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Anonymous No.82151935 >>82152129 >>82152143 >>82152230 >>82153004 >>82153224 >>82153228 >>82153346 >>82154060 >>82154082 >>82154446 >>82154843 >>82154870 >>82154903 >>82155352
dating as a black man
Black women on dating apps:
>early 20s
>smokes weed
>drinks alcohol
>party girl, likes to go clubbing
>wants princess treatment or something casual, never wants a relationship
This is why black guys don't date black girls anymore, all you girls act like total party sluts. At least the black girls on r9k are kind of better, the only bad part is that they're fat and mentally ill but I would rather take a fat mentally ill clingy black girl than a loud wannabe Kardashian whore.
Anonymous No.82151977
If you can't thug it out like Tyrone, it's over
Anonymous No.82152129 >>82152188 >>82152254 >>82152280 >>82154723 >>82155320
>>82151935 (OP)
dating as a non-normie black man is literally not possible, I'm convinced it doesn't happen. non-normie black women only want white dudes, white women only want big-dicked tyrone, you don't even exist in the eyes of asians, and latinas, indians, and arabs all have families that would kill you for not being from the same culture as their daughter. it's like fighting in the trenches of WW1.
Anonymous No.82152143 >>82152429 >>82154927
>>82151935 (OP)
there's black girls on r9k?
Anonymous No.82152157
you're just not successful enough.
black men, especially blerds or whatever you associate with, need to be in the upper percentile of rich men to be seen as anything but waste.
Anonymous No.82152188
>>82152129
>all have families that would kill you for not being from the same culture as their daughter
funny story, my friends are latino. im pretty sure my second friend would kill me if i looked at his sister funny but thats ok i never had hope in life for that.
anyway i visted them on leave and they're mom and granny fed me.
I went upstairs to wash the dishes and their stepdad who i never met before just gave me a deathstare.
told him good afternoon sir and went about my day.
the family proceeded to have a fight about letting niggers in the house. i apologised i didnt want them to fight over me but someone should have warned me about their stepdad being racist or something lol.
Anonymous No.82152230
>>82151935 (OP)
Being a black man is a double edged sword. You can tyronemax and maybe trick some clueless white girl that you're actually a chad into sex, but if you're yourself, you'll do worse in the dating game than nerdy white guys.

Also yeah that's also why so many people on Twitter say you need to get married young. Once you pass like 21 it becomes difficult to find someone worth marrying and by the time they are ready to "settle down" they're too damaged from multiple failed relationships and casual sex.
Anonymous No.82152254 >>82153111
>>82152129
Yup a lot of the incels on Twitter are actually black men that don't want to "thug max". There's no niche for you. Maybe if Family Matters came out today some women would want you but the only archetype seen is the tall ball player with dreads, the fuckboys, the rappers, and light skinned dudes.

At least nerdy white guys can get an asian, latina, arab, or indian woman that's prettier or at the same level as them. Nerdy black guys are basically the bottom of the rung. Only guys I know personally over 30 and still virgins are nerdy black men.
Anonymous No.82152280 >>82152687
>>82152129
As a white sperg, I think it's mainly the non-normie shit that will fuck you. I have literally seen fatter guys than me have girlfriends, but they didn't have the tism.
Autistic girls however, had zero issues and ironically, are totally unrelatable and date normie men.
Anonymous No.82152429
>>82152143
Sometimes they come here.
Anonymous No.82152446 >>82152633 >>82152710 >>82152786
So what I got from this thread is as a blackcel I have to either thugmaxx or get rich.
It's so fucking over lol goddamn son.
Anonymous No.82152633 >>82152671 >>82152816
>>82152446
Go back to Africa and marry a tribal woman of your race, nigger.
Anonymous No.82152671 >>82152740 >>82152746
>>82152633
the fuck is your problem eurocunt?
Anonymous No.82152687
>>82152280
Women have easier lives than men as a whole. It has always been like that. You can't compare your struggles with that of a woman anon and fuck people that try to make you feel bad by making you think otherwise.
