Thread 82192969

Is it over for a man to find a decent looking woman to be a wife after 30?
>6 feet
>6 figure job
>6 inches dick
>workout and /fit/
>great sense of style and /fa/
>got car and place
>secured future
And yet you have to settle with obese niggerette with flat ass, fridge body, apron belly, FUPA and pancake tits.
Plus the faggottory of her son from her ex bf.

>>82192969 (OP)
>divorced, bald, roided, oil-driller
kek, what rolemodels.

>>82192969 (OP)
I'm two years older than my boyfriend and I'm not ugly, fat, or left wing. We met in our 30s and both had baggage but we've bought a house together, are planning a family, and we're genuinely happy as heck!

There's hope but I think you just have to accept things for what they are, don't expect the perfect person. People have baggage and history with other people at 30+, and your physical aspect is what it is at this age. Looks fade, finding a partner that keeps you engaged in conversation and that fills your life with laughter will last a lifetime.

Figure out your priorities for the next 10 years and go from there.

>>82192971
>two years older than my boyfriend
stopped reading

>>82192969 (OP)
I found a decent looking woman when I was 40, despite me being fat, unattractive, autistic, depressive, a lousy dresser, under 6 feet, under 6 inches, and under 6 figures. So I think you'll be fine.

>>82192973
>decent looking
doesn't mean anything
how old and how crazy is she?

>>82192969 (OP)
>6 feet
>6 figure job
>6 inches dick
>workout and /fit/
>great sense of style and /fa/
>got car and place
>secured future
Can't believe you fell for it. You should just understand that women want handsome men. Plenty of broken men-children that have beautiful and younger girlfriends because they are tall and handsome. These memes about "working on yourself' are ridiculous, all these men in the manosphere and red pill community saying this only got women when they became famous and rich, and these women are LOW QUALITY women that are only after their money. Do you really want to take advice from them? You can get a younger and beautiful women, but it's going to be very hard, because you don't have access to them.

>>82192969 (OP)
>Is it over for a man to find a decent looking woman to be a wife after 30?
it ain't over boyo. just grow tall, implant blue blue eyes and scam your way to the top. You must have a growth mindset to grow taller, richer, stronger and to develop blue eyes brother

>>82192969 (OP)
>nothing about good looking face
>nothing about not being a weird awkward asocial faggot
It's over for you. No, not all men over 30, YOU nigger.

>>82192969 (OP)
Short answer: No.

Long answer: No, guy in pic related is clearly something like 50+ and is low self-esteem cuck.

>>82192974
At that time she was 32 (eight years younger than me) and a hard 8.

>>82192974
Oh, and on a 0 to 10 scale for craziness, about a 3.

>>82192970
>balding
It's genetics, you can't do much about it.
Unlike obesity.

>>82192971
>I'm two years older than my boyfriend and I'm not ugly, fat, or left wing
[citation needed]
Didn't you like the BBC?

>>82192973
>decent looking woman
They're dudes with tits

>>82192982
I wouldn't know [they are absolutely disgusting], and I don't have any interest in finding out.

>>82192972
What's the problem? My mom is older than my dad and they've been together 45 years now.

>>82192971
>We met in our 30s and both had baggage but we've bought a house together, are planning a family
I wish you the best of luck; you'll need it. If you are not trying for a baby in this absolute moment freeze your eggs and his sperm. You are both already old.

>>82192969 (OP)
>doing roids for a fat negress

Lmao

>>82192985
Thanks? It's a big myth that you can't get pregnant easily after 30 if you're overall healthy (I am).

>>82192969 (OP)
>no social life
>no friends
>no real lifestyle
>no real hobbies
>boring
>is only able to define himself through his job

This is why you don't have a gf. Every single time someone makes a "I have no gf" thread and the very first thing they post about themselves is their stupid job. Oh and you wear stupid clothes too, congrats. Way to stand out as an individual.

>>82192987
That's good, but I wouldn't be too sure. People do what they can and I won't hold it against them, but it is also non ideal. There are higher risks for the baby's and your health, as well as the ability of how many times you will be able to conceive. Also for how much time you'll share with those children... Sooner is almost always better.

I'd advise folic acid supplements 3 months before starting to try and consulting an specialist so they can guide you the best way possible. Good luck

>>82192988
you think life is like that?
All of these happens simultaneously you dump basement dweller.
>successful job
You need social skills to succeed at that
>Healthy habits
You'd need healthy lifestyle
>healthy hobby
need friends and circles that promote and enforce that
>boring
You can't judge a person for their hobbies.
And a man is judged by what he accomplishes
What about you?

>>82192969 (OP)
I won't read numerology threads. They're delusional.

>>82192990
>>successful job
>You need social skills to succeed at that
absolutely not.

There's loads of people who mask up or skinwalk or whatever the term is for 8 hours a day at your 9 to 5 and in interview settings.

>You can't judge a person for their hobbies.
Why not? It's a window into who they are as a person.
>And a man is judged by what he accomplishes
Yeah I guess, but think getting a girlfriend and eventually getting married and having 15 kids etc is part of that as well.
>What about you?
What about me? I got my first gf when I was 17, I hadn't even worked a real job yet besides shoveling driveways and mowing lawns. Didn't own a car.

I'm not le gigachad either, all my friends and myself were loners and outcasts who were picked last in gym class and didn't have a prom date if they even went to prom. I just met a girl online who went to a different school and we had plenty in common including our interests and lifestyles.

There's no need to impress anyone with a million dollars to go on a date

>>82192992
Why are you even larping?

