Thread 82210881

>be me, incel
>decide in 2015 to lifemax instead of lay down and rot
>now im a doctor
>still incel
The most blackpilling thing in my life was that women still weren't interested in me even after graduating medical school.

Doesn't matter, discreetly tie their tubes during other procedures

>>82210881 (OP)
You're a doctor and an incel? We're cooked lmao

>>82211006
I'm cooked. All the "incels" of my generation eventually got gfs, the same will happen with you zoomers. 95% of you wont be here in a decade

>>82210881 (OP)
You can be Dr. House, blackpilled and vicodinmaxxed

>>82211084
I'm not smart enough, I'm gonna go into pathology and just look at slides all day.

>>82210881 (OP)
could always do what i did.
realised that no matter what i do in life im always gonna be the same. now i freelance the bare minimum and make like 800 per month, just enough to live with flatmates and buy a game every once in a while. gives me infinitely more free time to do what i want, and when money is low i just log on and do one or two extra pieces of content or edit a short video for some cash.

>>82211025
what if I already been here for a decade?

>>82211091
the you and I are kin

>>82211088
At least the work you do actually matters though

>>82210881 (OP)
Sigh, ill fuck and marry you. I want six kids though

>>82211025
wrong, I'm a zoomer and I've been here a decade

2015 - 2025
13 - 23

>>82211089
Aren't you terribly bored? Once you hit a certain age this kinda shit just sucks and you're left constantly longing for more. At least if you're a fulltime wagie you have less time to reflect on how lame your life is.

>>82211153
nta but the system created this problem so why would i contribute to it?

the only things that would make me happy are being loved by another human being, or perhaps just being a woman which is a role I'd probably be a lot more suited for

>>82211107
Where do you live? If you live far away you need to move to me.

>>82211161
I'm just saying that sitting around all day eventually gets extremely boring. Unless that anon is incorporating drugs into the mix then idk how he can stand to live like that past his early 20s, cause I tried and felt nearly constant anxiety about missing out on shit. Now I'm a fulltime wagie and at least have friends I hang out with, still no gf tho.

>>82211141
you'll be fine then

>>82211185
I live in kansas. And no. My job is making me 6 figures where the medium is 30k

Yep. When i started high school in 2016 i decided i've had enough of being a bullied scrawny lanky kid and started spending all my time bettering myself. Started lifting, kickboxing, taking violin and music theory practice seriously, studying and going to comptitions in STEM subjects. Now i graduated a master's in mathematics and will start my doctorate in 2 months, working at the institute, in a professional choir that tpurs all over the world, have a 4-0 amateur record, bench 130 kilo and have a sixpack...
And still a friendless khhv incel like i was 9 years ago. I just don't understand human relationships, i'm not ugly, i'm very tall, even extroverted, always the first to approach, first to organise a get-together, give speeches at events etc. Yet people completely avoid me. And on top of that i have possivle the worst luck in the world. When i entered uni was during the height of covid so there were no student clubs or activities. Since i finished music school, i revived the university choir. Handed out pamphlets, found a conductor, everything... And like 10 people came, 3 of which were women, 2 of which were 50+ professors. Eventually a few more joined, and i tried to make friends. But nobody wanted to hang out with me oitside of choir. 2 years ago i left to try out for the big symphonic professional choir i'm in now, and INSTANTLY like 10 single women my age joined the student choir. Same thing happened in all of my other hobbies. Never met any women, just guys.

>>82211222
>And no.
Yeah that's what I thought.

>>82211269
What i thought? Bitch move to me.

>>82210881 (OP)
Your story is fake but even if it wasn't, it just shows that being an incel is all in your head, therefore I diagnose you being a retarded faggot.

You're doing better than 90+% of other males you stupid piece of shit, literally go find a nice wife instead of being a retarded mentalcel.

>>82211279
America doesn't let foreigners go into their medical system without jumping a lot of hoops. I'll pass.

>>82211259
Another retarded faggot mentalcel, you have the genetics and money yet you still have no gf. In your position you can either get laid like a manwhore degenerate or find a girl that is wife material (extremely rare to find in 2025) now that you have the money to buy a house and raise a family. All of you mentalcel niggers use autism as an excuse but I call bullshit, if you can be doctors and matheticians then surely you must be smart enough to figure out how to get pussy you stupid faggot niggers.

>>82211259
Unless you're lying and actually do have sex, then it could be one of 3 things:
>You're extremely ugly and in denial
>You're extroverted, but in an annoying/autistic way
>Best case: People find you intimidating cause you're tall and presumably quite built, as well as extroverted
I would say post your face so we can tell you the truth, but I'm gonna bet that you're probably a 4 or 5, so there's no point. Anyway, just go on tinder or bumble and be sure to put your height in the bio, and this will at least give some sorta clarity on whether or not women just find you intimidating to approach.

