>>82209730 (OP)
I learned way back in the YIM days that it is absolutely pointless and sexually frustrating if they are not in my city and I cannot fuck them.
In my early 20s, before I lost my V-tag to an escort, I had a middle aged woman with a rape kink claim she was going to fly over 4,600 miles to fuck me for at least a week, and she pussied out and ghosted me. We had cammed a bunch and I got to see her tits. She'd get so wet down there that she had to sit on towels. There were a few foids that I talked a good game with, and it was depressing to think how I could theoretically be great at sex, and getting into women's heads to turn them on; and yet 18 years later, I have still never had an unpaid fuck. How ironic. Kill me.
Then fuck apps and social media made it impossible for non-Chads to get any convos or fucks with local women. Even old women won't fuck me.