Thread 82180561

I'm asking because real life is fucking lame and awful as it is, so why not just enjoy your online life more by finding another outcast guy to spill cum with?
It even has the benefit of never having to share your face with your partners, or hell, if you're just going to chat and share porn, you don't even have to reveal anything about yourself at all.

>>82180561 (OP)
Oh but I've done that a lot. There are a few issues with this though. First, it fries your brain because it's just too good. I've had real sex, I've had good sex, even, but I still think about lewdposting partners I've had from time to time. Second, you still need oxytocin and hugging a pillow while talking to them after you came only gets you so far. Besides it's surprisingly difficult to find true degenerate, shameless losers around here, lots of people here are super vanilla or prison gay.

>>82180561 (OP)
I am too insecure for ERP/sexting/esex

>>82180561 (OP)
>>82180616
erp is incredibly fun and comfy but i have to be in a certain state of mind for it, which is hard to achieve
meanwhile if i could just visit a girl and do sex stuff with her that would be incredibly convenient, and other irl guys (in addition to being 99% ugly) tend to just want butt stuff which i hate

>>82180561 (OP)
erp is incredibly pleasant and comfy but i have to be in a certain state of relaxation for it, which is hard to achieve when i live with my parents and they could barge in at any moment
meanwhile if i could just visit a girl and do sex stuff with her that would be perfectly convenient since it'd be a complete escape from reality, and other irl guys (in addition to being 99% ugly) tend to just want butt stuff which i hate, but maybe i'll settle for that some day if i somehow find a nice nerdy femboy / twink

>>82180689
Can't believe you (You)'d me and then un(You)'d me that's basically e-rape, anon.

It's nice but then the novelty wears off and I'm stuck either being in cocklust trance or deeply ashamed of myself. On top of that, I end up disappointing another person if I don't keep up with them.

>>82180719
it was an accident and also i wanted to elaborate on what i meant. but yeah i mostly agree with your post there are pros and cons of both simulated sex and something real, i want to experience what it's like to cum with another person at least before i die

>>82180616
I think the reason it feels so good is because it's kind of a whole different direction of sexual relations instead of just being sex but less. I also had sex but I'm going to be honest, online stuff is just better, but maybe I'm just weird.
>you still need oxytocin and hugging a pillow while talking to them after you came only gets you so far
When the alternative is being alone forever and ever or going to jail because you're "creepy" for trying to engage with someone, I feel like even text-only affection goes a long way.
I don't know why, but irl people are weird and break bonds over "vibes", I'm good one day then the next day I'm weird or creepy or whatever, online degens don't really do that.
I just hope everyone can find some kind of partner, because I've got several right now and it feels good, it feels comfortable, and I want everyone who's lonely to at least try this.
>lots of people here are super vanilla or prison gay
Yeah that's a crying shame. At this point prison gay sounds like it's becoming a buzzword, but it's really true.

>>82180561 (OP)
Im ngl I did do that a couple of times in the past but the post-nut shame you have after realizing you just erp'd with an ugly incel is just too much to make it worth it.

>>82180725
>>82180771
Shame is awful and I am sorry you experience it

>>82180733
Ah thanks for the clarification. Yeah you should experience as much as you can, for sure. That's how you can find what you really like.

>>82180742
>I also had sex but I'm going to be honest, online stuff is just better
I somewhat agree, at least in terms of how high the pleasure can go, but I believe it's because with the right partner who has similar kinks or fetishes your imaginations working together create a feedback loop that can take you way higher than regular sex? And maybe guys just know how to take care of each other better. I've known some /trash/ anons who were more caring and nurturing than the mommiest mom on earth.

>I feel like even text-only affection goes a long way.
Maybe. As long as it's genuine.

>online degens don't really do that.
Tell me where you shop for online degens because I can't seem to find this anymore. I want degen loser friends who are comfortable with themselves and won't remove or block me because they decided that they don't want to do weird gay things anymore all of a sudden. Someone I can count on mid term/long term. Who won't decide I'm part of a chapter of their life that they're done with. At least not within weeks/months.

>>82180771
>post-nut shame you have after realizing you just erp'd with an ugly incel is just too much to make it worth it.
I don't experience this. I think the issue is that you're prison gay, and op specifically said gay or bi, so you're not in the target audience.

