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>she's still in a different caste than you
yeah this is a fundamental dynamic in all heterosexual interactions
women have a constant boost to their SMV, equivalent to ~3 decile points
so a 5/10 woman has the same SMV as an ~8/10 man
so if you want to engage with a woman on equal footing, you have to be 3 or more points more attractive than her
in terms of actionable advice, all you can really do is looksmaxx and/or lower your standards
>inb4 but my le "get to know her first" "friends to lovers" "slow burn"
if you psyop a woman into liking you despite there not being any pure, carnal attraction, she will lose all attraction to you after ~2 years. Assuming you attractiveness stays the same, a gf's attraction to you will decay over time to whatever amount of attraction she felt for you at first sight