Severe attachment issues and obsessiveness - /r9k/ (#82208160) [Archived: 233 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:10:27 AM No.82208160
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Its gotten so bad ive never been able to achieve a friendship with a male for more than 2 weeks. Maybe its because I missed out on teen romance since I was the doomer anti social type . Any guy that shows me affection and can go days talking to me I get so obsessed with . Even when a guy hold a door for me I get flutters in my tummy Im such an attention deprived loser. I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:11:51 AM No.82208169
>>82208160 (OP)
>antisocial
what antisocial things did you do?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:13:07 AM No.82208179
>>82208160 (OP)
It's cause ur ugly and gross
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:13:27 AM No.82208183
>>82208160 (OP)
Did you wait until after hs to transition?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:14:06 AM No.82208188
>>82208160 (OP)
>I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
If you actually liked us, but if you cling from the start you just seem desperate and slutty.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:14:57 AM No.82208193
>>82208160 (OP)
wanna post contact?
I can call you cute and stuff
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:15:34 AM No.82208201
>>82208169
I stay at home all day in my bedroom rarely leaving the house to the point I got vitamin d3 deficiency , during school I had below 40% attendance Id just doomscroll on social media >>82208179
I grew up ugly so probably
>>82208188
So then you dont like clingy girls
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:16:11 AM No.82208207
>>82208160 (OP)
Nice try glowboy
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:17:10 AM No.82208218
>>82208207
Incels cannot grasp the fact women have been rejected , try not to self project challenge go!
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:17:27 AM No.82208220
>>82208160 (OP)
You are bpd demon, stay away from us
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:18:11 AM No.82208227
>>82208220
Never planned on approaching you and I dont have bpd
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:18:23 AM No.82208228
>>82208160 (OP)
>>82208201
I need a gf like this, provided she's cuddly.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:18:58 AM No.82208233
Hello I am a 4 11 balding indian janitor, i am here to save you from your loneliness.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:20:17 AM No.82208244
>>82208227
Noooo, please don't rape ne
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:20:43 AM No.82208249
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>>82208160 (OP)
I have severe attachment issues and obsessiveness too, but I want to kill you. Go away foid, stop trying to relate, you can't.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:23:45 AM No.82208275
>>82208249
Youre the moid relating
>>82208228
Cuddly like fat or physically affectionate? Id love to hold a boy in my arms and kiss him
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:23:48 AM No.82208276
>>82208201
>So then you dont like clingy girls
I do, but I want them to cling to me, not every guy.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:24:45 AM No.82208285
>>82208275
physically affectionate
I want a girl to sit in my lap, maybe wrap her legs around me
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:26:00 AM No.82208295
>>82208276
Thats just being in a relationship then?>>82208285
Sounds like a dream and very cute ^^
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:26:22 AM No.82208297
>>82208160 (OP)
Tbf most women seem to barely be able to hold a conversation for long enough and even when they do it just ends up being plain responses, which is arguably far more unattractive.

>I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
Can be cute, just not when it gets to an extent that it distracts from other aspects of life to an unhealthy degree.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:27:31 AM No.82208313
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>>82208275
>Youre the moid relating
We're both moids, calling yourself a woman doesn't make it true
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:28:43 AM No.82208323
>>82208160 (OP)
Same but for girls, been years since I've had a woman to cling to though.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:28:47 AM No.82208324
>>82208297
Id say Im the obsessive type when I have a partner I want to be around him 24/7 and support him . I do get jealous but not to the point Id dictate his life , Id just want to show him how affectionate I am by loving him
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:29:38 AM No.82208336
>>82208295
it'd be so cute, and it's one of those dreams that's never far from being true
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:29:50 AM No.82208340
>>82208313
Im not the same thing you identify as
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:30:09 AM No.82208342
>>82208324
You're probably just bipolar, idk.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:31:10 AM No.82208352
>>82208342
Im not bipolar I dont have irrational mood swings . Id just say Im depressive and latch onto any attention Im given
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:33:04 AM No.82208368
>>82208323
That must suck no appeal do you think? Last time I had a oneitis was 2 weeks ago then he unadded me . I miss him very much
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:36:51 AM No.82208412
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>>82208340
>Im not the same thing you identify as
What? The fact that you don't simply state you're a cis woman says a lot lol
>>82208297
>Can be cute, just not when it gets to an extent that it distracts from other aspects of life to an unhealthy degree.
You wouldn't get it, codependency is the only form of love there is, everything else is simply transactional and using each other.
>>82208323
>been years since I've had a woman to cling to though.
Normie fag
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:38:00 AM No.82208429
this thread is very tranny coded
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:38:42 AM No.82208433
>>82208160 (OP)
>I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
no, actually not. i don't want a clingy friend/gf
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:39:22 AM No.82208440
>>82208412
No such thing as cis its either youre female or male . Its also called inference you retard Troon
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:41:15 AM No.82208461
>>82208412
Try having an overly dependent girlfriend, I dare you.
Replies: >>82208899
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:41:44 AM No.82208467
op is cute. CUTE.

