Standards - /r9k/ (#82174873) [Archived: 101 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/13/2025, 9:46:00 PM No.82174873
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>loyal
>Virgin
>Not older than 30
>At least a 5/10
Is this realistic in any way?

Also post yours
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 9:48:32 PM No.82174895
I guess I would like a blond viking looking lady
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 9:49:05 PM No.82174900
>>82174873 (OP)
I think they are fair standards, expect maybe the virgin part considering the modern landscape

For me it's similar
> loyal and caring
> not necessarily a virgin but not high bodycount
> 22 - 30
> generally health and takes decent care of herself
> emotionally mature and interesting to talk to
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 9:50:03 PM No.82174913
>>82174873 (OP)
>white skin (don't care for ancestry)
>weeb
>big tits.
Those are my standards. Ideally she is a bit chubby and has light colored eyes.
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 9:58:17 PM No.82174997
>>82174900
same standards here, most women fail the first one
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:00:24 PM No.82175030
>>82174873 (OP)
>>Virgin
>>Not older than 30
That's kind of redundant.
Also in a society with prenuptial sexual freedom expect a loyal virgin already puts your standards beyond realistic.
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:06:41 PM No.82175095
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>>82174873 (OP)
I got low minimum standards I guess, but I have a lot of other things I want.

>bodycount below four
>20-30 years old
>loyal
>cute face (subjective)
>religious or Agnostic
>loves my kid
>White/Asian

I need to accept it ain't happening though
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:08:38 PM No.82175111
>>82174873 (OP)
My non negotiables are
>loyal
>kind
>wants kids
>not internet obsessed
>submissive
>good relationship with family
That's all I can think of.
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:09:56 PM No.82175125
>Not older than 30
>At least a 5/10
You can get 2/4 at least
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:10:20 PM No.82175133
>>82174873 (OP)
When a guy here accepts women up to 30 you can assume youre talking with a guy pushing 50. Go for a 40 something year old woman and take care of her kids unc.
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:11:27 PM No.82175143
>>82174873 (OP)
>tall
>not fat
>at least half white
>no more than 10 sexual partners (Ive had about 15 so its fair)
>loyal
>wants children
thats all, i don't think thats asking too much
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:11:30 PM No.82175144
foid
foid
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>>82174873 (OP)
>virgin
>smart
>loyal
>young
>looks like Ellie
>hobbies and personality not just Crumbl Cookie Love Island tiktok foid
This is the bare minimum a gentleman like me deserves
ruby !!Tb1gAo1xgNE
8/13/2025, 10:11:54 PM No.82175147
25
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>>82174873 (OP)
>loyal
>less than ten bodycount and if we ever start dating im the last of her bodies EVER since i am waiting for sex after marriage personally
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:14:21 PM No.82175166
>>82175133
No way. Plenty of people here hagmaxx and the 30 somethings can't pick and choose so people from 20 to 40 accept women up to 30
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:14:32 PM No.82175169
As a former virgin robot, I can tell women are not loyal or caring toward their partner. They're loyal and caring (sometimes) to their children. You probably had an overprotective mother and now you have a mommy complex. Women want a father. Think of all the things you would find in a good dad, that's what they want. It took me forever to figure out. Beyond 14, there's no woman that's half attractive and still a virgin. The jews made it so. Every single woman has had sex. Most women are EXPECTED to have sex by the third date, and those are the prude ones. 35 is actually when they realize they've hit the wall and are desperate to find someone to settle with and lower their standards from Chad to provider
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:14:49 PM No.82175173
>Female
>Age above 24
>Skinny
>Mentally ill to the max
>Wants hikkiNEET househusband
>Doesn't want to reproduce
Bonus points for
>Looks like a corpse
>Not a virgin
>Interesting taste in film and music
>Has a favorite dank bank man essay and/or meme
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:15:54 PM No.82175183
>>82175133
I am almost 22, but I just like older women. younger women are annoying as fuck
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:17:05 PM No.82175198
>>82174900
For me pretty much this, but it would also be nice if she is sexually dominant or at least assertive in that regard. but that is probably asking for too much
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:21:39 PM No.82175248
>>82175183
If youre really a 22 zoom going for 30 year olds cause zoomettes are retarded. Based. But be warned even zillennial girls had a body count since their teens and have at one point fucked some guy thats over 10 years older than them. Zoomers at least have that fear of age that stops them from getting with older fucks.
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:24:00 PM No.82175276
>>82174873 (OP)
>loyal
>accepts my interests, mannerisms, and fetishes
>looksmatch or better
that's it
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:24:43 PM No.82175283
>>82175173
>doesnt want a virgin
Not like us. Fuck outta here with that degeneracy. Disgusting. Boo this man. Shame. Exile him to soc or some shit. Imagine sticking your dick where another dick had been.
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:26:06 PM No.82175300
>>82174873 (OP)
>not fat
>not a bitch
>laughs at my awful jokes
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:26:33 PM No.82175306
>>82175248
Tbh I don't care about body count as long as it's not something high and they don't have unfinished ends trailing behind so to say. Like I actually would prefer someone with a bit more experience but not like someone who fucked 200 dudes and still has hots for 40 of them.
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:28:07 PM No.82175321
body count only matters because it turns women into disloyal schizo cunts
I don't care that a penis has been inside someone, j care that they're a stable and loyal person, which whores are not
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:34:11 PM No.82175388
>>82175283
Vaginas are self cleaning it's fine anon
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:39:51 PM No.82175434
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My standards are way too high