Anonymous No.82152710 >>82152721
>>82152446
You realize /r9k/'s advice to men in general is to lift or be rich right?
Anonymous No.82152721 >>82154894 >>82155333
>>82152710
That's pretty much all you have control over as a man. You can't really do much else
>muh personality
I'm glad that meme is dead cause lots of terrible people are always with women so it isn't that.
Anonymous No.82152740 >>82152776 >>82152866
>>82152671
It's a legit advice you negro. Don't you want to live with your own race and find a normal negro wife. We wuz kangz.
Anonymous No.82152746 >>82152776
>>82152671
It's not offensive to tell Asian guys to try dating girls in Korea or Japan
Why is it offensive to tell Black guys to try dating girls in Africa?
Anonymous No.82152776 >>82152799 >>82152818 >>82152822
>>82152746
telling people to move is bad advice regardless of who they are
>>82152740
watch your mouth cunt
Anonymous No.82152786 >>82152879
>>82152446
Honestly I dont see how youre having problems, honestly it seems like white gifl in my area are ONLY into you guys, and that bothers me but then once im outside of Detroit i hardly see it anywhere. It really does seem that you have to thug max and generally any white women into you guys generally are either not that good looking or totally mentally unstable. So while i get jealous of you guys sometimes i try to remember that my experience is entirely circumstantial? Let me ask you does it bother you when you see attractive black women with us white guys? I probably sound like im trying to make you feel bad but its insane how much attention some black girls give us and Ive been on dates with a lot of them as well as had several black girls admit feelings for me.
Honestly being white fucking rules I do kinda feel bad for you guys sometimes
Anonymous No.82152799 >>82152821 >>82152835 >>82152850
>>82152776
What you gonna do nigger? Chimping out? The joke just write itself.
Anonymous No.82152816
>>82152633
>go back to africa
Nah the african niggas over there will cut my dick off and eat it for breakfast.
Anonymous No.82152818 >>82152850
>>82152776
Was it bad advice for these guys to move?
Anonymous No.82152821
>>82152799
Holy ESL. What race are you?
Anonymous No.82152822 >>82152850
>>82152776
>telling people to move is bad advice regardless of who they are
You don't belong in the west nigger. The jews send you here but it's time to go back.
Anonymous No.82152835
>>82152799
yes, i will chimp out and write hate mail to hiroyuki about the whitoid who is bullying me.
Anonymous No.82152850
>>82152822
>>82152818
>>82152799
so... who chimped out?
Anonymous No.82152866 >>82152904 >>82153019
>>82152740
Ironically most Africans look down on African Americans. So this wouldn't help him. This would be like me telling you to go to some Slavic country and that you'd fit in because you're all white
Anonymous No.82152879 >>82153047
>>82152786
>does it bother you when you see attractive black women with us white guys?
Nah because I understand why a black girl would date a white dude. She either had a negative experience with dating a black man or grew up in a white neighborhood and just grew a preference for white men. I'm noticing that it's always the black girls who grew up in the ghetto who have a huge disdain for white men.
Anonymous No.82152904 >>82153016
>>82152866
https://youtu.be/iCAaBWmKTDg
Anonymous No.82153004 >>82153154
>>82151935 (OP)
i can't ID animu characters, kotonoha? is that you, thad?
Anonymous No.82153016 >>82153035
>>82152904
It's your problem because if they're not accepted there, they have no reason to move over hence they stay over here. You idiots don't think any of this shit through and think they just HAVE to move because you want them to move. It doesn't work like that
Anonymous No.82153019 >>82154057
>>82152866
this is true, my Nigerian family are always shitting on blacks.
its crazy if an African is surrounded by blacks they treat them well but not vise versa.
I hate it its retarded
Anonymous No.82153035
>>82153016
The stick always works.
