>>82147314 (OP)Is it men's fault that porn and Onlyfans is popular?... in the simple answer, "yes". The majority of their revenue comes from males. Particularly the desperate kind, whether that's due to loneliness or stagnation.
At the same time, there's a not-small amount of men that don't participate in gratifying at least Onlyfans, and still a sufficient amount of men who disapprove of overuse of porn. So, you can't blame it necessary on men as a gender, moreso just particular groups of men as to their circumstances.
But it's not like you'd care about WHY it's popular, if all you focus on is 'who is to blame.' Right?