>>82149817
I don't know. She'll say something if it's been a few days. I think it's primarily driven by insecurity. Getting it up the butt or having her mouth fucked can't exactly be something desirable and driven by lust. It's kind of routine. I work on weekends so I'm tired, just want to drink and pass out as soon as I get home. Weekdays I usually initiate. We live in a tiny home, only furniture I own is a bed, console table for TV and android box, and the "kitchen". A table with an induction burner, rice cooker, toaster oven, and fryer. So we just lay in bed all the time.
I start groping her and she knows what it means, she moves in to sucking. After a couple minutes she applies coconut oil and sucks more. This is the extent of the foreplay phase. Rarely I tell her to keep sucking until I cum. Sometimes I instruct her to lay on her side and I will fuck her mouth. Usually when I'm ready to cum I tell her to get on her belly. If feeling generous I put a dab of coconut oil on her butthole, if not I will use my saliva. One spit dribbled and then enter. Works better than you'd think since pecker was prelubed with oil during foreplay. Sometimes I will tell her to get on top, still anal but cowgirl. It's harder to cum if I'm supine but I'm a smellfag and will smell her armpits while thrusting.
Besides work, 4chan, and streaming over mobile hotspot there's not much to do other than sex. So I guess she doesn't really get a chance to initiate. If I'm tired I would just get pissed off if she pushed for sex anyway. I'm kind of like a cat. I want it when I want it but otherwise just be quiet I'm doing my own thing.
We have a mice infestation and sometimes they yell at each other or chase. So I or her will mimic the squeaking sounds eek eek eee, and her or I will respond in kind. Kind of dumb, but I find it amusing and endearing whether she squeaks first or squeaks back to me.
