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I've had sex before (with a long term gf, who later left) so I can't with good conscience say it's a requirement, but it's vastly preferred.
I have my reasons but I can suffice it by simply saying "it's what I prefer" and leave it at that.
I wouldn't date someone not my race or fat either. If she was somehow amazing and fat I would be willing to compromise if she was willing to lose the weight.
Let me explain fatness. If you're fat, you either don't care about your looks or health, or you're too stupid to not know how to fix something that you care about. And/or you use food to cope with whatever thus equating to poor coping mechanisms.
See, I just explained easily something is summed as "no fats".
>Or just gross to you to imagine someone else having sex with her to the point it's always what you think about?
It doesn't need to be "always thought about".
It can be enough to ruin your day if you think about it once.
There are women who will refuse to ever date a man who has paid for sex, yet no one seems willing to tell them they're being crazy or insecure.
