people is because they were given better default treatment growing up. It's not that hard to imagine things like facial attractiveness determine how people feel about you; and how things like height determine what people assume your abilities to be.
For the face it's like how people would treat a cat vs a really ugly dog.
For the ability it's like how deer hunters selectively breed large bucks and cull the smaller ones with smaller horns.
It's utilitarian mostly, face is for advertising, and height is for outright utility.
An ugly guy could make women feel good, but unless he has something very novel about him, IE insanely good personality (which requires a RARE brain to have in the face of ugly duckling treatment) or a lot of money (still won't lead to genuine feelings though)
For certain guys it's better to drop out. There's no point running in a race you weren't chosen for.
Even if you started sprinting now, you wouldn't catch up to the guys who have been running since their teens.

>>82129191
>For certain guys it's better to drop out. There's no point running in a race you weren't chosen for.
>Even if you started sprinting now, you wouldn't catch up to the guys who have been running since their teens.
defeatist much, anon?
I feel like you're the type of guy who'd just give his money away if he's mugged
I don't care what other people think, as long as I can do something about it I'll do it - life's a bitch but I'm gonna make her my bitch

>>82128899 (OP)
Being neuroatypical is a bigger hindrance than being ugly, but if the autistic people were super attractive, they could still get sex but maybe not keep a LTR.

Also most guys that get laid aren't picky so they'll fuck a girl that's a 2 or 3

>>82128899 (OP)
no they don't.

>I think women do care
I know that they don't

>>82129216
That's just who I am. I've been this way since I started highschool, and I am still the same guy today just more lived and schizophrenic.
If you're not me, good for you; but that's not something you earned. You have a natural will to fight. Depending on how you look at that, it's a gift.
Your life will be hard. You'll lose a lot of jobs, you'll get cucked by your gfs for reasons they can't articulate, random dudes will test and fight you, the system will eat you and shit you out, but as long as you fight, maybe it'll be worth it. Don't let it destroy you.

>>82128999
Because he was more famous than him back then.
Its not that hard to understand
>>82128899 (OP)
>bro just be a world famous singer

>>82129137
so this is nu-/r9k/

whole thread is also pretty ironic

>>82129025
>>82129055
So just be uberrrich
>do something
Huge meme, noone gives a shit especially if youre ugly
>t.lived off grid on a island in alaska, crossed the south pacific on a cargo and went mountaineering in congo this year

>>82129281
Okay so this objectively not attractive, non white (Jewish) man could overcome his appearance and race. The fact that you see this as discouragement and not inspiration is why no one likes you. Just get some reedeming qualities and find someone. You're not entitled to an attractive person that a real celebrity might be entitled to. but at least you'll find someone if you're not completely insufferable

>>82129137
>words mean things but also I can change their definition as I like
Spiritual leftism

>>82129314
>not attractive, non white (Jewish)
At the time he was considered verya ttracrive, he was also the most popular singer in my country and one of the richest, also he had a terrible reputation which is a turn on for women i guess
>fact that you see this as discouragement and not inspiration is why no one likes you.
Wow so i have to be a world famous singer to get a date, this fills me with hope...
>Just get some reedeming qualities
Like what, this seems like projection
>and find someone
Theres noone for us. Were too ugly/poor/boring. Also you dont find someone. You on dating apps. Realize you have no chance and rope.
>youre not entitled to attractive partners
Ive been rejected by obese, drug addicted single moms

>>82129270
>You have a natural will to fight
Not at all - I've attempted suicide like 3 times now
I've "built" this will out of my own two hands, anon - I've struggled, I've gone days without food, I've probably gone through several mindbreaks due to being mentally ill
>Don't let it destroy you.
Projection - you want to get better too, anon
I know you can, this random anon you'll never meet again believes in you

>>82129302
>Congo
assuming you're white, why didnt you bang some poon while you're there?

>>82129434
>incel board
>assuming anyone's white

>>82129464
>brown incel
What?
That makes no fucking sense, dipshit
You guys can get sex just like that, your women are all sex machines

>>82128924
>>82129003
Gainsbourg was shorter than her in heels.

>>82129511
oh this was the 60s, they were all fucking each other

>>82129511
>Yeah height doesn't matter, here's this photo from the fucking late 30's
Dude you might as well say being 5'3", having a sloped forehead, unibrow and male pattern baldness is ok and show everyone a cave painting.

>>82129539
late 50's* but you get the idea. times are different

Why do women hate autists so much?
>"YOU MADE EYE CONTACT WITH ME FOR 2.71 SECONDS INSTEAD OF 3.59 SECONDS, I HATE YOU!"
Why are womanbrains like this?

>>82128899 (OP)
>women have sex with ugly men all the time
No they dont. Proof is you had to find a superstar picture from 50/60 years ago to prove your point

>>82129434
I am the guy who just replied to.
No i did not interact with anyone, i just paid some guy to guide me across the border from uganda.