I love being friends with (and also dating) clingy girls, it's honestly the best, and when I have one as a friend, talking to her 20+ hours a day is the best.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:42:52 AM No.82208478
>>82208368
Probably not the greatest as far as appeal goes, I don't think I make it easy for myself tho. I work nights and hardly get out, plus I don't do work relationships so that only really leaves apps/online shit, from there I've only been in one irl with a girl that had "avoidant personality disorder" so it didn't mesh well bc she didn't like bring close most of the time.

>had a oneitis 2 weeks ago
Are you that chikn dude people talk about on here?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:43:26 AM No.82208487
>>82208352
Oh well, not here to diagnose you. Just trends in behaviour I usually see in bipolar women desu.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:44:08 AM No.82208496
>>82208467
I miss having this with my oneitis , we would talk daily for hours then he started distancing and unadded me . He likely replaced me but I wont make the assumption since he was struggling with his self image . I love when guys reciprocate the same
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:44:44 AM No.82208505
>>82208467
Actually having a girlfriend you can treat as a close friend at the same time is just preferable. Idk why people don't realise that.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:45:09 AM No.82208513
>>82208478
I have no clue who that is I rarely post on r9k unless its depressive shitposts
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:45:18 AM No.82208516
>>82208201
that's asocial. antisocial is verbally and physically assaulting people
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:45:51 AM No.82208527
>>82208496
same.

>>82208505
better than a close friend, truly codependant.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:46:08 AM No.82208532
>>82208160 (OP)
Hey op. I love you. So long gay bowser.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:46:10 AM No.82208534
>>82208516
Thats aspd which I have a diagnosis for lel anti social doesnt mean you have aspd
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:48:17 AM No.82208553
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>>82208160 (OP)
This sounds perfect. This is exactly what I want.
In an ideal world I'd have a clingy introverted gf who lives with me and we would cuddle/be affectionate to each other all the time.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:48:58 AM No.82208558
>>82208275
Cuddly as in physically affectionate, I want someone to hold onto when I get home from work.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:50:13 AM No.82208573
>>82208553
Me too anon I want a bed rotting boyfriend where we could just hold each other in bed for hours have sex kiss cuddle sleep for 16 hours then cuddle more
Replies: >>82208598
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:52:51 AM No.82208598
>>82208573
I wfh as well so it would be perfect. I couldn't just lay in bed all day because my life requires money and work to maintain, but I would be able to be near her all the time so she doesn't get worried if I were to be away at work.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:55:41 AM No.82208629
>>82208534
then how does your definition of antisocial differ from asocial?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:58:02 AM No.82208645
Clinginess, like every quality a woman has organically, is egocentric and has nothing to do with the man in particular. A woman who is clingy doesnt love that man in particular, it just means they are desperate to use someone.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:04:48 AM No.82208703
>>82208629
I dont prefer to be alone when I crave attention from people now do I?
Replies: >>82208756
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:05:49 AM No.82208716
>>82208645
Use them for what , affection and self pleasure?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:08:48 AM No.82208740
>>82208160 (OP)
Share age and race and be my wife u little shit
Replies: >>82208750
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:09:50 AM No.82208750
>>82208740
ur a lump of shit
Replies: >>82209958
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:10:53 AM No.82208756
>>82208703
so your antisocial, but not antisocial, and you're not asocial?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:12:43 AM No.82208777
>>82208756
Anti social is the opposite of social , aspd is anti social personality disorder which differs from anti socialism and is more sociopathic and asocial is closer to anti social not the other way
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:20:46 AM No.82208823
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>>82208160 (OP)
I wrote you a poem, little foid

obsessive and clingy
the little foid remains
any moid makes her tingly
to mush turns her brain

