>>82180777
For starters, I think a lot of self-professed Christians do not practice i.e don't participate in church or church-adjacent groups. I have for one made a few friends online who at one point would consider themselves Christian but gave it up / lost their faith / w/e (most weren't raised Christian but came from atheist families).
Catholics are stereotyped as the stiff straight-edge christies but really it's just semantics. The ones who take up Christianity / Catholicism later in life are usually in such a fucked place to begin with that they have nowhere left to go. It's why churches are always funding resources for the poor / homeless, because they are essentially their marketing demographic. When you go to Sunday school you can see the tactics they use to try and get non-believers on board- asking them if they felt something was missing in their life or if they felt something supernatural that they couldn't explain. It's predatory behaviour that flies under the radar as spiritual guidance, and it's not just limited to Catholicism.