Anonymous No.82153047 >>82153187 >>82153195
>>82152879
Actually youre probably right its always the ghetto black girls who give me dirty looks (you gotta admit you guys get away with doing this), but yeah one black girl I dated made it clear she was literally unattracted to black men and but funnily enough another one was the woke type of black girl who writes essays about the evils of white men on her blog yet I saw her twice. Honestly I think its a similar situation of some of these white women just having bad experiences with white men but it still does bother me when you guys bag a hot one cause damn theres just so few hot white girls anymore at all, kinda same with girls in general. Anyway genuinely best of luck to you black anonerino, I hope you dont think all whites hate you as I try to imagine not all of you guys hate us. I dont sense any real hate from you atleast
Anonymous No.82153111 >>82153195 >>82154299
>>82152254
>Only guys I know personally over 30 and still virgins are nerdy black men.
Oh that's me.
I fucking hate hate. Being born as a nerdy black guy is a fucking curse if you have a libido. I'd be happier if I was asexual.
Anonymous No.82153154
>>82153004
Nah I'm not thad, I'm black like him though.
Anonymous No.82153156
blacks need to passport bro to their ancestors country

even marital rape is legal over there so don't worry about getting cucked by your money
Anonymous No.82153187 >>82154430
>>82153047
>as I try to imagine not all of you guys hate us.
I'm not racist at all. I just treat others the way they treat me. No matter the color. You scratch my back I scratch yours, you dig?
Anyway, I hope it goes well with you too, bro. Peace.
Anonymous No.82153195 >>82154430
>>82153111
asexual by day gooner by night thats me at least.
Im glad im not adverse to violence im gonna crash out one of these days in minecraft why was i born?
>>82153047
nta most nerdy black dudes don't even think about white hate or white racism etc.
its just weird when i talk to white guys in my circle and they try to indoctrinate me with their weird white superiority or white guilt pandering, nigga can we play some magic or battletech or something? stfu i dont care about woke culture?
Anonymous No.82153224 >>82153333
>>82151935 (OP)
I will never get you Americans and your weird thoughts about dating inside of your "race" and shit, no one does that here, you people are weird.
Anonymous No.82153228 >>82153333
>>82151935 (OP)
You should genuinely consider pursuing black women who go to/went to HBCUs. They will probably like drinking and smoking still, but they have much greater social mobility and sense in general. Obviously, if you're an Urkel you still lose, though.
Anonymous No.82153333
>>82153224
We have first world problems over here. We are bored.
>>82153228
Do you think I should attend a class there also? Maybe I can find my black qt wife there.
Anonymous No.82153346 >>82153609 >>82153649
>>82151935 (OP)
>99% of black women are ugly and the 1% aren't know their worth and only talk to rich white guys
>white women all have BBC fetish and will disappointed by my 7 incher
>latinas bait you in by being all sweet then once the talking stage is over they reveal they are just white whores painted brown
>no asian woman besides the ones I pay for handjobs would even look in my direction
Anonymous No.82153609 >>82153649 >>82154658
>>82153346
If only you knew how much worse it could be
>be blackcel
>something in my brain flips like a switch, suddenly find black women attractive in my late 20s
>would find 80% of black women attractive if they weren't landwhales
>(still don't like ratchet personalities though)
>still an incel because black women don't want me, neither the hood rats nor the normal ones
Anonymous No.82153649 >>82153741 >>82153912
>>82153346
>>82153609
i've been gooning to alot of escort porn these days, alot of them don't seem half bad.
Maybe the strat for guys like us is to fuck escorts for an hour maybe? at least we know what we're getting?
Anonymous No.82153741 >>82153771
>>82153649
I've already fucked white escorts
I'm too worried to fuck black ones, I'd be worried she would clown on me which kills my boner even if she didn't just the thought she might be thinking it
Yes blacks have given me a racial complex, how could you tell?