she just wants to be loved
like any lonely femcel girl
but she's pushed aside, shoved
for the prettier ones, the pearls

and so she cries and cries
until her puffy, swollen eyes
can't take any more and she falls deep into slumber
she dreams of prince charming, who asks for her number
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:23:38 AM No.82208842
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>>82208160 (OP)
I wrote you a poem, little foid

obsessive and clingy
the little foid remains
any moid makes her tingly
to mush turns her brain

she just wants to be loved
like any lonely femcel girl
but she's pushed aside, shoved
for the prettier ones, the pearls

and so she cries and cries
until her puffy, swollen eyes
can't take any more and she falls deep into slumber
she dreams of prince charming, who asks for her number

and so she wakes and the cycle repeats
in vain she cries and she weeps
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:25:46 AM No.82208855
>>82208842
you prompted chatgpt for this, didn't you anon?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:25:47 AM No.82208856
>>82208842
Can I marry you ? Im going to rape you if not
Replies: >>82208918
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:26:47 AM No.82208862
>>82208842
My oneitis wrote me a poem before breaking things off with me Im going to slit my wrists now
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:33:32 AM No.82208899
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>>82208440
>No such thing as cis its either youre female or male . Its also called inference you retard Troon
The reason I said cis is because they weren't saying it, projecting tranny
>>82208461
>Try having an overly dependent girlfriend, I dare you.
If I could I wouldn't be posting here retard. I've always been clingy, even with my old friend who I'd bother every day and get jealous when he's talking about his friends. I need someone like that, you're a nigger tranny whore autist who can't handle a different opinion. You can't view a different perspective but you're autistic.

I need her, I need her so much, I wouldn't ever let her go. I'd tie her onto my bed, carry her on a leash so she'd never be able to escape. God, that sounds beautiful. I'd finally escape all you normies fags and I'd finally have a purpose to live, for her.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:36:03 AM No.82208918
>>82208855
no, I just opened up rhymezone and made it in 5 minutes

>>82208856
>>82208862
<3
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:37:32 AM No.82208929
>>82208160 (OP)
I like girls who post the inside of their panties
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 4:38:32 AM No.82208938
>>82208220
Why do incles have BPD?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:03:08 AM No.82209138
>>82208899
>even with my old friend who I'd bother every day and get jealous when he's talking about his friends
so you're gay.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:17:55 AM No.82209242
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>>82209138
>so you're gay.
There's a difference between a platonic and romantic relationship, retard

>"Those who cannot conceive Friendship as a substantive love but only as a disguise or elaboration of Eros betray the fact that they have never had a Friend"
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:30:08 AM No.82209321
Men lovely clingy women. As long as they're not ugly. Or stupid and cringe. I think you just might fall into one of the three categories. Even if you're fat as hell, some men love that.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:33:36 AM No.82209354
>>82208160 (OP)
>I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
well, me personally i like them when i'm given a reasonable amount of space, to be fair
i still gotta work and i like playing my games but i definitely will enjoy a chat everyday, even if we only exchange a few emails everyday or something like that
the thing about clingy girls is that they often times tried to manipulate me into giving them more attention (blackmailing and the likes) and that puts a huge stress on me because i know what it's like to be attention starved, but i still need my time

