Thread 82139311

>be me
>femcel, 22
>kissless virgin
>long for someone for years because I have no one and am cripplingly lonely
>finally give up hope of finding a good man
>a month later im introduced to a cute guy
>he likes the same games, anime, hobbies and other shit I do too
>we both even hold the same values
>we hit it off and we start dating a month after meeting
>this is the happiest ive been in years anons
>i started baking again to always provide him with sweet treats he enjoys
>buy him shit tons of snacks and pokemon cards
>draw pictures of us all the time to send to him
>he has talked to me about marriage and how he plans to take me away after he is done with the military
>asked if he could come over the other day just to give me a kiss

I love my boyfriend so much

We will all eventually find someone, we just need to let love find us

There is hope for everyone

>be me
>incel, 36
>long for someone for years because I have no one and am cripplingly lonely
>finally give up hope of finding a good woman
>Nobody cares and I die alone
kys

>>82139311 (OP)
Fuck you. I talk to a 22 year old femcel regularly and she keeps telling me she isn't into older guys

>>82139332
its okay anon, it may seem like having waited so long is horrible but trust the process! you will find a good woman who will value you and love you unconditionally. all you have to do is let love come to YOU instead of you seeking it out. as soon as i realized that, i was found by my bf

>>82139380
she may not be serious about a relationship then because age shouldnt really put someone off unless the other person is like twenty years older or something

my bf is a few years older than me and i actually love it

>>82139383
>all you have to do is let love come to YOU instead of you seeking it out. as soon as i realized that, i was found by my bf
Great bait, but men are never found.

>>82139410
I wish i could change your perspective anon, i dont want you feeling as if life failed you

Men CAN be found
I have men in my family that got married well into their forties
They are all living their best lives rn


This will be you
All you need to do is work on something you love in the meantime while fate takes its course

>>82139407
Stop discriminating against my age

>>82139448
if I somehow managed to even make it remotely near your age then you might need to start looking elsewhere anon

or just dont look at all and let a good girl find you

>>82139439
You can't change my perspective and if you knew what my life has been like, you would agree with me.

>>82139311 (OP)
>We will all eventually find someone, we just need to let love find us
Yeah, but most of us aren't women, so it doesn't really work like that for us, but oh well, congratulation for your luck Femanon! I'm not mad as long as you're not a whore, which you're obviously not since this is your first guy.

>"femcel" here

Please just delete this board. Women can't even let men keep a euphemism for being a loser for themselves. Women cannot be -cels. I sincerely hope OPs boyfriend cheats on her and she ends up killing herself in a fit of hormonal grief.

>>82139497
>I sincerely hope OPs boyfriend cheats on her
These women all go for overt narcissists so guaranteed she will get cheated on

>>82139311 (OP)
How does it feel to be normal?
I wish I could pay for the memories of a normalfag, and get to experience how it feels to not hate yourself and have people that care about you.

>>82139472
>then you might need to start looking elsewhere anon
Don't think I will

>>82139475
oh anon :(

You are still too young to give up already though
My dad married my mom into his FIFTIES

Trust me when i say that even as time goes on, there will always be hope

You have to believe me when I say that you have to let it come to you, not you try to find it
work on yourself, find something that you enjoy doing, you dont even have to socialize

I was living my life in my room every single day before i met my bf
I would never leave it for anything but only work

I met him AT work because a coworker introduced us

all you have to do now is play the waiting game a little bit more

>>82139311 (OP)
"Femcel"
>Found love
No shit. Why do you think people say that femcels aren't real? It's not the same for men. Why do you feel the need to come rub your success in the faces of people that will always be alone?

>>82139311 (OP)
tldr KYS foid

>>82139585
Im sorry anon, i truly didnt intend to come here with the appearance that i was trying to somehow rub my success in anyones face

I wanted to come here with my experience to help you guys have hope

I know how awful it feels to have no one
My life before this was just lay in bed every hour of the day hating myself
I never went out or socialized

I know a lot of us are in the same headspace i was in just a few months ago

So i come to you all with the fact that there is indeed hope for those like us
Sure, it takes a while for some of us
But trust me when i tell you that once you meet your person, all the waiting will have been worth it

>>82139518
Good. I hope he sends her pictures of his dick in another girl when she's hyperventilating.