Anonymous No.82153771 >>82153977
>>82153741
i don't have that because me ego is dying daily.
but thats fucked up that you feel that way.
but my nigga think about it like this, i slid my dick in your hole for a price and you had to bend over and take it regardless of how you feel and sit there and groan uncomfortably as a fuck you etc.
to me the thought of some dumb bitch failure of woman taking dick to support her life is hot as fuck idk
Anonymous No.82153912 >>82153977
>>82153649
I don't recommend prostitution unless you have a severe deformity or something that makes it nearly impossible for you to get laid otherwise. It will destroy your rose-tinted view of sex and you will just see it as another thing you can buy whenever like a video game or something. If you put work into yourself and go outside, you will eventually attract women. That is really all you have to do to get them on the hook. Live for yourself and be yourself.

To get them to stay, you to do the opposite of what everyone tells you. Once you are actually in the relationship, you need to revert back to being only motivated by sex. That is what motivates women and why they are attracted to you. You appeared to be at peace with yourself and since women are parasites incapable of creating their own peace, they will try to disturb yours.

They will say with their mouth that they like that you aren't horny all the time and don't care that much about sex. This is a lie, they are only saying this because they want you to think about sex. They don't want to talk, they want to skip to the part where you're married and trapped with them and a kid. Only then will they know peace. If you don't give that to them immediately, they will make up other reasons besides their own insecurity to degrade you and sever the attachment before it has a chance to blossom.
Anonymous No.82153977 >>82154005
>>82153912
normally i would call you a normie and to fuck off but heres all i got for you big man
> your rose-tinted view of sex
i dont have a rose tinted view of sex im a fucking goon see >>82153771
> If you put work into yourself and go outside
i was in the military, ive worked construction, ive played sports i probably been outside more than you nigga lol
>Live for yourself and be yourself.
yeah i do that nigga
>To get them to stay
honestly i dont want a bitch to stay no more i have major woman fatigue these days i just want to bust a nut into a hole my boy a cyborg sex robot would be a reasonable alternative
>They will say with their mouth that they like that you aren't horny all the time and don't care that much about sex. This is a lie, they are only saying this because they want you to think about sex. They don't want to talk, they want to skip to the part where you're married and trapped with them and a kid. Only then will they know peace. If you don't give that to them immediately, they will make up other reasons besides their own insecurity to degrade you and sever the attachment before it has a chance to blossom.
honestly bro i just skimmed through this i don't want a family or any of that shit anymore theres no beauty to be had in this world man its tiring.
Anonymous No.82154005 >>82154071
>>82153977
Something tells me that you are a white person larping but I can't quite put my finger on it.
Anonymous No.82154057 >>82154083
>>82153019
Eh that's just new though all the African people I know over 30 said they got bullied relentlessly by black kids growing up.
Anonymous No.82154060 >>82154186
>>82151935 (OP)
as a black woman, i wish y'all watch this to get perspective.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84WerFMQ1UU&t=0
Anonymous No.82154071
>>82154005
nah im black, i posted a body pic here before just cuz but heres my hand and me listening to lone. Atlanta rap is actually fire desu
i just spent all my time in the hickiest places you can think of and it rubbed off on me idk. niggas always call me the whitest nigga they know.
Anonymous No.82154082
>>82151935 (OP)
for me its just that the kind of black girls that i have anything in common with never seen to date black dudes (but will still get mad at us for dating a white girl). even the ones on here have 50% chance of ghosting you the minute they find out youre black too lmao
Anonymous No.82154083
>>82154057
I guess, i got bullied by african kids and black kids so i swing between hating everyone and being neutral i just hate hypocrites is all
Anonymous No.82154186
>>82154060
Why can't you just be feminine, skinny and smelling good? That's all we want. We don't need you to be Beyonce but damn.
Anonymous No.82154299
>>82153111
I don't know why you're making it a black thing. I know nerdy white guys who have girlfriends, their gfs are fat, covered in tattoos and had multiple sexual partners before them. Meanwhile the nerdy guy always struggled with women. The only nerd I knew who had an ok time finding dates was a 6'4 lanklet.