>Virgin
>Smart
>Likes comics (required)
>Likes manga
>Autistic (prefered)
>Likes tabletop games
>Not cocky
>Not brown
>Not a fag
>Not feminine
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:49:49 PM No.82175544
>>82175388
Like ive told you before. If I took a diarrhea shit in a bowl, then cleaned and disinfected it, would you eat some chili in it?
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 10:52:13 PM No.82175565
>>82175544
Yeah it's clean what's the issue?
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 11:02:31 PM No.82175667
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>loves me for who i am
literally impossible
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 11:10:26 PM No.82175741
>won't narc on me to the police
>helps me kidnap women to fuck
My standards are just too high
Anonymous
8/13/2025, 11:24:30 PM No.82175865
>>82174873 (OP)
>a virgin
>she has to be a virgin
>she must be a virgin
>virgin
>gotta be a virgin
fellas, why are we like this?

>>82175544
now you're just describing the restaurant industry
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Anonymous
8/13/2025, 11:39:09 PM No.82176028
>>82175865
Because its social brainwashing. People think it's either virgin or slutty hoe with 300 body count.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:29:37 AM No.82176518
>>82175565
Youre disgusting, unsanitary and have no standards.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:30:57 AM No.82176533
>>82176518
>be on r9k
>think any of that is an insult
lol
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:31:34 AM No.82176538
>>82174913
Foid, do you exist? Are you like this?
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:35:06 AM No.82176571
>>82176028
The difference between a whore with a body count of 1 and 300 is none. Theyre the same thing. If youre ok being a cuck slurping sloppy seconds thats on you but dont try to act like were the weird ones.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:40:24 AM No.82176607
>>82176571
It is not though.

If someone is like 22+ and have like 4-6 body count it shows that they have experience and can either maintain a relationship or have standards. It's the same for guys.

I am not looking for someone with several dozen body counts because that's kinda eh but I will never understand the obsession with virgins. I guess they just want to control women because they don't have anything else to compare to.

It's another thing if she constantly talks or thinks about her exes, that's a whole different set of problems and not okay.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:43:22 AM No.82176639
I think mine is fairly reasonable.

>Between 24 and 30
>Not overweight
>Is within +/- 2 people of my sexual partners
>Has her own life, job, hobbies, ect.
>Doesn't party
>Isnt all over social media
>Few tattoos or body modifications
>No abnormal hair colors
>No nose rings
>Nice to me.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 12:48:25 AM No.82176685
>>82174873 (OP)
My:
Under 20
Virgin
Loyal
Genius
Rich or Perspective
Good family
Interesting
At least 8/10
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:18:08 AM No.82176961
>>82176607
Theres nothing about control. Its pure primal disgust. I simply will not touch a woman that has been seen naked or touched by another man like that. The thought of her having sex with another guy is like maggots on a corpse to me. Its not that deep.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:37:58 AM No.82177124
sheba
sheba
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>16-45
>white
>5'5+
>6/10+
>not fat
>few piercings
>few tattoos
>neurotypical
>middle class
>wants kids
for reference i'm 26, white, 5'9, upper middle class and get around 5 matches a day on hinge
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:43:48 AM No.82177182
>>82176961
If your first thought about a women whem having sex is to imagine her having sex with someone else then you have some repressed cuck tendencies.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:45:31 AM No.82177199
>>82174873 (OP)
Why is virginity such a big deal to you bros? Genuinely curious. If a girl was nice to you and you're attracted to her,she makes you feel special but she tells you that she has had sex before it's an immediate turn off?
Is it general insecurity or worry that she will leave and go fuck someone else? Is it a fear of inadequacy? Or just gross to you to imagine someone else having sex with her to the point it's always what you think about?
I'm not making fun, just trying to understand. I feel bad because it's a very unrealistic standard that gets rid of just about every woman besides underage girls or the super religious, and that has to be hard knowing there are so few to find out there.
Love you weirdos, best of luck to you.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:58:25 AM No.82177320
>>82177182
Sure dude. Youre being disingenuous now. The knowledge of it is enough to repulse. I wouldnt be having sex with such a girl.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:11:00 AM No.82177419
>>82177320
You won't be having sex with anyone but a child
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:24:25 AM No.82177523
>>82174873 (OP)
>pretty
>not boring
>nice to me sometimes
>not significantly older than me
>will have sex with me regularly
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:28:13 AM No.82177561
>tfw slightly pass the 30 wall
sad. i would still be a good partner.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:29:39 AM No.82177575
>>82177561
At least one person here didn't put an age cap
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:34:51 AM No.82177613
>>82174873 (OP)
Sauce on OP's pic? She's pretty much my ideal
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:40:01 AM No.82177654
>>82177419
Adult virgins exist. I dont know why my deal breaker makes you so angry. If I cant find one oh well. Ill live on with my honor and standards unbroken.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:44:11 AM No.82177695
>>82177199
I've had sex before (with a long term gf, who later left) so I can't with good conscience say it's a requirement, but it's vastly preferred.
I have my reasons but I can suffice it by simply saying "it's what I prefer" and leave it at that.
I wouldn't date someone not my race or fat either. If she was somehow amazing and fat I would be willing to compromise if she was willing to lose the weight.

