Thread 82140493

What's the worst social rejection you've experienced?

one time I told someone to have a nice day, and then they didn't say "you too"

>>82140507
That's so fucked up anon.... I wish you recover from that.....

>>82140507
i hope you have the best day today anon

>live in christian minority cunt
>go to catholic church
>congregation with local converts
>everyone is really awkward, but still manage to somehow get along
>barely go for the longest time
>come back
>people stop replying to my texts
>pastor ignores me as well
>never did anything
I'm starting to think catholics are toxic and mean, and if they treat me like that then maybe their church is the wrong one.

>>82140553
fuck religion its a scam
all my most real friendships have been with weird fandom people instead

>>82140493 (OP)
I've never tried. Since I know I won't get anything in return by asking.

>>82140493 (OP)
There was this graduation party. A guy invited me so I went with him. I didn't even want to be there. There was this dude who came up to me and started mocking my stutter and asked why I was there. He then went back to drinking and I thought that was the end of it. A group of guys poured a huge bucket of ice water on me and started laughing. I went home and started crying like a bitch.

>>82140493 (OP)
way back in high school, i was asked to leave a house-party by the host. I only really knew the people who i came with. I was high on E (for the first time) and acting way too friendly and goofy. Maybe i was talking too loud, and laughing too much. A bunch of hard "tuff guys" at the party were getting annoyed apparently. They weren't anti-drugs; they were just anti-fun.

>>82140493 (OP)
>What's the worst social rejection you've experienced?
Was invited to dance by a girl at a party (I don't know how to dance) flopped like a fish for a minute and she just walked away.

Also, confessed to my crush (many crushes until I grew up from crushes) and got rejected in many innovative ways (from "you're a nice guy but..." to "but your just my nerdy friend! Every girl has a nerdy friend" once "but you're a horrible!" and so on).

Joined a table with people I thought were my friends and they said "we're talking about ingroup friends stuff" and I said "I know"; they stared at me and didn't start talking again until I left

>>82141562

Painful, the kind of stuff you end up thinking about years after. Did you ever hang with those guys again after?

>>82141624
>Did you ever hang with those guys again after?
We were a part of a greater friend group so yes, I hung out with them again and did activities, but it was not the same anymore and I readjusted their place in my life in my head.

>>82140493 (OP)
3 girls I never met went out of their way to accuse me of sex harassment. I was 15 at the time and this was before MeToo

>>82140493 (OP)
When I was a kid a group of kids said I couldn't play with them
I proceeded to sabotage the game so it was even in the end.
I haven't faced much rejection since, mostly because I know which groups fw with and who doesn't. Also never spoke to women with romantic intent.

>>82140507
Holy fucm bro shit it's so blackpilled bro wtf I'm so ngmi,

probably trying to fit into that dating discord last night

I guess I don't recall any major social rejection due to avoiding almost any risk of experiencing it, though being picked almost last in any sort of scenario (especially gym class) all thorough my childhood was kind of rough.

>>82140493 (OP)
An r9k fembot rejected cbt for me.

>>82140493 (OP)
When I was 12 or 13, a friend of mine gave my number to a girl he knew I had a crush on. He was friends with her and tried to help me out. She texted me out of the blue one day and we started talking. We actually hit it off pretty well and enjoyed speaking with each other. And being a retard 13 year old, I rushed it and asked if she would want to go out. She said yes but wanted a pic. I sent one, but I guess it was a little blurry because she said she thought I looked cute but wanted a clearer picture. So I steadied myself and sent a much better one. And I still remember her words to this day:
>im sorry but ur ewwwww we cant date
Actually hurt my feelings pretty fucking bad and I ended up going off on her over that and a bunch of shit that didnt even have anything to do with her. We did not date of course lol. That was almost 20 years ago now. Doesnt even sting thinking back on it at this point. I realize now she was just kind of a tactless bitch and she was just unnecessarily rude.

>>82141562
That last one is very similar to something that happened to me at college, I sat down at a table with a guy and some girls that I thought I was kind of neutral-acquaintances with after asking if I could sit with them, and then after a few minutes of me just working on class stuff on my laptop they asked me why I was sitting with them and told me to leave because I was creepy

>>82143510
>told me to leave because I was creepy
Damn, that's rough.

>>82143587
It's fine, it's the way things are meant to be. I've come to find beauty in it, like the beauty of an injured animal being torn apart by a pack of wolves. It's part of the natural order of things, and nature is always beautiful.

>>82144218
>It's part of the natural order of things
I believe you have worth, anon. More worth then a wounded animal. You are a human.
>an injured animal being torn apart by a pack of wolves
They are not wolves, they are tactless jerks. You were not creepy, you had a wrong impression at worst and they acted like assholes.
>it's the way things are meant to be
You deserve a better treatment then that. I'm sorry you've resigned yourself to that mentality, anon.
>nature is always beautiful
Who am I to say? If you found your zen then so be it.

>>82144649
It's not exactly zen, it still hurts just not as much. Thank you for the kind words though.

>>82145545
>it still hurts just not as much
Everybody has their survival mechanisms. Mine are hope and optimism and will.
>Thank you for the kind words though
Anytime :)