i do like clingy girls but not when they're too clingy i guess, if that makes any sense
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:36:54 AM No.82209391
where the fuck do I find that? I want someone clingy.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:07:47 AM No.82209958
>>82208750
No actually that is U now post race age and contact NOW NOW NOW
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:15:52 AM No.82210023
>>82208160 (OP)
id be fine with that but we'll never talk
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:16:54 AM No.82210029
>that feeling when no yandere gee eff
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:19:25 AM No.82210042
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>>82208160 (OP)
Op is my ideal wife if it wasnt for the fact that shes fat and ugly.
Replies: >>82210049 >>82216340
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:20:31 AM No.82210049
>>82210042
>get fat yandere gf
>ask her to lose weight
>???
>have skinny yandere gf
like magic
Replies: >>82210099 >>82210334 >>82216368
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:26:46 AM No.82210099
>>82208227
How sure are you that you don't have it? Also, if you dont have bpd, im sorry to let you know that your clinginess you hold so high in self regard (most likely) falters in comparison to a girl with true mental illness.
>t, knower with a bpd gf
>>82210049
>she ends up gaining more weight over time
>causes fights over it out of nowhere
Replies: >>82210112
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:28:32 AM No.82210112
>>82210099
>she ends up gaining more weight over time
>implying I'm not going to fully control this girl and make her eat a perfectly balanced healthy diet of my own design
Fights are all from not controlling her enough. Do not allow them to make their own decisions!
Replies: >>82210158
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:34:12 AM No.82210158
>>82210112
True, 100%, assuming you live together though, which makes it so much easier to do what you just said. Which is not the case for every relationship
Replies: >>82210164
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:35:13 AM No.82210164
>>82210158
Even online you can swing it. If she deviates from the diet you can guilt her, it's her fault she broke the rules so you're in the clear.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:40:42 AM No.82210192
>>82208160 (OP)
>. Even when a guy hold a door for me I get flutters in my tummy Im such an attention deprived loser.
This is normal. Guys go through the same shit if they're not actively dating in long enough time. A girl will talk to them and be friendly and they can't stop thinking about her for the next few days. As you grow up, you know to try and stop yourself when you catch it happening.
As for guys liking clingy girls, like most stuff it comes down to how attractive you are. But no matter what, guys still want at least some freedom of their own. It's not to date other women or cheat, etc. They literally just need their own time to take care of whatever they need to do.
>>82208201
Get outside more and exercise. Literally all 99.9% of women need to do is exercise.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:00:39 AM No.82210334
>>82210049
losing fat wont fix your shitty bone structure
and i would know
Replies: >>82210344
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:02:12 AM No.82210344
>>82210334
I don't care about that. Being overweight is unhealthy, having a bad bone structure isn't. Yandere gfs are hot by virtue of being yandere gfs. Bone structure matters not.
Replies: >>82211326
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:47:31 AM No.82210685
>>82208160 (OP)
Clingy is insufferable cause any little thing can blow up the relationship you basically imagine problems and ruin everything you touch. I've turned down gazonger booba over 10/10 clingyness it's actually straight embarrassing it's like everybody would find out you're dating a fucking retard having a melty over you acknowledging a double date type shit. Just being honest. Control your thoughts better and structure your need for attention or you'll only get the biggest fucking losers to date. There's always the easy route of singling out the loneliest fag who will let you control his life but everybody will mock you behind your back and see you for the abuser you are.
Replies: >>82210737
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 8:53:41 AM No.82210737
>>82210685
You are right totally, i suppose the ideal would be a balance of extremely clingy while also not being overly annoying about it, like a elegant delicate moderation of both middle ground, but most people are retarded, women doubly so, which makes my premise unrealistic as desirable as it could potentially be
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:06:33 AM No.82210812
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After I fell in love in a dumb discord e-relationship did I realise I have annoying ass attachment issues. I would constantly look at her socials and what she was doing. I would send her good morning and good night texts. I was so clingy. Eventually she started losing interest and I freaked out and ended the relationship. Had to force myself to stop looking her up before I went crazy.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:10:20 AM No.82210844
>>82208160 (OP)
people say they like clingy until they deal with a clingy girl. Because it is exhausting as fuck to deal with. They just want someone that makes them feel important.

Want an obsessed girl this, an obsessed girl that. None of you fucks can handle it. Kill yourselves
Replies: >>82210857 >>82210870
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:11:43 AM No.82210857
>>82210844
Oh I can handle it. Had it before, want it again.
Replies: >>82210865
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:13:23 AM No.82210865
>>82210857
I doubt it

but sure, go find your obsessed foid
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:13:41 AM No.82210870
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>>82210844
Idc if I can't handle it. I'm bored with life and want some drama at this point.
Replies: >>82210896
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:17:40 AM No.82210896
>>82210870
if you're bored go get a loan and gamble it away

the debt lights a fire up your ass
Replies: >>82210944
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:26:30 AM No.82210944
>>82210896
I tried to gamble with small amounts of money and I lost it in embarrassing ways so I never got the confidence to actually gamble for real.