>>82139656
Again, you're female. You don't have a fucking clue how it is for men, and you're just doing what all women do: making sure low-status men are reminded of their undesirability. It's an innate urge in your hormonal, crotch-bleeding demons.

Just fuck off and never post again, foid.

>>82139656
>indeed hope for those like us
It really is just not the same. There's no one coming to save me.

>>82139656
You're a woman. Of course there is always hope for you. I thought I met my person, once or twice, but then they kept pressuring me into sexual stuff, like all women I've dated. There is no hope for me. I have a few years worth of savings and then I will leave this world, imagining a place in my next life where women are capable of love and actually desire romance and affection. No one will miss me. Even this interaction you'll forget.

>>82139311 (OP)
Does he have that ungodly, disgusting, taunting moustache? If he does i would strap him down and shave it off as painfully as possible and then make him eat it.

>>82139311 (OP)
>>femcel
never were
>>a month later im introduced to a cute guy
How were you introduced? How did you meet?

>>82139715
I will always remember you anon, even if you are hidden behind a screen and despite us not interacting beyond this one thread

Its admirable that you keep to your values

Someone someday will surely appreciate your ethic and love you unconditionally, and when that day comes, remember that you stayed true to yourself and you are where you are meant to be

>>82139678
>she's hyperventilating
Lol. That would be funny

>>82139790
Women can't handle loneliness as well as men. A few more years of you being a hikki neet and you would've snapped too. My soulmate has already ended her life years ago and I will join her in Minecraft soon.

>>82139789
Maybe Im not like some here, but trust me when i say i was bitter and held resentment towards the world for the lonely and miserable life i led up until i met my bf

We met when a coworker introduced us together upon her realizing that we were just two lonely people
It was hard to talk to someone, much more a man, as i was in all my antisocial ways

We got together only because he was the one who took that tiny initiative of asking me out on a date
After that, i figured I had nothing to lose here so i went full tard mode in all of my interests just to see if he would be put off or something

When he reciprocated, we both realized we were like one another, and now we are happily dating

>>82139864
>he was the one who took that tiny initiative of asking me out on a date
And you think a woman would do that for us?

>>82139815
Women can opt out of loneliness whenever they feel like it, dipshit.

>>82139888
The right woman will make the effort of meeting you halfway, so yeah, maybe
But you also have to be willing to take some risks

>>82139383
You're a woman. Women get saved. Men save themselves or die.

>>82139912
Dumbfuck zoomer thinks his Chinese romance comics are real life.

>>82139715
>They kept pressuring me into sexual stuff
... How horrible?

>>82139912
>you also have to be willing to take some risks
Yeah I know I have to. I'm a man. That's the point I'm trying to make though. You don't have to make the first move or put yourself out there and go through rejection after rejection. You just have to exist and things happen for you. If you were a man, you'd still be alone right now.

>be me, empathy devoid traumatised teenage edgelord
>get hundreds of girls online naked for fun
>treat them like a mix between interactive porn and a dating simulator (as in lie and tailor my personality, but used real photos/name)
>particular girl and I form a connection despite my conduct, too ashamed to realise a relationship
>she falls in love with me
>string her along for two years and use her as I used the others, but with her shamefully
>finally, wracked with guilt, decide to meet her so she can realise I am a vile man and forget about me
>we meet, she adores me
>become a couple, stop with the online cringe shit
>genuinely perfect girl, caring, compassionate, good family, wants nothing more than to spend time with me
>date for another two years, but she is traumatised from how I treated her
>constantly anxious, has panic attacks over minor problems, calls me even when I am at work crying
>realise despite my sincere and successful attempt at reform, she is trauma bonded to me
>accept she will never change and heal so long as I am in her life
>break up with her face to face, she melts down
Nowadays shes all good. Has a good boyfriend, working the career she dreamed of. Meanwhile I have spoken to two women in the six years since, and have become an empathetic, compassionate man - neither woman appreciated me, and I doubt any will again. The only way I could ever convince a woman to love me was by denigrating her into feeling lesser than me. I try to be a good man now, and if that means being alone until death then so be it.

