Thread 82163975

i got my gf of 2 months pregnant fellas

shes definitely going to keep it fellas

im going to be a dad fellas

talk to me fellas

are you happy? are you nervous? how old are you?

why didn't you just wear a condom it sounds like you're nervous

don't fuck it up, learn how to be a good dad and love your child so he doesn't end up like one of us

you probably fucked up by getting your GF preggers but you can do your best to see that your son turns out alright

>>82163975 (OP)
>talk to me fellas
okay
>i got my gf
kys

baka should have used condom-kun

>>82163975 (OP)
Your life is OVER. You fucked up at the highest possible level

This is an original teat

>>82163975 (OP)
Hopefully she wasn't a plaphog or goblina mutt anon or some bpd whore

>>82164002

are you happy? are you nervous? how old are you?

I'm 24, definitely nervous, a little happy, honestly dont know how to feel. I wish I had more time to know my gf before this happened so I know what kind of mother she will be.

>why didn't you just wear a condom it sounds like you're nervous

definitely a little nervous but i think itd be more concerning if i wasnt. In hindsight I definitely should have been more careful with prevention but it is what it is now... she jokes about trapping me with the baby


>don't fuck it up, learn how to be a good dad and love your child so he doesn't end up like one of us

As long as im alive i will love my child with everything I have. I have a history of depression and other mental health stuff i worry about... financial stuff etc. i want to be best version of myself for my child

>you probably fucked up by getting your GF preggers but you can do your best to see that your son turns out alright

thank you for you words friend b blessed

>>82164034
i dont like condoms :( I went years in my previous relationship no condoms no baby

>>82164014
>kys

yes sir

>>82164079

i go outside too much to understand your buzzwords but she is light skin brazilian if that is what you mean

Don't think she BPD but standard fiesty latina attitude which i have learned to handle during my time

>>82163975 (OP)
It's really hard for me to feel bad for you when condoms have been around for a thousand years.

>>82164092
be strong anon

part of that will be learning how to be strong even when you're feeling bad, and being smart about it

good luck out there

>>82164156
not asking you to feel bad friend. just to talk to me.

may i ask you whether you have been in committed relationships before? if so, how often did you have sex? did you use a condom every time? It seems to me that my peers only really use condoms for promiscuous sex

>>82164161

thank you brother. i will do all i can do

>>82164182
If you're straight and can get whoever you're fucking pregnant then you should wear one. You're going to get baby trapped if you don't. Which you already have.

Yes, I've been in committed relationships. Yes, I used a condom every time. My former partner still caught something from me so now I'm just not doing anything with anyone. It's lonely. At least I'm not hurting anyone anymore.

>>82164289

Yeah I should have been more careful but whats done is done.

We all make mistakes though brother, not overreacting is important. How long have you forced yourself to be alone? How long do you plan to continue?

>>82163975 (OP)
Go away normalfag pls.
>b-but I was here since 201-
Stfu

>>82164896

>gratitude, self-improvement, humility, optimism, effort, achieving goals

>resentment, bitterness, self hatred, stagnation, regression, envy, anger

The choice is yours robot

>>82163975 (OP)
shut up retard

origami post

>>82163975 (OP)
go raise a kid normfag

I hope you have a blessed life, anon, whatever that means for you and your family.
Are you thinking about marriage?

>>82165979

Thank you.

I am definitely thinking about marriage. She says she wants to marry me and have more children shortly after this one.

I just wish to be financially comfortable enough to support my family after the baby arrives. That is my main goal at the moment.

>>82163975 (OP)
>i got my gf of 2 months pregnant
>2 months
So you basically impregnated a stranger. Good luck, you're going to need it..

>>82166083
Do you even have a job broham

>>82166083
>I am definitely thinking about marriage.
That's good! It will certainly help I believe.
>She says she wants to marry me and have more children shortly after this one.
What do you think about this? Will you want more children eventually?
>I just wish to be financially comfortable enough to support my family after the baby arrives.
Are you looking to be the sole provider for your family or will she be looking for work as well?

>>82166110

my parents were married after only knowing each other a few months and are still together, so i believe it is possible, but yes, this happened a lot earlier than what would be ideal to me.

I hope her and I maintain a strong relationship, but regardless of what happens between her and i, i will be very involved in my childs life and support things financially

>>82166113
yes i have an okay job that i've held the past couple years but I've been meaning to move on for a while now

I work in a STEM field with a degree and certifications that should give me the ability to find something that pays a lot more. i will now buckle down and make that happen.

>>82166118

>What do you think about this? Will you want more children eventually?

Yes, as long as I can financially provide, I would like to have more than one child

>Are you looking to be the sole provider for your family or will she be looking for work as well?

She plans to work until just before the baby comes, then stop. I will be the main provider until then, and the sole provider afterwards.

Even if she was very open to working afterwards, she doesn't currently make very much money from her work, so to me it doesn't seem very logical to pay for childcare with both of us working

>>82166209
I hope you're able to find a decently paying job to where only one parent needs to work.
Do your parents know about this yet? And would they be willing to help out?

>>82166295

Thank you friend.

My parents do not know yet. I plan to tell them soon. I think they would be willing to help financially, but I'd like to give myself the opportunity to land a good paying job before telling them. I dont want them to feel obligated

>>82166392
>I dont want them to feel obligated
Of course, just keep it as an option I'd say. More so as a lift off platform than a crutch if that makes sense.

>>82166083
>>82166170
Hoping the best for you. Was worried for a moment that you were just a retard who got his GF pregnant and didn't have his life together at all. And she wants more kids? Means she wants to be with you. You got this anon good luck