Thread 82154460

>he/she is too clingy

What's wrong with normalfags? Why do they endlessly lambaste clingy people and then complain about cheaters, emotional or physical, in the same breath? Clinginess is just a pejorative NPC synonym for loyalty.

>>82154460 (OP)
seriously. what's wrong with being clingy? if you're annoyed by my texts to act cool and unbothered, why are you even in a relationship with me if you hate me so much? id rather be single than be with anyone who calls my love clingy.

> Clinginess is just a pejorative NPC synonym for loyalty.
Not at all.
Clingy people have insecure attachment meaning they are black hole of validation need. Which is usually comorbid with bpd and bpdrs always end up splitting.
Actually loyal people are loyal even when you are far away. They respect your boundaries and trust you when you say you love them even if you can't be there 100% of the time. Loyal people will not seek to suffocate you and undermine your potential in the larger society, on the contrary, they believe in your success and root for you. Loyal people elevate you, they are a pillar of support.
Clingy people just demand YOUR loyalty without giving any back.

>>82154555

>Clingy people just demand YOUR loyalty
>without giving any back.

Clearly, you've never heard of Harley Quinn. She's a fictional character but a real archetype for women, typically the kind that won't give up on toxic, abusive boyfriends and will always side with them if strangers call the police during an argument. That is a very special kind of love, loyality is. Loyalty is the highest virtue in my book, but it comes with the caveat that you shouldn't put people into positions where they have to choose between compromising themselves or their loyalty to you. If that is a predicament you know you are potentially opening yourself or them up to, you shouldn't have a relationship with that person.

>>82154460 (OP)
God I wish my cock was buried in a gook rn

>>82154460 (OP)
i'm clingy in the sense that i need constant and perpetual human presence around me to feel happy, but if i don't have that human presence i don't go around throwing a tantrum because i'm lonely. i just endure the loneliness, take the opportunities for companionship as they come, and let them go when i can't have them anymore. i don't coerce or force anyone or anything just to be around someone, because that just doesn't work. i don't see it as loyalty as much as i see it as a need, loyalty is second nature because i'll naturally want to sustain the relationship with the person i'm with

>>82154460 (OP)
Because in our society that has devalued relationships to no more than sexual and financial arrangements, it's foreign to a normie that someone could genuinely enjoy talking to and spending time with them.