>>82165305
Those moments of care, when I could feel the dominant energy, I think cemented into me the craving for that dominant archetype. Sadly also made me a walking talking stereotype with liking alt girls but ya know is what it is. For me the energy of a dominant woman is what I like the most, kinks and fetishes are great but the energy is what I care about, ill do whatever she wants, its the energy that matters to me.
On the Kink side?
Im sure the different kinks, whether it be collars or bondage or w/e all serve as psychological devices, wanting to be helpless ect, but I think also to a point, its porn. Alot of porn addicts, guys will get the craving for the archetype, and unable to fulfill that need, will find porn that fits that niche and you cant really show dominant "energy" on a video. Its something you feel when you interact with someone.
So alot of the femdom "kinks" I think are downstream of low self esteem combined with porn addiction. But the desire for femdom as an archetype. Thats a much bigger issue. I think the internet is just allowing people who were abused by their mother to open up. Where irl its almost impossible to talk about because well, people think its funny if your mother abused you.
Btw I know it sounds harsh, im not against kinks or fetishes, I just think alot of things like the feminization or other stuff comes from porn rather than an expression of desire for that dominant archetype.
I crave that dominant personality the energy around them. Its funny because im the boss, very in control of my life but I still have the same cravings. The few times in my life iv met women with that dominant energy, I feel extremely compelled to give them whatever they want, to make them happy.