>>82211290
What country are you in? Also I'd assume that the hoops are worth jumping through since American doctors get a ton of money and respect. If a bunch of Indian doctors can jump through these hoops, so can you.

>>82211304
>What country are you in?
New Zealand

>>82211328
Alright, so a doctor in New Zealand can't get pussy? You must be insanely ugly for this to be the case.

>>82211341
>You must be insanely ugly for this to be the case.
Yes, I am.

>>82210881 (OP)
Same, but in 2018 and ended up an engineer. Didn't even take that much effort as I'm high IQ.
Thing is, now that I have money and can afford most of what I'd want, I no longer care about not having a gf. In fact, I have started to see advantages to not having a gf, mainly the fact that I'm quickly becoming rich and opening up the possibility of retiring early. And that's mostly because life without a woman is very cheap.

>>82211354
I get how freeing it has to have a lot of money, but the same time I think about how I'd be able to afford a mortgage in half as much time if I had a wife and she had a good job.

>>82211364
I don't want a mortgage. I see them as a scam, considering what I hear from my normie coworkers.
I get along well with my folks so I'll just live with them until they die and I inherit everything they have. That's a big part of my early retirement plan. I'd basically be forced to work until my 60s or more if I got a mortgage. Instead of saving and investing 70% of what I make, I'd be living nearly paycheck-to-paycheck and giving the bank twice what I took. It's a scam and if you're ok living with your parents, you definitely should.

>>82211299
You can't "figure out" how to get women, that's the entire point and what's throwing me off. There is no algorithm to getting women. Fat guys, fit guys, tall, short, ugly, smelly, unwashed guys all get girlfriends. If i was fat, ugly, deformed, short, etc it would be easy. I would just tell myself "oh i just fix that and i'm good". But ive spent a decade improving myself, patching up all the percieved weaknesses, and at this point i don't get WHY people reject me.
>>82211300
Yes ive spent a lot of time introspecting why people avoid me. I'm not ugly, have clear skin, strong jaw, thick ass neck from martial arts, deep set eyes, 195cm tall, get called handsome by women my age (who have boyfriends). But i also get told often i'm "scary" or "intimidating" because my neutral face is basically a scowl. And i never tried nor will ever try dating apps, i don't want hookups, i want a wife and kids and i'm Catholic.

>>82211387
>and at this point i don't get WHY people reject me.
Have you tried asking them?

>>82211387
Ok if you're such a megachad why don't you just approach a 7/10 girl? Or better yet, ask these women who are calling you handsome to set you up with one of their friends or something. If the friend turns out to be ugly/fat/whore then it's not big deal, you can just not go on a second date.
If everything you're saying is the whole truth, then you are 100% a mentalcel and should stop crying about it online cause you know exactly what you need to do to get a gf.

>>82210881 (OP)
And shit like that is why I'm glad I LDAR'd.
Not that I had much of a choice, as an autist in today's hellish economy.
There is literally no point to life without having willing pussy. Not that we could ever keep it or trust it.

>>82211407
It's nice having a rewarding job and good money. I'm glad I did it and I'm glad my parents at least think highly of me, even if it doesn't help me get a gf.

>>82211402
1) I am afraid of women i find attractive and cannot speak to them. Like my mouth won't open. I have an 8/10 girl at uni who goes to the cafeteria with me, follows me around during every break etc. but i think she is just being friendly, though, and we never meet outside of uni (not that i ever asked) so i don't consider us friends. If i'm not 100% sure i will not approach. And i think you should be good friends with a woman before asking her out anyways.
2) i actually tried the "set me up with someone then" multiple times, but so far it hasn't bore fruit, they usually just laugh it off or think i'm joking and i'm too much of a pussy to pry into it further.

>>82211437
Well good for you, I suppose.
Fortunately, my parents already thought highly of me without all that.

>>82211446
>I have an 8/10 girl at uni who goes to the cafeteria with me, follows me around during every break etc. but i think she is just being friendly, though
Alright, stopped reading here, you're doing that obnoxious fake-clueless shit that all chad-lite """incels""" do, cause I guess you can't help but brag even when trying to pretend you don't understand why you aren't getting laid.
>hurr durr I'm a 6'2 ripped guy who has had multiple women tell me I'm handsome and an 8/10 girl orbits me constantly, but I can't get pussy :((((

>>82211470
Well yeah it does not matter if once every 6 years a woman approaches me if i'm a fucking spaz retard who can't flirt or speak to women in a romantic way and they lose interest and thrn start ignoring me like the other 99% of people. How the fuck am i supposed to flirt or woo a woman if i can't even get the fat neckbeard nerd guy from my topology class to talk to me? You're asking me to do a frontflip when all i can do is walk like a toddler. Stop being a nitpicky purist. Just because i self improved for a decade does not mean that mentally i am still that incel loser skeleton guy i was 10 years ago.