I also have quite a bit of money saved up, I'd like to waste it on a bpdemon for a bit before I go roping.
Replies: >>82210968
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:30:26 AM No.82210968
>>82210944
well at that point you may as well try some drugs before you go

would help with the roping thing as well. Can't do em if you're dead after all
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:42:11 AM No.82211037
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>>82208160 (OP)
being like this as a guy is a fucking nightmare
Replies: >>82211043
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:44:03 AM No.82211043
>>82211037
youre probably better trying to shed that part off from you, if you can, i used to be a clingy simp when i was a little kid but not anymore, now im the opposite
Replies: >>82211108
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:56:09 AM No.82211108
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>>82211043
i need to feel special and wanted....
Replies: >>82211179
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:06:34 AM No.82211143
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>>82208412
>You wouldn't get it, codependency is the only form of love there is, everything else is simply transactional and using each other.
based fellow bpdemon
normalniggers will never understand. they are fine with transactional and temporary "relationships" and "friendships"
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:14:00 AM No.82211179
>>82211108
Well, how old are you if i may ask?
>>82211143
Transactional = codependency = love
Us humans creating CO2 for plants, and them creating O2 for us in a infinite loop feeding each other are all 3 of those things on a bigger scale, thats just what i beleive though.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:47:42 AM No.82211326
>>82210344
Im not even overweight where did you come up with this conclusion that I am
Replies: >>82214757
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 2:27:18 PM No.82212379
>>82208160 (OP)
Get on Discord dating server or something. You probably won't find a sane and stable relationship on a 4chan board lmao, especially one where most people hate women xd
Replies: >>82212563
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 2:38:52 PM No.82212453
>>82208160 (OP)
You got any good qualities OP beyond being potentially female? You properly racist or are you still controlled by societal virtue signaling?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 2:56:22 PM No.82212563
>>82212379
Im not looking for a relationship on 4chan Im venting
Replies: >>82212644 >>82212650
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:08:32 PM No.82212644
>>82212563
Youre teasing you autistic slut
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:09:33 PM No.82212649
>>82208160 (OP)
hey lady i bet you got a mighty fine piece of ass. im not going to beat around the bush, i want to make you a real life business proposal. i want to sleep with you. but i dont like playing the game with women i dont like listening to them and i dont like talking to them but i do like some of the things they do. in business you learn that everyone has their price and i judge yours to be 530 great british pounds. you are a property of which i wish to use, is that so very different from hiring a solicitor or leasing out a spanish villa? so, whats your answer?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:09:41 PM No.82212650
>>82212563
curious why, honestly. people on 4chan aren't exactly normal so we probably have more in common than a random.
Replies: >>82212765
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:29:23 PM No.82212765
>>82212650
because I grew up on the internet , never really went out and a majority of this were all with men online . Im not looking for a relationship on 4chan because majority of men here are 30+ and incels all looking for sex . They could easily larp as well. Ive seen men make the same shitposts tfw no obsessive gf and allat
Replies: >>82212770 >>82212799 >>82212810
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:30:48 PM No.82212770
>>82212765
makes sense, as I'm 35+ lel.
>tfw no obsessive wife
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:36:04 PM No.82212799
>>82212765
> Ive seen men make the same shitposts tfw no obsessive gf and allat
I mean to be fair, it makes sense an obsessive gf is probably very appealing to people with no gf, friends or contact with other people (i.e. an average poster on r9k). Someone who will make up for all the affection they lacked throughout their life.

Though they often don't consider all the other downsides that come with someone being obsessive. Personally, I think it can be fine in moderation (as most things in life) but it's on you how obsessive you are.
Replies: >>82212809 >>82212814
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:37:50 PM No.82212809
>>82212799
there are no real downsides for someone like me, because I'm obsessive too, and always date obsessive girls. I used to spend 23~ hours a day with my gf for 8+ years, working from home.
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:38:07 PM No.82212810
>>82212765
why would you ignore me? youre making me cry :(
Replies: >>82212821
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:38:58 PM No.82212814
>>82212799
Yeah I grew up neglected and never got to feel affection with my parents same with making friends and being in relationships. I skipped all the social qualities in my childhood thats why Im so clingy when people give me a chance
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:40:14 PM No.82212821
>>82212810
I dont need your fake love bombing starts
>>82212809
I did this with my oneitis lasted 6 months then he gave up
Replies: >>82212834 >>82212916
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:42:03 PM No.82212832
>>82208160 (OP)
>ex fucks me up
>meet this lesbo that wants dick
>she falls for me
>start to like her back
>she cucks me with her girlfriend
>I cuck her gf
>she cucks me back
Life sucks anon, never catch feelings
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:42:07 PM No.82212834
>>82212821
was it online only, or in person?

