Thread 82163273

Thread for discussions about selfharm and mutual support

another day another lovely thread

Hello
>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

Hello
Here's a bunch of helpful links

> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

> first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

>a wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

> bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

> bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

>a bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them

>>82163273 (OP)
>Hello
hey catbro! had the day off and feeling better today. how are you?

>>82163856
hey heyy
>had the day off and feeling better today.
yay :D
what did you do today?
>how are you?
just chilled and didn't do anything today
just thinking about what to watch now

>>82156574
>employed finally, but I dont remember if I already said that here.
congratz! :D what did you apply for?

>im more tired at the end of the day now obviously, which means I want someone beloved to keep me accompanied in bed
i feel you. try to keep treating yourself well. it can be tough when you're on your own.

>I think I would work harder for a different kind of family
for real

>>82163884
>what did you do today?
made some chili and ate it. that's it. :]

>just chilled and didn't do anything today
nice. guess we had the same idea.

>just thinking about what to watch now
i'm just watching streams and youtube. as usual. maybe watch something you've been putting off for a while?

>>82163991
>made some chili and ate it. that's it. :]
nice :D
was your day just off or did you make it like that?
>guess we had the same idea.
mm and a very good one at that ^^
>just watching streams and youtube
found anything nice?
>maybe watch something you've been putting off
I don't really a movie like that or at least I don't remember
talking about movies have you heard about the new war on the the world movie?

>>82164103
>was your day just off or did you make it like that?
just a day off. i'm not involved with the scheduling and didn't request any, either.

>mm and a very good one at that ^^
proud inhabitants of the smart cookie jar.

>found anything nice?
i think my usual streamer is going to play peak, so i'll just watch that. other than that i've just watched some of those infomercialism vids. they're short enough to just throw one in here and there. you?

>have you heard about the new war on the the world movie?
i did, but only because someone mentioned it. forgot who, though. i was completely oblivious that they actually did another one of those. is it out yet?

>>82164341
>just a day off.
woo :D
glad you got some rest without having to fight for it then, you needed it
>inhabitants of the smart cookie jar.
exactly
>streamer is going to play peak
hope you have fun watching
>infomercialism vids
I'll probably do that too
>you?
nothin special
>was completely oblivious that they actually did another one of those. is it out yet?
I also had no idea but it popped out somewhere and I tried to watch it but it's so god awful
in the movie obviously aliens attack but the main character just has zoom calls with people and then he has to use a pendrive to save the world but he doesn't have one and amazon saves the day because their deliveries are so great and fast he got the package in time
it's so bad, I feel like I was robbed of my time, luckily I didn't watch it fully I just skipped around and I didn't pay for it because man

home. day was fine, i now have film studies as 2nd class got to see the last 30 minutes of Napoleon dynamite. i have a little group that i like in my 7th class. hope everyone else had a good day

>>82164705
>glad you got some rest without having to fight for it then, you needed it
yeah. i also skipped my workout today. i need some more time to recharge.

>hope you have fun watching
i do. it's a funny crew.

>I also had no idea but it popped out somewhere and I tried to watch it but it's so god awful
i never cared much for that story anyway and would have skipped this one too, but thanks for the warning. ^^ i've watched my fair share of bad movies already. maybe enough for a lifetime. ever watched italian conan rip-off movies?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1uL3kV5XR1U&pp=ygUMYXRvciB0cmFpbGVy

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G4yA8kmCLco&pp=ygUTeW9yIGZyb20gdGhlIGZ1dHVyZQ%3D%3D

>amazon saves the day because their deliveries are so great and fast he got the package in time
jesus... that's really awful. reminds me of that southpark wow episode. but at least that one was actually funny.

>I feel like I was robbed of my time, luckily I didn't watch it fully I just skipped around and I didn't pay for it because man
some stuff isn't even worth your time for free. trailer already looked like one of those "intentionally bad" syfy movies and i suppose it's in the same league. maybe even worse. true "so bad it's good" movies are a joy to watch, but sadly there's very little of those.

>>82164822
hi gator! :D

>home. day was fine
awesome. how are you going to spend the rest of your day?

>i now have film studies as 2nd class got to see the last 30 minutes of Napoleon dynamite
you've got some interesting classes over there. i don't think we have anything like that here. then again, i haven't checked in a while. ^^'

>i have a little group that i like in my 7th class.
cool. hope you can bond with them a little more.

>hope everyone else had a good day
it's ok. just a boring and lazy day, but i won't complain about it.

>>82164822
eyo
>30 minutes of Napoleon dynamite.
did you like it?
> i have a little group that i like in my 7th class.
that's great :D
>hope everyone else had a good day
thank you
it's been okay
just been chilling
I looked at the new war of the worlds movie and it suucked

>>82165130
>also skipped my workout today. i need some more time to recharge.
very understandable and even reccomend I'd say
>i do
:D
>ever watched italian conan rip-off movies?
nopee
old one at least have some charm to them
>that's really awful.
yeah nothing makes you want to get into your amazon wagie cage more
>one of those "intentionally bad"
I feel like every movie now is "intentionally" bad

>>82165551
>very understandable and even reccomend I'd say
i'll see how i feel about it on thursday.