You not a doctor.
What a doctor doing on 4chan?

>>82211470
I am sort if like him, just not ripped. He is a social retard or very risk-averse individual. I am the same. Unless a woman comes to me and goes "I want to fuck you", I just can't bring myself to do anything. No amount of staring, touching or nice gestures is enough, because I have read about plenty of guys online who assumed these are love signals and got rejected. The women were simply being nice to them or something happened when they approached that gave the woman the ick. But unlike him, I know this is why I'm khhv and I have made peace with it. I have nothing in common with most women so I actually like my life as it is.

>>82211504
I was a loser on 4chan before I was a doctor. I'm still a loser on 4chan.

>>82211506
Yes. I need a woman to expressly go "I LIKE YOU, ASK ME OUT", anything less than that is just rationalised away as being nice. Leaning over my desk and pushing her tits out? She probably doesn't realise she's doing it. "wow you are really muscular, your shoulders are so wide". My response? "haha you sound like my grandma". I eventually always realise that she was obviously flirting, but it's always months, years after the fact. Ive tried numerous times to psyche myself up, mentally prepare myself "youre gonna go and ask that girl out" etc. No, nothing happens. I cannot fucking do it. I rather get kicked in the head 3 times a week instead of approaching a woman that obviously likes me. It's like i'm trapped in a body that refuses to approach women, say the words i want to say. The body changed, the brain stayed the brain of an incel.
>>82211521
This.

>>82211544
Yea, it's kind of like that. I've had women tell me "I want the D from the " and rub their boobs against my arm while giving me some weird stare as I was operating the computer in front of them.
But thing is, the woman who told me she wants the D was also courting two other tall dudes. And the one rubbing her boobs against my arm actually had a bf that she kept complaining about. Both of these women were obviously whores who pursued multiple men or flirted with dudes while in a relationship. None of them would've ended up being good partners and I'd have ended up constantly stressed about them flirting with other men behind my back.
I also see married women at my workplace flirting with guys younger/fitter/taller than their husbands.
So the problem we have is that the women who are likely to be very obvious about liking us are also whores who will be likely to cheat on us if we end up dating them. The more subtle women who are more likely to be loyal require to be approached, which we can't do.
So it's better to just stop caring, like I have. I got money, hobbies, friends, parents and I'm healthy. My life is objectively good and I don't need a woman to "improve" it.

>>82211521
You make good money, work with nurses on a daily basis and still get no ass? Doubt

>>82211577
Yeah I didn't believe it either.
Nurses here are all married ladies though.

>>82211259
Same almost
I started gym and sports 6 years ago
Studied and worked as a pt
Played guitar and piano and produced songs on fl studio
Bought a 50k car and invested 160k
Spent 1200 for image counseling and dress armani
Bench 150kg at 8 percent body fat and got all cali skills exept planche
Traveled alone for work even abroad and got lots of friends at least
Still 29 khhv
Body pic rel8

>>82211141
nobody gets laid at 13 genius

>>82211222
>kansas
just move bro
I'd rather be foreveralone than date a girl from kanasas

>>82211709
Cant you just get an escort and stop being khv?

>>82211387
>You can't "figure out" how to get women, that's the entire point and what's throwing me off.
It's called "game" for a reason you dumb fucking incel faggot. Want to get better at getting bitches? Start practicing like you would do at any other game, start practicing by talking to whores at the club and then learning from your failures and thus evenetually acquiring the skill of getting laid.
>I don't want whores I just want a gf
Okay? Just don't be an asshole and be yourself then.
>Be yourself wtf does thst mean?
It means be genuine, don't put on a fake persona, as a matter of fscr you only put on a fake persona if necessary to get bitches, not for finding a future wife.

Stop making bullshit excuses and get some pussy you stupid faggot.

>>82212283
>Be yourself.
>No not like that!
Every single time.

>>82212283
>be yourself
>but also lie and learn game and manipulate others
Which is it fucktard

>>82212193
Yea but i wanna be loved
I wanna go out and travel with my gf and make romantic love with her

That's pretty sad. I hear that nurses are sluts with doctors due to the authority dynamics too.

sir Im a phd in computer science and literature and Im still a khhv. 99,9% of the modern women have social media deluded standards so your education doesnt really impress them anymore unless youre a crypto multibillionare or make 8 figures on reselling labubus and dealing dubai chocolate or something