Thread 82173818

A lot of you guys' mental issues are mostly tied to childhood trauma and shame. I suggest researching the topics of complex trauma and reparenting which will give you a good path towards healing and becoming a more well adjusted person.

>>82173818 (OP)
hating males is not a maladjusted response it's a natural warning system against people who take advantage of you due to gender-based discrimination.

>>82173818 (OP)
We know. Therapy is expensive and doesn't do shit. I've been seeing a shrink for two years now and haven't moved an inch. I'd quit, but having at least one person listen to your bullshit is better than zero.

>>82173839
My advice was more general, I'm well aware that there are a plethora of systemic issues regarding gender that you can't just dismiss.

>>82173818 (OP)
I don't know how to do any of this. I go to therapy and it costs like 100$ for 1 hour once a week and it doesn't even really fix anything. How many weeks and how much money am I supposed to spend on this before my therapist is able to fix me? I don't go to therapy anymore but I used to shortly before losing my job. I wouldn't ever pay that much money for a service like that unless I was making good money at the time.

>>82173928
On top of that, everyone around me treats me like shit and I'm a weirdo and even as I begin to realize a lot of my problems that isn't going to fix them anytime soon they are deeply ingrained in me and will takes years to fix if ever. Sometimes you break something and it just can't be fixed and you have to live with the broken thing being broken. I can accept myself or whatever but other people and the world will still treat me like shit for being an awkward sperg so fucking far behind in life. The time to fix all of this was when I was a relatively normal autistic child who could have integrated into the world around him

>>82173818 (OP)
probably true but a lot of us exist in an environment where nobody is there for us but ourselves and that environment isn't conducive at all (not impossible, just very hard) to rewiring your brain in a positive way.

or put another way: a lot of our issues are related to upbringing/bad parenting but the reason they're still issues is that everyone else treats us like shit too

>>82173966
yeah once you get damaged like this people just see you as weak and take advantage of you and make a fool out of you or fuck with you, and that makes it very hard to ever open up even around good people
we are grown men at this point and we're not children that the world wants to embrace and take care of and help repair, the world expects us to be on our own by this point and if not then fuck us

how are we supposed to resolve our childhood issues? therapy really doesn't seem to be enough to do that. I already know my childhood was fucked and I'm fucked up

I'm not being a doomer I'm just saying that the OP post is no revelation to me and provides no solution to the shitty situation, I appreciate you making the thread

>>82173841
Try AI, unironically, its better than nothing.

>>82174011
I tired, and found that the way AI responds is probably how girls respond to their female friends.
>That's so valid, queen!
>You are SO right!
>I know! Right?
I don't want to be validated all the time, I want someone to guide me through how to build up mental strength to fix my shit.

>>82174056

For some reason 4chan is not letting me post it but you should try prompting the AI with this "Absolute mode" instruction

https://desuarchive.org/g/thread/106045675/#106045675

AI doesn't HAVE to talk to you like its a dumb bitch thats just its default setting these days lol

>>82174056
at risk of sounding like a tatemaxxer...you need a dad nigga or a mentor they have programs for that if you're in a certain age bracket

>>82173818 (OP)
I have cptsd and have tried all the normie bullshit including therapy and haven't gotten anywhere

>>82174133
do they have anything like that for someone who's 30 fucking years old lmao not that anon

>>82174169
they might, its not funny man i know you wanna put yourself down and stuff but you might really need it you should look into it anon.
a good alternative might be an apprenticeship..its tough out here for a nigga man for real

>>82174550
im not putting myself down id honestly be open to that sort of thing lmao

>>82173818 (OP)
While that is true i also inherited a neurological disorder from them which is really the largest think keeping me a robot.

>>82173818 (OP)
Not really sure I understand how a loving family upbringing relates to me wanting to nut balls deep in dog pussy. Care to elaborate, anon? I'm all ears.

>>82174612
oh sorry i guess i mistook you for the other anon.
there are some mens groups that have mentor programs, i've seen it help alot of people

>>82174803
>loving family upbringing
Lol. Good one

>>82174899
Mine was, yes.

this will sound fucked up, but i wish it was just "tied to childhood trauma and shame". it's a genetic condition. i was born with a poorly configured brain.

>>82174915
>Mine was, yes
Rofl

>>82174946
For me it's both. My childhood wasn't TOO fucked up, but it certainly wasn't what one would consider good. And more than half of my family tree on both sides has some type of issue with anxiety. Some extremely debilitating. One greataunt has never left the house. Hell, she would only come in into three rooms of that house.