Dating is very much feast or famine, heavily skewwed in womens favour and you will get a few curveballs thrown at you in life that fuck you up. E.g. I was the fat kid, then as an adult I got fit. My life would have been far better had I never been fat, easily chadlite potential. However life decided that now I was an adult who controlled their diet, that I was simply too powerful. So I went bald at 24.

What bothers me most about dating is I'm just so sure, so 100% certain that if I was born just 10 years earlier, I could have absolutely had a shot, but social media fucked up everything and now there are seemingly thousands of 6'+ men, with full heads of hair and exciting lives. Why bother getting to know the local guys when all the chads are right there on your instagram.
I'm also broke btw, so no fancy holiday pictures for me.
Anonymous No.82154430 >>82154492
>>82153195
Honestly thats what ive gotten from some of the black friends I have (lmao I know how that sounds) so yeah I feel you man. I get real sick of the white woke faggotry others do but honestly in white culture it is weird trying to figure out how to navigate this cause so many whites want to throw eachother under the bus, which you guys do too, like every race, but obviously in your own way. Anyway I havent played magic in forever but with all this free time I should try to get into it, never fucked around with Battletech but it seems cool
>>82153187
Thank you my dude, im basically the same way when it comes to the racism thing. Try to give any person a fair shake just cause its the thing you do for someone else
Anonymous No.82154446
>>82151935 (OP)
OP that's all women
Anonymous No.82154492 >>82154583
>>82154430
You don't need to navigate anything non-normie blacks are some of the most live and let live niggas there are. Even regular blacks that dont do hoodrat shit are the same not all the time but sometime.
Battletech is cooler than fuck. If i was in Battletech i would be a Smoke Jaguar with dreads and a switch on my sidearm i put that on Kerensky. I would be on a spheroids ass so fast in my Timberwolf just stomping them the fuck out, then i would fuck the sibkin baddies and nut in their eyes on Osis for real
Anonymous No.82154583 >>82154661
>>82154492
Yeah I guess I can say so with black friends and coworkers its generally not hard to navigate and just enjoy the conversation. But this is situational for anyone. Individuals really are individuals, I guess. Also love the visual you gave there in the last part lmao. Yes go stomp motherfuckers in your timbs, for real though seems like its got some cool lore also the patch looks pretty badass. Ill check it out thank you mang
Anonymous No.82154658 >>82154706
>>82153609
>>would find 80% of black women attractive if they weren't landwhales
>>(still don't like ratchet personalities though)
Now this has spread to all races. I really wish black America knocked that shit on its head the second it started showing up. The girl next door shit is fucking dead, you just get different flavors of ratchet.
Anonymous No.82154661 >>82154683
>>82154583
Battletech is the coolest space opera slop to ever drop on this worthless planet.
Timberwolves are sexy as shit and couldn't be detected on faggot spheroid radar so they called it a madcat instead.
If this shit was real life i would be a war criminal so quick
Anonymous No.82154683 >>82154719
>>82154661
Bro ive been watching a shit load of mecha anime lets fucking gooooooooo
Anonymous No.82154706
>>82154658
>just get different flavors of ratchet
Hit the nail on the fucking head. Literally every race has been screwed by the uh the uh well you know em
Anonymous No.82154719 >>82154842
>>82154683
Hell yeah, my favorite has gotta be between IBO and VOTOMS.
IBO was just so sad and hype at the same time.
These are the only emotions i feel anymore lol
What you been watching my nigga? some new gundam? some patlabor?
