Thread 82182340

"JUST TALK TO GIRLS INCEL!!!"
This is something I've been seeing/hearing lately in regards to male singleness and incels.

1. Why do girls care so much about talking?
It's not the only way of communicating and it's not like it makes me more attractive just because I make noises out of my mouth. I usually don't talk unless I think I have a good reason to.
2. How do I even get a girl to talk to? Most of them show obvious disinterest and would usually get bothered if you just randomly go up to them and start a conversation.
It's literally considered harassment to many women to bother them like that.

>>82182340 (OP)
>why do girls care about talking?
Talking is how humans communicate. What alternatives are there?

>How do I even get a girl to talk to?
Clubs, activities, social events, social media, friends of friends, etc. Just put yourself in the vicinity of women.

talking to girls is literally the easiest thing ever, just go full retard and talk about feelings or people or whatever

>>82182364
>Talking is how humans communicate. What alternatives are there?
Most communication is apparently nonverbal like body language and such. Looking at someone too. And things like the way you look is more important for attraction is it not?
>>82182370
I know where to find girls. I go to school and they are probably the majority here.
So say I have a girl near me in class. What do I do then?

>>82182406
>most communication is nonverbal
Body language is one channel of communication when you're face to face, but nobody depends on it solely. It's either words + voice + body language OR words + voice OR words. Humans dont talk with body language alone, and sign language doesnt count because that's nonetheless a method of communicating semantic information.

>And things like the way you look is more important for attraction is it not?
Having a big engine is important for winning a car race, but if you don't turn the car on then you don't go anywhere. Being attractive is important for wooing women but if you never fucking talk to them then you won't get anywhere. You're not just waiting for women to approach you, right? Right?

>>82182340 (OP)
>How do I even get a girl to talk to?
I struggle with this one a lot. I work at a job that's exclusively other men. There's probably a half dozen girls in my age group at church and most of them are married. I've tried talking to girls online and been ghosted by all but one, and that one doesn't talk too often.

I ain't even trying to get poon or whatever. I'd just like to talk to one semi-regularly because I know very little about them.

>>82182435
>You're not just waiting for women to approach you, right? Right?
Yeah. How do I make that happen?

I cant talk to women unless they can handle banter and unfortunately 99% of them cannot.

>>82183170
Be hot. Not necessarily just being physically attractive, but it helps to be someone who looks talented or competent at something in a way that is visible to other people.