Thread 82142759

when was the last time any of you had friends? its been 4 years of loneliness for me.

>>82142759 (OP)
do you consider online friends to be real friends?

>>82142767
i mean, sure, but i meant real life friends.

>>82142759 (OP)
I got friends recently after 6 years of no friends.

Actual friends and not men that just pretended to be my friends to get nudes or flirt with me? Wow, maybe like 3 years ago at this point. I used to be on a great feminism discord and had a nice relationship with one of the women there but my anxiety made me fall out of touch. I always felt too inferior messaging her even though she put 500% effort into her messages and was a boss. I'm the reason I'm alone.

>>82142759 (OP)
i guess i still technically have friends i still talk to my two close hs friends on Instagram but we don't meet up or anything i did once met up but it was pretty lame we just walked around and went to our homes afterwards, but if that doesn't count I've been alone for 3 or 4 years

>>82142759 (OP)
I've never had friends irl only online

>>82142783
i see. i have both, i was just wondering if you considered online friends to be real because people on here say they aren't, as if there weren't real people behind the screen. the first friends i made were online, they were nice and we just drifted away slowly

>>82142783
>i meant real life friends
so you have online friends or not? you are not truly lonely if you do.

>>82142759 (OP)
I've been ghosting my irl friends for the past 2-3y because i don't feel human anymore and i've developed the sentiment that they only allowed me near them/were friends out of pity and not respect.

2006, my last year of middle school.
Two decades without a single human liking you is pretty wild, but such is the fate of the dysgenic noncompetitive male.

>>82142759 (OP)
IRL? 15 years ago, maybe 16.

>>82142863
Who do you hang out with, nobody? Family? Not being mean

>>82142759 (OP)
I've had 1 online friend in the last decade. She's ignoring me now

>>82142823
>>82142844
i do have online friends and i consider them to be real friends, but they dont fill the same "hole" as irl friends do. im too pussy to talk to them in vc too, and theres only 3 that i regularly talk to.
>>82142859
same, anon. i ghosted my last irl friend for the same reason and i still regret it.

>>82142759 (OP)
9 years ago, and even then the friendship broke apart before that because I got meme'd into Trump being able to "drain the swamp" one day, lmao.

>>82142759 (OP)
No friends since I was about 15 or 16.
When do you consider someone your friend?
I haven't hung out with someone outside of school that wasn't family since I was 15 or 14.
I've added some people from here on discord but it never went anywhere after a few days.

Haven't tried making any friends though. I don't care much about it and really like being alone more.

>>82143622
>since I was 15 or 14
I'm 23 btw.