>>82139311 (OP)
>We will all eventually find someone, we just need to let love find us
>There is hope for everyone
I thought I had found a girl for me. I did all of these:
>I got a job
>Istarted putting effort in my studies
>I saved money
>I made plans for the future
>I got new clothes
>I picked up my guitar again
>I cut my hair
>I started exercising
I also made conscious changes and efforts about my behavior and other things.
I am here, so you can guess what happened. I got dumped for some shit I was born with and can do absolutely nothing about.

>there's someone out there for everyone
She was the one for me. And I lost her. There is nothing more, she ripped away all the hope I had managed to build up.
And you know what she said when she did?
>I should have never said yes to you, and all of this could have been avoided.
I understand she was blaming herself. But in doing so, she said that she regretted all the time we spent together, because she celt guilty about it.
I never mattered.

>>82139311 (OP)
There is no happy ending for me.
You get saved and carried into the horizon, a future with a happy family.
I don't. I rot alone until I can finally die without having anyone cry about my absence.

>>82140007
You deserve better than anything she could have ever offered you anon

You have shown you are of a strong mind and heart, this was just a girl who did not deserve you in the slightest

The next step you need to take in your life is realize that losing her only helped you in the long run because no woman like that would have benefited you in any way. I understand that the memories you may have had with her are sweet, but those experiences dont exist anymore

A good woman will find you one day and you will look back on this and realize that you would do it all over again for this love

>>82140158
This is a woman, who thinks when you snap your fingers, a new potential partner will appeal. Foids are just incapable of understanding what men go through, and it's insufferable listening to them give their idiotic kindergarten speeches.

>>82139989
Good behavior does not go unrewarded anon

By proving that you are capable of change, you may not realize it, but you are stepping closer and closer towards a fulfilling future, one that will one day include a beautiful family if this behavior keeps up

Youre a good man, past actions dont define you in your present

>>82140158
I am 23, will be 24 in a couple months. I will finish university this year.
There is nothing left for me.
I got fired from the job and I stopped playing guitar. I haven't cut my hair in months and I barely get out of bed.
I am also not a good person.

>>82139311 (OP)
Why do women suddenly want a quiet dude thats into nerd bullshit? There was a stigma about this when I grew up and suddenly it's the exact opposite.
Either way it's always a "cute guy"
I hope you end it.

>>82140183
Thank you Anon, this is all I dream of. Bless you for your kind words

>>82139311 (OP)
very easy for a female to say.

>>82139497
>>82139518
>why wont anyone date me?

>>82141043
>Getting relationships is the exact same level of difficulty for men and women
Shut up

>>82139311 (OP)
are you over 140kg?

>>82139311 (OP)
>am cripplingly lonely
>a month later im introduced to a cute guy
>am cripplingly lonely
>a month later im introduced to a cute guy
>am cripplingly lonely
>a month later im introduced to a cute guy
who introduced you? the holy spirit?

>>82139311 (OP)
>femcel, 22
Not a femcel and 22 is extremely young.
>finally give up hope of finding a good man
At 22? Ok.
Would have been more impressive if you were a man, but is wholesome and cute
>There is hope for everyone
I agree. There's hope for (almost) everyone.
Some people are drowning in blackpill juice and are very hard to salvage if not impossible (mostly, for no fault of their own)

>>82139410
>all you have to do is let love come to YOU
nta but it's kinda true. Used to hang out with a group of girls and eventually one of them got attracted to me. Actually, most times I got a girl we were friends and eventually they got attracted to me (personality, ig. Looks 6-7/10 on a good day)