>>82180561 (OP)
25 BIncel here. I tried that and even IRL after breaking up with an e-gf but got tired for different reasons.

At first I tried to find other femboys or bifags online through discord mainly to ERP or share cocks but I still felt like needing to fuck or be fucked IRL. So after surfing enough time in Grindr, I began to realize how much unpleasant the vast majority of men are when it comes to dating, let alone asking for sex.

At the end, I only managed to meet three cute men IRL but never went any farther past the first day of contact due to being socially inept, and the only dude I fucked wasn't exactly pretty but had good moves in bed that turned me on. That was through the span of 3 years and I backed away from it due of being afraid of contracting an STD or getting in an embarrasing situation due to the "secrecy" of asking for sex to strangers in an online app while sharing your info.

It felt very exciting at the beginning and I was addicted to making grindr accounts weekly to see what I could pull off until I stopped myself. I still want to be fucked in the ass tho.

>>82180849
>don't experience this. I think the issue is that you're prison gay
you know being gay/bi doesnt mean you have to find every single man attractive?

>>82180969
Fags are woman brained, they don't care. To them you aren't actually gay if you only like feminine men or if you're a pure top.

>>82180616
>>82180689
you know what's more fun? learning how to do a girl/trap voice and then RPing over voice instead of text.

>>82180951
What's erp?
>>82180616
>degenerate, shameless losers
I'm exactly this but nobody wants any real relationship or when they find out we're far apart they think it's some insurmountable obstacle like it's 1850 lmfao.

>>82181001
Erotic Roleplay

>>82181001
Erotic RolePlay
>when they find out we're far apart they think it's some insurmountable obstacle like it's 1850 lmfao
I've always found it funny how some people will go on and on about being lonely then they reject someone due to distance. People in 1850 were probably more okay with LDRs than they are now.

>>82180849
Hey sometimes it's not even compatible kinks that make things work, sometimes it's finding a person you just enjoy and indulging in their stuff even if it's not really your thing. But yes I do agree on the mom thing, a surprising amount of anons there aren't just okay with being called mommy but often encourage it! And they really fucking earn it too!
I personally found the love of my life on there of all places. Every time I have the chance, I remind him how much he means to me. I love him and I lust after him. We've been going strong for about a year now.
But yeah /trash/ is where I usually find new pals, /b/ very rarely and with extra caution, /soc/ is nice to find some more vanilla dudes that don't mind getting "worse", but there's also a buncha people on there that like camming and whatnot which personally isn't my thing.

>>82180561 (OP)
Every time I have thought doing this I just get stuck in my head thinking about how I don't want casual degenerate esex I want serious degenerate in person sex with someone who loves me. I've fapped with people in threads and even engaged in a bit of lewd talk but it's too much for me. I can't handle it. I don't know, I think it's just my low confidence and insecurities.

>>82180969
I am aware of that, but if you only like the top 0.1% traps that are indistinguishable from women, which is often the case with self-proclaimed bi/bi-curious anons, then you're 0% gay in my book.

>>82180983
>hurr I only like men who look exactly like women, I am such a HOMOSEXUAL
Anon! Anon, for fucks sake!!!

>>82180988
I've tried vc lewd once and my partner called me a Chad because I have a deep voice I don't think I could pull a girl voice.

>>82181001
To be fair if you get serious but live far apart it means one of you will have to uproot their entire life and take huge risk.

>>82181048
>We've been going strong for about a year now.
That's so sweet, I'm jelly as fuck. Yeah /trash/ is good, if only the couple resident schizo friend collectors could go away.

Thing is, the anons I've done it with have always been big on roleplay or AGP, the latter of which becoming more and more common in degen circles. Which is fine, but I can't roleplay well.. I find myself preferring more intimate degeneracy, with my partner and I focusing solely on how good we're making each other feel (maybe while image trading), maybe in voice chat if they're cute, but in my experience that's been a bit hard to come by.
I HAVE had a good one though, and holy fuck it was one of the most fun nights ever. We must've been at it for at least 6 hours.

>>82181125
That's not even close to what I said and you're proving my point. This is terminal online shit lmfao no one IRL thinks I'm not gay because I only like men when they're dressed in pink frills.