>>82192969 (OP)
yes it's possible, haven't you heard stories in your life that old people hook up with young girls. It happens all the time. You're just looking for someone to feed into your depressing thoughts

>>82192971
>>82192971
>Figure out your priorities for the next 10 years and go from there.
Do people here really not do this?? This is what adults have been telling me since fucking high school. How is this board full of supposed STEM major geniuses and can't form a life plan that literal teenagers can?

>>82192971
I ask about this and then people on this board and /adv/ say that I'm settling and a cuckold.

Also what are middle aged well meaning women doing on r9k?

>>82192969 (OP)
It heavily depends on location. American city women have an enormous abundance of choice for short term sexual partners due to these apps and easy available lazy girlboss jobs. Elsewhere, this does not apply.

>>82192989
I've done all I can to keep myself healthy, I really appreciate the support though! The risks for are higher yes but they're not as high as you'd think, at least until 45. I think the misinformation turns a lot of 30+ women off from the idea of having children and its completely unjustified.

>>82193240
From personal experience, no. A lot of people don't even think of next year.

>>82192977
> nothing about not being a weird awkward asocial faggot
This and not being a normalfaggot is what enables men to get younger women. Look at fucking Chrischan. He has a woman 11 years younger. That is 6x better than the average American. As disgusting as he his, he simply tries out shit while most normgroids hope to be picked by women.

If this disgusting guy can do that most men who put their head to it can. He also is like 40 btw

American women only search for "real relationships" by the time they are 30 something on average, right when the looks go downhill. Hence the average low age gap. If you are strong enough mentally to endure liberals and angry seethers you can get a woman 10-15 years younger. It is simply a matter of the numbers of women. Also don't go online, women online filter every guy plus 5 years simply because they can. IRL women make compromises for men they like, pictures and a short description are simply a poor medium to attract women in general. Looks aint it either, you can see that even the men who get swiped right on still have a low rate of actually getting sex from the women who swipe on them.

>>82192970
Yup, low tier man but people will look up to him.

>>82192969 (OP)
>apron belly, FUPA
same thing

>>82193252
Because you are. If you're a successful man in your 30s you shouldn't be settling for any woman under 27. Also not everyone has baggage so be smart. I think the reality is that if you're not getting married to someone you truly love it isn't worth it. If you're just doing it because "you're getting old and need to settle down" don't fucking bother. You'd wish you were still single.

>>82194053
>you shouldn't be settling for any woman under 27
* only for women under 27
ftfy

>>82192987
Not true. My friend has a very in shape wife that's around 30 but needs to take fertility drugs. Waiting too long absolutely will fuck you over.

Women over 30 are worthless, just go to another country that is more biologically sane. Egypt had to install laws to limit age gaps to 25 years tops because it started to fuck up demographics.

>>82192969 (OP)
robots have never had the lips of a black woman vacuum sealing their dick, believe me robot, when you get that old and lonely the ugly black girls you rejected in your youth appear as Victoria's Secret supermodels

>>82192988
I hate posts like this. If a woman finds you attractive she will fuck you. Lots of broke losers that just smoke weed all day and play 2k/Fifa/Madden get pussy anon. Stop thinking you need to be some amazing person to get pussy thats pedestalizing relationships.

>>82193654
>If you are strong enough mentally to endure liberals and angry seethers you can get a woman 10-15 years younger.

Not in America. That is pretty much patched out. Maybe if she's from another country or something but otherwise she will listen to her friends calling you a creep that should "date a woman her own age"

>>82194052
No.
Appron belly is when you have a flap that cover your pussy
Fupa, is when you have fatty mound.
Both are ugly.

>>82194092
Even Chrischan did it, aside from that tons of women have no friends past university

>>82194073
Lol I wouldn't be surprised if America adopted laws where they make any age gap over 10 years illegal.

>>82192969 (OP)
the true blackpill is realizing negresses are worth genociding the white species for, they are top tier wives and mothers

>>82194103
Eh if she's hot she's likely in some "friend group" that will all henpeck and judge you before they "allow" her to date you. If you're too old one of them will say so and that he might try to take advantage of you and that will be the end of that.

>>82194115
America is a shithole for anything but making money. And if someone says something, Arab women are whiter than most Americans nowadays. They are based af

>>82194132
Just claim she is envious and then she won't do shit. Women hate each other anyway

>>82192970
She also has kids from a previous marriage. There is also reason to believe he cheated on her or she's still mad about being cheated on by an ex

>>82192969 (OP)
>>6 feet
>>6 figure job
>>6 inches dick
So just talk to them. Those 3 attributes are more than enough to secure a woman but the fact you're on this cest pit website full of trannies n jeets will put her off for sure

>>82194163
>Arab women are whiter than most Americans nowadays
This.
Most of them are hairier though which isn't for me.
I paid for my gf then -currently wife- laser treatment.
My only complain is she doesn't know how to regulate her emotions.

>>82194209
All I can say is that they don't complain about shit like age gaps or other nonsense.

>>82194069

Not everyone's experience is the same. I'm sorry about your friend.

>>82192971
if you met in your 30s you're left wing by definition. marrying a geriatric woman is a left wing action and we are defined by our actions, not what we declare ourselves to be.

You're Marx.

>>82194640
I don't understand your logic. It's very common in my country to settle down at 30. I settled down very early, wasted my 20s with someone that ended up to be a horrible person, life happened and I had to restart my life from zero. I'm not saying its ideal but it happens, and people are deserving of love no matter their age.

Its hard for guys in our 20s, being old just raises the difficulty.

>>82192969 (OP)
I feel good knowing that my life path will never lead me to proposing marriage to a fat black lady while I'm wearing flip flops

>>82192981
>t. bald AND fat