Anonymous No.82154723 >>82154759
>>82152129
id date a black guy but im a no value faggot (tranny) and would probably just get murdered
Anonymous No.82154759
>>82154723
if i was gay i would date you unironically and i wouldn't murder you either.
its crazy one small factor can keep us alone in this prison planet.
i see alot of random black BP guys talking about how they like tgirls and femboys.
you can find them trust
Anonymous No.82154842 >>82154964
>>82154719
Ill check both those out VOTOMS looks cool as hell but im down for some more gundam ive been rewatching the old gundam stuff cause honestly i only recently got the kick to revisit some of this stuff and even get into anime beyond casual enjoyment recently due to some traumatic events and needing to find something new to embrace as a result, so anything you recommend Id love to hear. But its been msgw code geass NGE and gurren Lagann. Maybe shitload was an exaggeration lol. I did try the new gundam show gquuuuux but I just found it to be kinda boring. Never even heard of patlabor
Anonymous No.82154843
>>82151935 (OP)
then date white girls and leave black girls alone, all you guys do is complain about us
Anonymous No.82154870
>>82151935 (OP)
Plenty of white dudes that will pay you to bang their wife.
Anonymous No.82154894
>>82152721
Personality is a huge part of attraction. Unfortunately it's easier to change your height or race than it is to change your personality.
Anonymous No.82154903
>>82151935 (OP)
they also dont wash their cunts either despite being obsessed with other peoples hygeine
Anonymous No.82154927 >>82155254
>>82152143
remember iris?
Anonymous No.82154964 >>82155235
>>82154842
>Patlabor
is about cop robots its ok never got too deep in it but alot of mech lovers like it
Finish the Gundam backlog or you never will lol
Slide into some Votoms after if you have the gumption theres a spinoff OVA people usually watch instead its called Armored Hunter mellowlink main character is basically solid snake.
>Eighty Six
is technically mecha im reading the lightnovels interchangibly with Battletech ones but the anime has one season.
>Vision of Escaflowne?
It sucks in my mind but the visuals are great
>Front Mission Dog Life Dog Style,
this one is manga only but its better than anything i've recommended except IBO
>Blue Gender
kinda goofy lol its alright doe
>Full Metal Panic!
Boooooooy this shit goes hard, got some child soldier trying to get pussy while stopping super terrorist.
>Tenchi Muyo! War on Geminar
I gotta watch this one but im just gonna through it out there because i like Tenchi Muyo and this is a spin off with mechs and harems
Anonymous No.82155235 >>82155277
>>82154964
Nice thank you Ill check these out ive heard great things about full metal panic
Anonymous No.82155254
>>82154927
Wasn't she dating some Asian dude?
I saw a picture posted here
Anonymous No.82155277
>>82155235
yeah alright, you seem cool i've had a better time talking to robots than fembots desu i give up on them all together.
heres my pisscord if you care
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Anonymous No.82155320
>>82152129
I've dated a couple times but they always end up becoming transactional or based on some sort of artificial dynamic. not to mention, the people out there who only fetishize you and treat your presence like a trophy. considering it all, it's almost not worth it to me to try anymore.
Anonymous No.82155333
>>82152721
personality is distinct from morality, you know. you can be a good person but in alot of cases that only serves to be a pussy drier.
Anonymous No.82155352
>>82151935 (OP)
This whole "black nerds are unwanted shtick" really doesn't fly anymore. In a lot of mainstream fashion trends, alt, grunge, gothic styles are super popular. Look at Opium, Carti, the way underground rappers dress and so on. Just emulate it, get dreads, bleach it, be lean and it's EASY as FUCK at that point. I started getting 100s of matches when I got into fashion with nerdy/alt/gothic type of girls. I live in Atlanta fyi

Also, lay off the obsession of dooming about obscure black girls wanting white guys because it's corny. Yeah there are iris types who are probably in a cycle of raceplay or whatever but you have to understand that this is a bypass of the type of place you hang out in.

It's like going to a mosque and being shocked everyone has a beard. You're on a site that's known for being racist/alt right/nazi-esque, of course the non whites are prone to being coons obsessed with race.
Anonymous No.82155921
Why is it only Tyrone and black nerd? What about just regular black guys? Or are those black nerds too? Is any black guy whos not a Tyrone a black nerd? The fuck is even going on