>>82181142
>maybe voice chat
Now that I think about it, I think VC is a big thing for me actually, and many simply aren't willing to do that, which is understandable. I don't really care how anon sounds, as long as they're not ESL.. I'm just not good at typefucking; I am waaaay better at VC. My voice is softer than most, and I've been told that, so once I convince someone to do it, it usually goes well!
Still, it's hard for me to find anyone to specifically do this with and have it work. Maybe I just need to look harder..

>>82181274
vc is definitely the best part of it. but yeah it's hard to find anyone for this dynamic that doesn't flake. i haven't had a decent esex buddy in years even though people tell me i sound cute :/

>>82181325
I dunno, I guess VC spooks anons.. I'd love to try it again someday, the last time it worked out for me was about a year ago so I definitely miss it a lot
>esex buddy
This, though? Yeaaah, it's been a few years for me too.. Anons usually dip after the first couple times

>>82181125
I hope you find someone who's THAT special to you too, anon, I didn't wanna make you upset or jealous :(

>>82181376
sounds like we're in the same boat anony. you ought to give me a whirl sometime...

>>82180561 (OP)
Wait I thought e-sex only meant sending nudes to each other and flirting/sexting

>>82180561 (OP)
really wish i could eventually find a loser like myself but i think id only enjoy sexually pleasing someone i have deep attachment to and ppl just want it instantly which feels alien to me

>>82181415
What? No, sending nudes or porn is just one part of it. It's more involved; dirty talk, encouragement, letting them know how good it feels to do stuff with them, stabbing them right in the heart with something extremely loving in the middle of degenerate sex talk or doing the opposite, dirtiest, horniest thing during loving faps, aftercare, etc

>>82181403
maybe someday! I can't do anything fun for about a week anyways, so I'll have to settle with thinking about it for now.
Of course, I could add you on something for later if you want..

>>82181445
That sounds like half a relationship

>>82181465
sure thing, what's your preferred botnet?

>>82181468
Hey you asked about e-sex

Wait so you are asking why we don't get into gay online relations?

>>82181465
>>82181478
posting my 'cord incase you come back and see this later :>

mizunoue04

>>82180561 (OP)
I wish fag/bi/tranny shit was more accepted, so I wouldn't have to deal with females or at least have more options than just females.

>>82181962
It's a sad state of like partial half-assed "acceptance" and "normalization"

I've ERP'd with anons on /trash/ before but I feel like that's something I need to take to the grave.
The worst part is I kind of miss doing it now that I've got an internet gf.

>>82181478
>>82181599
if you're still there, added! And yeah, discy is fine :3
Like I said, I probably won't be able to be on much for like a week, maaaybe a few days at least.. but hopefully we get the ball rolling on this, it sounds fun!

>>82182819
Bro?? Your girl doesn't typefuck with you???

>>82182846
I think she would but we're both too shy to initiate it. Sometimes we trade hentai.
The calls are good too and probably better than any typefucking I've had.

>>82182872
You goon with her on calls and you miss MEN??

>>82182887
I miss the roleplay part since I'd usually pick a character to be with another anon but I guess I could just ask her to do that.

>>82182904
Just don't push it cuz then you'll become a heckin creep or something

>>82180561 (OP)
I thought I was bisexual because I had previously had several encounters with men of the adult kind but I've since decided to detox my body of the perversion that is same sex behavior. I practice abstinence and prefer women.

>>82183064
Ok vegan

>>82183064
I, for one, like to explore my options. But to each their own

>>82183114
The only meat I enjoy is vagina. No penis or men for me. No twinks or femboys with their juicy feminine bodies for me. I'm reformed now.
>>82183131
You're free to be gay if you want. I can no longer be gay anymore.

I would like to erp with a foid just to feel something, but the gay shit just seems too far off the deep end of gooning

>>82183613
i feel like i'm the opposite, just because i relate to someone else having a penis much better and i know exactly how they feel
not that foid erp is without its merits, but dicks are op anon

>>82183731
>not that foid erp is without its merits
I wouldn't know
I just can't imagine getting off with an obese sweaty bald guy with an anime profile picture through the screen

>>82180561 (OP)
i want a BF, i don't want to be a whore

>>82183613
I ERPd with a girl once by complete accident and it was one of the most intense things I've done in my life. It's a marathon. They can't get off in like 30 minutes like a regular anon it takes like 3 hours.
The whole experience definitely changed how I acted around women for a while knowing that I managed to get one off.