>>82129893
this guy tried to fuck her, and she friendzoned him and made him drive her on dates with Serge. What a Chad.

>>82129129
intredasting informatiog anon

>>82129191
Thanks for the input, Judas! IE good RARE !

>>82129025
i do heroin sometimes, is that interesting?

>>82129906
>No i did not interact with anyone
why not?
what were you doing in the Congo anyway?

>>82130675
It is, actually
you ever tried hooking up with another junkie?

>>82128899 (OP)
I am a bigtime nerd and a fatso also not particularly tall, avrg ish height (180cm). Looks don matter unless you're looking for just plaps. If you are the shoulder she'll cry on she is bound to have a relationship with you in some way (romantic or not). Also genuinely hanging around with women helps a lot with understanding em.

>>82129025
some of the most interesting men ive ever known were virgins or had only slept with one woman. i know plenty of men with plenty of hobbies that get zero pussy.

>>82130925
how does this even happen. Why are very deep, thoughtful men, who are introspective usually incel-adjencts. Do you need to be a bit dim to get laid?

>>82130627
Any woman nowadays will tell you this guys mid

>>82130697
>why not
Bzcause the part of the drc i was biefly hiking in was conteolled by the m23
>what were you doing over there
Hiking the rwenzoris

>>82128899 (OP)
Attractive men will still crush

>>82128899 (OP)
Ironically, the hottest women i've known in both real life and celebrities always seem to have lower standards for men and date men slightly less attractive than them.

The women with the highest standards are usually the least attractive

The real black pill is that personality is nearly everything and as someone with many autistic traitsdespite the fact that I am now in really good shape and am relatively well off I will never be able to get a GF. I can and have had sex but no one ever wants to stick around and make it something serious. I am so alone

Dame that creature is ugly

>>82131256
I've been called "pretty" and "sexy" by teenage girls and middle aged straight dudes. I have no fear around women, and I can maintain a superficial flirty personality for a while. But somewhere along the way I always fuck up.

>>82129161
>>82131265
stop it with the antisemitism

I just believe I'm disadvantaged in every way humanly possible in terms of romance. If it's not my genetics, it's my personality. And if it's not that, it's my wealth or my age or anything else. I just say fuck it, it's not worth it. Better to live the way I want alone rather than curate an idea of myself just so someone else will want to be around me.

>>82128899 (OP)
I have way more control over my looks than I do over my personality.

>>82131637
but when you think about it, sex having men don't have these amazing personalities either. Most of the time they aren't even good conversationalists. The average robot is well versed in topics like pop culture, art, politics, social issues -- shit women like.

>>82131730
>The average robot is well versed in topics like pop culture, art, politics, social issues -- shit women like.
tru, but it's not the whole picture. In the past, I've been able to get people to like me by having a bunch of nerdy interests and becoming a sort of source for info, but they can still easily tell how much of an autist I am which pushes them off.

>"omg anon, you're like an encyclopedia for these things"
>"forgive me for asking but, are you autistic or smth?"
>"oh that's so CUTE, never change!"

>Still avoids me.

>>82129025
not an incel, but I do million fucking things and have hobbies that women have considered attractive. this is not enough on its own and women still rarely approach, because women do not approach in general. only times I've relevant interest I've received from a hobby of mine is if not from a place of friendship (which is still fine), it's from purely out of a shallow lust and nothing more.

>>82131828
holy fuck, it is all about vibes then .Not even looks, just masculine nonchalant vibes. Men who have the most sex just talk in "wdym bae shieeet" "u down" "wanna smash" "bby"

>>82131946
how do you get to kissing and sex if women don't approach or signal they're attracted. I have been approached by women, but its rare so I need to initiate. But whenever I try to "just get to know her as a person" they all think I want to be their friend and are then shocked that I tried to "weasel in their pants".

>>82129025
What about ballroom dancing?

>>82128899 (OP)
You can be ugly and still have aura. Few

>>82132240
>or signal they're attracted
didn't say that part, else it would directly contradict my statement:
>it's from purely out of a shallow lust
you see they can show signs and I did have to learn what they were the hard way over time, but in almost every case they did nothing more than that. I was still expected to initiate and eventually through trial and error I realized that if I don't, literally nothing is going to happen.

>>82128899 (OP)
Even among good looking people, intellectual and artistic talents are relatively rare and exceptional, so of course exceptional qualities should be unsurprisingly attractive.

>>82129025
It's too late to fix things. I think I would go to hell for consciously introducing a woman into my life. Regardless I'd have to lie to get her

>>82129052
If you went autismo about seduction you'd just end up a creep

>>82131256
>>82131428
Have you guys talked to therapist about this?

>>82128899 (OP)
I've never met a girl who was single in my entire life. It's never enough.

>>82129317
You've never heard to dead bedroom situations before?