Thread 82211383

>"I don't know how to talk to girls!"
Literally just talk to them like you do with everyone else. I never really understood this, I talk to my sister, I talk to my mother, I talk to women. It really isn't any different than talking to a man

>>82211383 (OP)
>like you do with everyone else
Presumptuous of you to assume I talk to people

>>82211396
Its still doesn't make sense. Sure if you have bad social skills with everyone, that includes women. But saying you can't talk to women, and solely women, is so baffling.

>>82211383 (OP)
What am I supposed to talk about with women? I'll try to make small talk with women and ask them if they've seen or played X and then they just say no and that's it. They also never put any effort into talking to me. Which is fair. But I can't exactly talk to women if they don't want to talk to me.

>>82211413
Honestly I think when most people say that what they really mean is they don't know how to flirt and move conversations towards romantic/sexual territory.

>>82211383 (OP)
I haven't interacted with many women in my life, but what I've noticed is that most of them have nothing interesting in their minds. They are all ultra normies who can only do small talk. As soon as you try to talk something more complex with them, their brains just switch off and they lose interest. Try talking about computer hardware, movie scenes or even politics with a woman. At best she'll just give yes/no answers and try to fake interest out of politeness. At worse, they'll ignore you and change the subject to something simple like food or where they want to go on vacation.

>>82211383 (OP)
Shit advice. No Latina girl would fall for that. I'm a latino

>>82211383 (OP)
If I talk to women the way I talk to men they stop speaking with me.
>>82211863
Also this, truth.

>>82211383 (OP)
Where? About what? For what reason?

>>82211383 (OP)
I have talked to a girl before when I was working in a warehouse.
I feel like when I talk to people my self gets sanitized.
I don't think I want this.

My problem is that I don't really know how to have a conversation with anybody. My mind is kinda broken and doesn't come up with anything to say. Like the creativity needed for talking just isn't there.

>>82211383 (OP)
yeah and who talks to random men in the street?

>>82211383 (OP)
If they are attracted to you, sure. If not, she will just give dry responses, etc to get you to go away, basically making a conversation impossible. If she doesn't want to talk to you it doesn't matter. Ive worked in sales and it literally feels exactly the same as trying to sell to somebody who isn't interested. Short, dry answers to any question. Not asking any questions or contributing to the convo at all. Never making eye contact. It doesn't matter how friendly or amicable you are, if she doesn't want to talk to you its never gonna work.