>:D
i switched to watching the old bfg animated movie now. i was looking for an old movie i had a vhs recording of and stumbled across the bfg one. it's a wild ride. the one i was looking for seems to be lost media, though. at least the german version.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UebFEH3CBI8&pp=ygUhYmlnIGZyaWVuZGx5IGdpYW50IGFuaW1hdGVkIG1vdmll

>nopee old one at least have some charm to them
i can recommend giving them a try. can be a fun waste of time.

>yeah nothing makes you want to get into your amazon wagie cage more
sometimes i wonder what goes through peoples heads when they put something like this in movies.

>I feel like every movie now is "intentionally" bad
even worse. movies are bad because they can't actually make good ones anymore. they're just that incompetent. that's if you're lucky and the current creators don't actively hate the things they're working on.

>>82165130
hey yuanon
>how are you going to spend the rest of your day?
just finished some homework stuff gonna just lay down now
>i haven't checked in a while. ^^'
yea who knows maybe they have some new ones hehe
>hope you can bond with them a little more
yea hopefully, there somewhat cool
>just a boring and lazy day, but i won't complain about it.
well those can be quite nice sometimes.
stretch tomorrow btw?

>>82165551
hey cat
>did you like it?
eh movie is fine
>looked at the new war of the worlds movie and it suucked
oh yea lol have heard that movie is so horrible

>>82165868
>see how i feel about it on thursday.
why?
>seems to be lost media, though. at least the german version
oh well
maybe you'll stumble across it one day
>>82165868
>wonder what goes through peoples
>$$$
>because they can't actually make good ones anymore.
honestly I disagree
I think people can make good movies z even now, but it's just that they don't have to to make lots of money
it's like with the minecraft one or the live action remakes
people complain about it but then still rush tripping over themselves to watch it in the cinema the moment it comes out

>>82166006
>eh movie is fine
at least you could watch it instead having to do something boring during your class
>heard that movie is so horrible
yea it's sad honestly
I ranted about it a bit above
how are you going to spend the rest ur day now?

I'm going to sleep
goodnight bye

>>82166006
>just finished some homework stuff gonna just lay down now
nicely done. enjoy your rest. you deserve it.

>yea who knows maybe they have some new ones hehe
there should be, but the german school system is an absolute mess and nobody wants to do anything about it.

>well those can be quite nice sometimes.
stretch tomorrow btw?
yeah, let's try to get back into it. you tell me when you're back home and ready.

>>82166076
>why?
because it's workout day. i'll see if i feel like it then or if i'll skip it as well.

>maybe you'll stumble across it one day
seems unlikely. the original is from hungary and as far as i know there's no english dubs, so the audience for that is quite limited. maybe i'll find the tape.

>$$$
yeah, but it's so blatant and people will surely tell them that it is. doesn't seem like good pr at all.

>honestly I disagree
fair. it's not like they can't make good new stuff, but that's usually a fluke and it'll turn to shit in the next installment. see arcane. can't have nice things anymore and i'm done giving things a chance.

>people complain about it but then still rush tripping over themselves to watch it in the cinema the moment it comes out
it do be like that. i always say: you get what you paid for. as long as people are paying for mediocre slop, that's what will be produced.

>>82166423
same. good night!

>>82166006
have a nice rest of your day!

>>82166076
>watch it instead having to do something boring during your class
yea true i honestly hate it most when im just doing nothing in class its awful
>ranted about it a bit above
i can definitely see why its a awful film now hehe
>you going to spend the rest ur day now?
probably just gonna wait until dinner and feel like a bad friend and then sleep

>>82166423
goodnight

>>82166536
>enjoy your rest. you deserve it.
thanks you too
>absolute mess and nobody wants to do anything about it.
oh that really sucks, always seems like no one is willing to fix the real issues
>you tell me when you're back home and ready.
alrighty will do i usually get home at like 3 50 so 10 minutes before we usually start

>>82166548
thanks and sweet dreams<3

>>82156760
>but it feels strange to cut there because it seems out of reach.
how come its out of reach for you?
>How long have you been apart from this girl
a year in a couple of months.
>would you want to get back with her, or do you want to stay away from her for any reason?
she stopped loving me and changed. every time I see her on the internet or something my heartbeat spikes, I can get really anxious. haven't seen her irl yet, guess I am lucky.
there is no way I would touch her even if she came back to me... she is dirty now, both soul and body.

>>82163991
>congratz! :D what did you apply for?
thanks, but I cant say. it belongs in the "30 coffee breaks and 2 lunches" category for me so far, pretty comfortable. I still get tired because im just used to nothing everyday bodily and mentally

bunp please