Let me explain fatness. If you're fat, you either don't care about your looks or health, or you're too stupid to not know how to fix something that you care about. And/or you use food to cope with whatever thus equating to poor coping mechanisms.
See, I just explained easily something is summed as "no fats".

>Or just gross to you to imagine someone else having sex with her to the point it's always what you think about?
It doesn't need to be "always thought about".
It can be enough to ruin your day if you think about it once.
There are women who will refuse to ever date a man who has paid for sex, yet no one seems willing to tell them they're being crazy or insecure.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 4:12:47 AM No.82178371
I am owed a freckled red head with a cute accent. It is my right
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 4:56:54 AM No.82178655
>>82174873 (OP)
>Virgin
>>82174873 (OP)
>At least
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 5:00:11 AM No.82178683
>>82174873 (OP)
Loyal
Pale Skin, white or Asian
Pink or Red nipples
Snake Pussy
C or D cups
Succubi face
Apple Ass
Virgin but hyper infatuated with sex
Black or Brown lush hair, no shitty hair
Makeup allowed
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 5:38:48 AM No.82178957
So many cucks in this thread kek enjoy sloppy seconds
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:51:50 AM No.82179723
>>82174873 (OP)
well thats me. but your presumably talking about the girl.

for me its my first gf. for whatever reason, everyone after is compared to her. so for me, its gotta be
>almost 5 feet or less
>80 pounds
>flat chest
>nearly flat butt
>thigh gap
>boobs that i can cup entirely in my hand

thats...thats it pretty much.
>has a vagina
pretty sure this is still true, atleast with 3dpd. when it comes to 2d/internet porn i cannot stand seeing vaginas and avoid porn with vaginal focus/penetration. ALSO i think a thing because of said "first/desired gf". her vayjayjay didnt work and even though i know what the problem was and its kinda a giant nothingburger, i still dont like vaginas.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 7:55:30 AM No.82179755
>>82174873 (OP)
>have pulse
That is it. I have had fucking Shamu turn me down.
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 9:51:09 AM No.82180398
>>82179755
Too high standards.
Lame
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 11:25:36 AM No.82180801
>>82174873 (OP)
You will never have a redhead girlfriend
Rxxxx
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 11:52:21 AM No.82180923
>>82175388
Except when it comes to other dudes dead sperm cells to the point they find them in their brain making them literal cum brains.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:42:20 PM No.82181442
>>82174873 (OP)
>leftist
>cute fashion
>has lots of free time for me
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:48:40 PM No.82181476
>>82176607
>someone is like 22+ and have like 4-6 body count it shows that they have experience and can either maintain a relationship or have standards
they wouldn't have 4-6 body count if they were able to maintain a relationship (and had good partner selection)
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:53:02 PM No.82181495
>loyal
>virgin
>not black
>no BPD, NPD, or other cluster B nonsense
>older than 18
I'm dying alone ain't I
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:57:41 PM No.82181518
>male
>virgin
>6'0+
>leftist/liberal
>loves me
a girl can dream
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Anonymous
8/14/2025, 1:58:48 PM No.82181527
>>82181476
Eh I mean if someone is like 20 something, I think that's reasonable.

Like they have a teen relationship or two in high school, which rarely lead anywhere and like two or three bfs in the next 4-8 years. People I think don't have perspective how long a year is.

Sometimes relationships don't work out. People go different direction in life, move, get their priorities changed etc. I don't think it means bad partner selection, just things happen. I would say bad partner selection is to blame if you have like 15+ bodycount in a few years. and beyond that (30+) is just lwk hoeing around.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:00:18 PM No.82181536
>>82181518
Hey, wanna lick my bum? Im a virgin, you can have access to my butt with your tongue and finger it too until youre satisfied with the experience.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:10:51 PM No.82181574
partner pyramid
partner pyramid
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>>82174873 (OP)
I have this very nifty diagram from another thread. There is a lot of stuff on there, but I personally think it's not unreasonable because a lot of it is optional plus the 'minimum' stuff are like really basic things.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 2:39:50 PM No.82181713
>>82180801
Fuck you yes I will, It's my destiny.
Anonymous
8/14/2025, 3:11:26 PM No.82181923
>>82175865
>now you're just describing the restaurant industry
Haha, I was about to say. I work as a dishwasher and I can guarantee that the average person has eaten from something nearly as disgusting.