In all my relationships it starts online, but we move in together within a few months
Replies: >>82212845
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:43:27 PM No.82212845
>>82212834
It was online we had plans on meeting since it was more of a situationship than online, we play games and call for several hours every day . He started distancing himself , uni was raping him and he had to cut contact because I was a distraction
Replies: >>82212852 >>82212858
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:44:28 PM No.82212852
>>82212845
>sitauationship than online
I meant friendship not online
Replies: >>82212858
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:44:59 PM No.82212857
>>82212809
That sounds wholesome in a way but probably doesn't apply to most people given their life circumstances etc.

Like I know personally, I'd like someone who was more obsessive than average but I also know that I would probably cause a lot of grief to someone who was that obsessive because I get times when I am low energy and need time away from people
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:45:02 PM No.82212858
>>82212845
>>82212852

fucking hell, that's brutal. sorry nonna, but cutting a girl off for "uni" is an excuse, as school is like 1/3 the hours of a full time job.
Replies: >>82212872
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:47:04 PM No.82212872
>>82212858
Yeah I understood thats why I hate attachment issues . Whilst he was distancing I felt depressed and alone again even though I still had him. It was better to let go
Replies: >>82212885
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:49:09 PM No.82212885
>>82212872
well, good luck nonna. I'm too old to be your fixation, but I can tell you things get better.

