Thread 82187673

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Anonymous 8/15/2025, 4:28:11 AM No.82187673 >>82187683 >>82187916 >>82187943 >>82187951 >>82187962 >>82188033 >>82188055 >>82188210 >>82188272 >>82188286 >>82188818

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>Likes to watch tv

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 4:29:43 AM No.82187683

>>82187673 (OP)
What is wrong with watching TV? TV is fine as long as you aren't obsessed with it.

>male friends

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:00:53 AM No.82187916 >>82188071 >>82188094

>>82187673 (OP)
I only dated 2 women in my life but I've seen so many guys make these mistakes
>has a male bestie
>BPD
>tattoos
>high body count
>chubby
>too tall or masculine features (sign of high testosterone/high aggression or could be a tranny)
>too loose single mom pussy
>black/ghetto women
>overprotective father/daddy's little princess
>doesn't have a job
>"My ex was abusive"
>smokes or drinks
>too religious

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:05:17 AM No.82187943

>>82187673 (OP)
Cutting scars. Telling you sexual stuff about her previous partners without you asking. Constantly seeking male attention. A penis.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:06:28 AM No.82187951 >>82188008

>>82187673 (OP)
Male friends, unless they're gayfags. Not competing again for time and attention with a bunch of guys that my gf is in denial about how much they want to fuck her while acting like I'm controlling or jealous or an asshole for pointing that out. If she's "one of the guys" that's an immediate left swipe or ghosting.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:07:46 AM No.82187962 >>82187976

>>82187673 (OP)
M*lested by her dad and still has a relationship with him

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:08:50 AM No.82187976 >>82188010

>>82187962
This is oddly specific anon. Story?

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:13:17 AM No.82188008

>>82187951
>If she's "one of the guys" that's an immediate left swipe or ghosting.
these are always giga whores kek

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:13:26 AM No.82188010

>>82187976
>Story
Csa stats

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:16:21 AM No.82188033

>>82187673 (OP)
>she's fat
>if she uses snapchat. women who use Snapchat are three times as likely to cheat, im certain.
>has a pitbull (garbage dogs for garbage people)
>a girl who's never single. they get dumped one week and find a different guy the next. met two people like that in college and both ended up having some deep emotional issues.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:19:02 AM No.82188055 >>82188114

>>82187673 (OP)
wew
>trouble maintaining relationships
>bad relationship with family
>paranoia with family
>always the victim in her stories
>gets mad when you want to get off the phone/facetime
>doesn't respect serious things for you like going to bed early because you have an important/stressful work project the next day
>only wants to talk about herself

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:22:15 AM No.82188071

>>82187916
Worst redflag is when her whole friend group is made of male besties.
You can directly tell that her bodycount is a disaster.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:25:31 AM No.82188094 >>82188126

>>82187916
>BPD
>tattoos
>too tall or masculine features (sign of high testosterone/high aggression
>"My ex was abusive"

Jesus Christ, describes my ex very well. She said her ex was "abusive" but she always broke my expensive shit or my phone whenever she got mad at me.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:28:10 AM No.82188114

>>82188055
>gets mad when you want to get off the phone/facetime
>doesn't respect serious things for you like going to bed early because you have an important/stressful work project the next day
my ex gf was like this and both of these were a big reason why we broke up. Another reason why we broke up:

>she has a best friend who is always competing with you for her attention, hates you, and is attatched with her at the hip

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:30:27 AM No.82188126 >>82188153 >>82188227

>>82188094
I would take a loyal deeply feeling bpd after the neverending npds Ive ended up with

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:34:16 AM No.82188153

>>82188126
>loyal
>deeply feeling bpd
Anon... I...

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:41:53 AM No.82188210

>>82187673 (OP)
>Crazy eyes

>Being on medication for depression or emotional disorders

>History of self-abuse

>Makes underhanded comments (manipulation)

>Superficial interests

>Constant complaining

>Siblings have kids at young age

>Any close relatives in prison

>Grew up too poor

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:43:07 AM No.82188219

>listens to rap/hip hop

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:43:58 AM No.82188227 >>82188294

>>82188126
>"deeply feeling"
Meaning she's prone to daily/weekly fits of blistering anger over nothing, extreme emotional neediness and gaslighting. It won't work man, date someone normal. It's tragic, but BPD's whole thing is that they sabotage relationships because people can't stand to be around them for long. They're so toxic it's astonishing and unhealthy. T. dated and lived with a bad one.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:49:11 AM No.82188272

>>82187673 (OP)
>posts suggestive selfies on social media when she feels like you're not giving her enough attention
Can't fucking believe I put up with that shit. There's no point in feeling shame because I will never put up with that again with any woman. Yes it's a woman's right to do that I guess but if they want to do that it won't be in a relationship with me. Fucking childish cunts. The older you get the more you realize they truly are pains in the ass that we have to put up with.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:52:03 AM No.82188286

>>82187673 (OP)
>Bartending and Flight Attendants
>"Social media influencer"
>Nurses
>Military women
>Careers with no possibilities for self-growth, like cashier, barista, waitress etc.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:53:41 AM No.82188294 >>82188307 >>82188311

>>82188227
Maybe try not to treat your partners like shit. If possible which I doubt

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:55:12 AM No.82188307

>>82188294
are you saying that to me or the hypothetical BPD partner?

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 5:55:40 AM No.82188311

>>82188294
>Maybe try not to treat your partners like shit. If possible which I doubt
Weak b8, try harder next time.

Anonymous 8/15/2025, 7:10:41 AM No.82188818

>>82187673 (OP)
lost virginity at 13 with 40yo