then they get worse again. and then maybe they'll get better again? I'll let you know when/if it does.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:50:31 PM No.82212894
>>82208160 (OP)
>I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
I do. I had an egf once, she said she was feeling lonely and I told her she could call me at any time I am awake I would immediately answer but she never tried to show the clinginess she spoke of and eventually I broke up with her for being a whore.
Replies: >>82215979
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:53:17 PM No.82212908
>>82208899
>I need her, I need her so much, I wouldn't ever let her go. I'd tie her onto my bed, carry her on a leash so she'd never be able to escape. God, that sounds beautiful. I'd finally escape all you normies fags and I'd finally have a purpose to live, for her.
dub dubs checked and keked and rekt because I'll never have that
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:55:20 PM No.82212916
>>82212821
im not going to negotiate with you lady
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 3:56:39 PM No.82212925
>>82208160 (OP)
> I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
Most like the idea of them. Someone who will boost their ego by showering them in attention. But then they stop liking it the moment they lose interest or are too busy with someone else and will turn around complaining how their friend/gf is annoying and doesn't know to shut up. It's similar with girls who like guys who are always on the grind or whatever until they get lonely and feel they are not getting enough attention
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 5:10:38 PM No.82213484
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>>82211179
i turn 23 on november
why
Replies: >>82214122
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 6:17:20 PM No.82214122
>>82213484
cant ignore me forever pretty lady
Replies: >>82214313
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 6:36:29 PM No.82214313
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md5: b2a4a89b108de2958adfb6f6cecd74fa🔍
>>82214122
what??? original originally
Replies: >>82216485
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 6:51:21 PM No.82214444
>>82208160 (OP)
All I want is to be clingy too and to feel the same back. I want to live for her, to feel powerless, like I melt all the time around her. I wish I could just spend a lazy sunday with her head in my chest playing with her hair.
I wish I weren't a loser and could find someone like that. Would it even work? Who knows, I hope so. but I wish I could feel that. Does it even last past a "honeymoon"? Who knows, I'm a loser virgin.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:23:08 PM No.82214757
>>82211326
I didn't say you were overweight, you said losing fat won't fix a shitty bone structure so I just addressed both things
Replies: >>82216326
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 7:43:38 PM No.82214948
The last clingy girl I was speaking to ended up cheating on me because I couldn't stay up all night every night talking to her so she found someone else. Being a clingy dude sucks, it's cringe and debilitating. I wanted to stay awake.. but the brutality of life has caught up to me and I must work. Checking my phone constantly, sending her gifts in the mail, writing about her in my journal, etc. All to one bump into the guy (online ofc) she was banging on the side, literally met up with him like a day after we had met up.
Replies: >>82215979
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:25:55 PM No.82215979
>>82212894
Id always answer his messages yet hed take an hour to respond Im just desperate
>>82214948
Someone else gave her the attention she needs then
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:31:16 PM No.82216054
>>82215979
>>82215979
>Id always answer his messages yet hed take an hour to respond Im just desperate
NTA, but that sucks. When I was dating a clingy girl I'd always try to answer within 5 minutes at least. Preferably instantly. I miss it a lot.
Replies: >>82216326
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:55:32 PM No.82216326
>>82214757
you replied to me saying to lose weight and someone else replied to you about bone structure which wasnt me
>>82216054
I litterally dont do anything all day I always replied instantly I miss the same feeling
Replies: >>82216368
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:56:59 PM No.82216340
>>82210042
Im not fat and I wouldnt consider myself ugly but then again objective , you dont sound like a chad yourself so I dont need your input
Replies: >>82216472
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 9:59:13 PM No.82216368
>>82216326
>you replied to me saying to lose weight
But, I didn't! My first post in the chain was >>82210049
which was just a shitpost reply to the other guy, then someone said their bone structure was bad in response and I said that was fine as long as they're healthy and then you said I called you overweight but I don't think I ever even interacted with you prior to that!
Replies: >>82216390
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:00:48 PM No.82216390
>>82216368
Hold on is this Germanic man? Im luna
Replies: >>82216407 >>82216486
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:02:09 PM No.82216407
>>82216390
Nope, you have me confused for someone else again. I'm USAmerican anyway.
Replies: >>82216426
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:03:01 PM No.82216419
>>82208558
this is so real girlie
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:03:17 PM No.82216426
>>82216407
Oh I see you guys have the same mannerism when you speak , apologies for the confusion then
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:04:54 PM No.82216444
>>82216426
Is ok. I'm just here as a yandere appreciating shitposter anyway
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:07:07 PM No.82216472
>>82216340
Were you posting in the "why are you incel" thread the other night? Think I know who you are kek
Replies: >>82216486
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:08:06 PM No.82216485
>>82214313
you know that we were meant to live together until the end of time.
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:08:08 PM No.82216486
>>82216390
>>82216472
Lol I knew it was you!
Replies: >>82216505
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:09:31 PM No.82216505
>>82216486
Wait are you uk man ?
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:10:03 PM No.82216509
>>82216505
Yes it's me I just sent you the thread on discord
Replies: >>82216526
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:10:50 PM No.82216522
>>82216505
How many people does this girl know? Germany, UK, what's next? Brazil?
Replies: >>82216541
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:11:00 PM No.82216526
>>82216509
HII I cant log into discord on my phone since I dont have access to my email Ill be home by Monday though . I was thinking about you
Replies: >>82216559
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:12:05 PM No.82216541
>>82216522
Me and him just recently started talking apart from him and my situationship who ive mentioned I dont know anyone else here..
Replies: >>82216565
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:13:40 PM No.82216559
>>82216526
I'll reply to this there - looking forward to it
Replies: >>82216582
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:14:07 PM No.82216565
>>82216541
Two is two too many to have me love you true
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:15:26 PM No.82216582
>>82216559
Thats good then , I have no clue what email I used so I have to log in onto my laptop when I get home. London is really shit and boring . Howve you been?
Replies: >>82216606 >>82216638
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:17:38 PM No.82216606
>>82216582
No worries, and sorry to hear, shit and boring down this end of the city too. Took my mum out Saturday and have been bedrotting since, checking discord often lol. Whens your bus?
Replies: >>82216638 >>82216645
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:19:45 PM No.82216638
>>82216582
>>82216606
Further to
> I thought men liked girls who were clingy?
Absolutely we do
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:20:17 PM No.82216645
>>82216606
Tomorrow at 6pm itll take me 2 hours to come home. I really wanted to message you and I was planning on making a thread to communicate with you but I wasnt sure if youd read it or not lel. Im glad you met your mum this weekend , was she okay? Im not excited to see mine..
Replies: >>82216678
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:24:09 PM No.82216678
>>82216645
I will be by my discord at 8pm & beyond then. I've not been browsing r9k much today but saw the OP & had an immediate flash of recognition, the 40% attendance/vit d deficiency confirmed it for me.
Mum was same as, this time her voices told her that she should hate me and for me to leave. Normal for her though
>Im not excited to see mine
I would think not, hope you can excuse yourself quick and avoid any prolonged interaction with her. Will be around if you need to talk
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:27:10 PM No.82216711
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>>82216678
Ouch thats not good. I decided to go to central and my mum was talking about how she hopes I get stabbed otp lol . London isnt really all that imo. I havent been eating much either since I think I have a stomach bug with the constant throwing up Ill probably need to get that checked out when I get home
Replies: >>82216747
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:30:57 PM No.82216747
>>82216711
Aw man I'll send you my number - if theres a next time, I totally wouldve got a train to meet you. Did you go solo?
>mum was talking about how she hopes I get stabbed otp lol
Evil bitch. Unbelievable. May she reap what she sows. I did wonder whether you had been eating and how your stomach was, glad youre getting it seen to. Please do see a GP, or at least call 111!
Replies: >>82216784
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:34:53 PM No.82216784
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>>82216747
that would be lovely we could also have a joint together heh. I did solo travel but since Im with family it wasnt as issue , if I had no family here I wouldntve been allowed to go which wouldve been a blessing in disguises since I miss my bed . The gps here are SHITE too many niggers and long hours of waiting I rarely ever go to get a checkup. I think I have a uti as well from being dehydrated..
Replies: >>82216855
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:41:17 PM No.82216855
>>82216784
Know exactly where this is. Gutted I didnt know to come. Next time I'll be there sharp.
I'd miss it too in your shoes, not long now. Have your London family been alright?
Lol yes they love the novelty of free healthcare, so they go as often as they can for the most minor of ailments. Its ridiculous. Fingers crossed, tell them youre vomiting blood or something, call 111 and embelish. Gotta get whats yours
Drink some cranberry juice, anything, I dont know how you are even functional. If Id seen you today Id be sticking drinks in your face constantly, bless you
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Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:49:31 PM No.82216948
>>82216855
Im not close with my senpai here since I rarely see them and the beef with my mother. Thats all theyre talking about with me really she split our family up but they didnt mean much to me to begin with. I think I was at queens walk I crossed the London Bridge went around Big Ben and the London eye then took the bus home. I havent drank much water here either since theyre all bottled I just hate drinking from plastic bottles consistenty . My family has a water filter but the water here tastes yucky
Replies: >>82216953 >>82217023 >>82217053
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:50:33 PM No.82216953
>>82216948
>senpai
I dont know why it autocorrected to that I meant family o_O
Replies: >>82216977
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:52:41 PM No.82216977
>>82216953
GET OUT NEWFAG GET OUT REEEEEE fucking tourists on my board REEEEE
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 10:57:02 PM No.82217023
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>>82216948
I remember, shes been alienated from her siblings for seven years right? Hope its been stress free at the very least.
Miss night walking around London, did loads of it in my early twenties but after all the nigger nonsense I packed it in. Theres a beauty to it, even if its a nigged shithole.
Yes fuck plastic, I am the same!! Filter all my water - pic related. Just get home safe without collapsing or something, dear me... Excited for you to be back on disc, we should call again when its convenient
Replies: >>82217070
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:00:15 PM No.82217053
>>82216948
wait, are you the artist girl who went to japan and does tattoo stuff?
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:01:38 PM No.82217070
>>82217023
Yup she spoke bad about my aunt with als and it caused a huge ordeal and split my family into two sides with my grandmother and uncles staying in contact with my mother .
>miss night walking
Yeah I was scared my phone would get snatched its not the safest now unfortunately because of niggers. I cant wait until its winter though and gets dark by 4. Id be happy to call again and play geo/ethnoguesser it was fun :)
Replies: >>82217140
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:08:06 PM No.82217140
>>82217070
I remember, such stupid drama. You'll find your freedom.
Yeah I think this last week will be the end of summer, only colder and darker from here on out.
>Id be happy to call again and play geo/ethnoguesser it was fun :)
Wonderful, lets. How often do you have to make this trip to see the family btw?
Replies: >>82217181
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:11:46 PM No.82217181
>>82217140
Just once hopefully. Theyve never asked me to do them favours involving travelling up until now . I plan on sleeping soon , what about you?
Replies: >>82217214
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:14:09 PM No.82217214
>>82217181
I know you miss bed, but that's disappointing. Id very much like to meet you.
I'm up at 0630 so bed in the next fifteen, hope you sleep well. Will be waiting impatiently for 8pm tomorrow
Replies: >>82217285
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:20:27 PM No.82217285
>>82217214
Alright then goodnight , sweet dreams, I'll message you as soon as I can ^^
Replies: >>82217318 >>82217373
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:22:36 PM No.82217318
>>82217285
Goodnight I'm stroking my cock to the thought of receiving your messages once again
Replies: >>82217373
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:27:10 PM No.82217373
>>82217285
Lovely
>>82217318
This is not me lmao last post I'll make in this thread
Replies: >>82217473
Anonymous
8/17/2025, 11:35:20 PM No.82217473
>>82217373
Actually last post this time, I forgot to tell you I turned gay and now only like men, goodbye.