Thread 82217004

get in here my fellow fossils.

QOTT: Would you settle for a "mid" (as the youth say) partner if she was otherwise your personality ideal?

l suppose so

You say "settle" when that is probably the best one can hope for

>>82217004 (OP)
Turned 32 yesterday and my son bought me a potato for my birthday

>>82217004 (OP)
i'm 33 and i am fairly certain women don't consider me human. i would think it was a prank if any woman not related to me showed any sort of even small kindness towards me outside of an obligation like a retail job, it has yet to happen and i doubt it ever will. i have never been more convinced at this age than ever before that i will just drift through like alone and miserable. all i can do is keep what health i have left and practice daily exercise and have a good diet and good hygiene. none of those things will ever make me appeal to women because i'm ugly and broke but i can at least treat my body with respect as i slowly wither up into a lonely old man as the years continue to pile on. it's all i have. that and escapist media.

>>82217126
I personally don't find it settling at all. Even if she's not a model having someone that is basically your best friend who also loves you intimately sounds amazing. Just curious on the general consensus. The only maybe downside is if you go significantly uglier than yourself you might doom your future offspring to loneliness

>>82217324
>drift through like alone
life*

>>82217324
i will say that women completely ignored me until i found my partner. it just takes one

>>82217154
good lad

>>82217527
>it just takes one
empty platitudes won't help. especially not at this age where the vast majority of women are in longterm serious relationships, married, have kids, or saddled with too much baggage to trust men. if you are single at this age as a man and you don't like or want kids it is genuinely hopeless. it's like telling someone to keep playing the lottery. sure they might win one day but the odds or so stacked against you it's better to just not play a rigged game.

>>82217581
Maybe you live in a more hopeless area than I. Women tend to drop standards in late 20s / early 30s and things get easier for most dudes that have remained in good shape / good career

>>82217597
being healthy or fit doesn't really matter when you're broke and ugly. i think far more out of shape guys with good careers have more luck with women at this age. i'm fucking retarded and disabled and hate socializing so i will probably always be below the poverty line and women don't want to be the breadwinners or be seen with men society deems virgin outcast fuckups. i never found my people, i never found a place to be accepted and feel natural socializing. up to this point just constant fucking anxiety and self hate and never feeling comfortable around anyone. i always knew it was gonna end up like this anyways. too cowardly to drink myself to death or od on drugs or commit suicide any other way. i'll just exist alone as a drain on society as a pointless man without a purpose or goal.

is it bad to date a 19 year old i'm talking to one and she is wonderful

>>82217656
i agree with you there i guess. it's gonna be hard if you are broke, jobless, antisocial, ugly. but if you aren't trying at all i'm not really sure why you bother complaining. what are you expecting exactly

>>82217004 (OP)
Of course I would "settle", I'm mid myself, so we would match quite well. Compatibility is important in a relationship after all.

>>82217708
if i had anything to offer in a relationship i would make an effort but everything about me is average or below and i'm not intelligent or artistic or talented. so i could work until i sweat blood and tears but that's not going to magically turn me into the type of man that women are attracted to. it would turn me into a meal ticket for some single mother and her kid or kids, but no woman will ever love me or be attracted to me so why bother.

>>82217686
not intrinsically, but in this era you need to be careful. even if you do end up getting together her friends will fill her with doubt and shame you.

I'm scrolling through this thread reading every posts with the deep, raspy voices of mature adults (every other thread is airy gay voice). But I'm 35 and ostensibly one of you

>>82217686
if it's not about getting your dick wet it's fine
treat her right, anon, and remember she's immature and hasn't learned some lessons

>>82217686
I feel like it would be weird as fuck if you were expected to go and hang out with her friends or something.

what a dumb question, who wouldn't take that deal. unless literally all you care about is looks

I'm going to post this anyway for 30+ folks because I can (Arousing image to grab attention)
.gg/boomers

Where do 30+ anons go? Are there any 30+ websites?

Don't tell me we turn into facebook boomers.

>>82217004 (OP)
I'm 29 and I'm still only dating girls aged minimum legal age up to 21.
fuck hags, fuck Christmas cakes, fuck used up whores, fuck jaded divorcees
simple as

>>82219633
you're expired, hags are the only ones who want you. get used to it dude

starting to get out of bed rotting tier depression, playing games again and chilling
soda and caffeine really helps a lot with energy and mood

>>82217004 (OP)
Absolutely. Rather a mid woman that will be my life partner than a model who will stay with me for 10 wonderful years and then ruin me.

>>82217004 (OP)
I would settle for a hell goblin if she was actually Perfect personality wise because my standards on that front are unbelievably impossible and all women look alright face down ass up. My current gf is ok personality wise but only like 70%ish perfect, easily above average, but she's an easy 9+/10 for my tastes on a physical basis. Not bad but that 30% personality mismatch gets me sometimes, makes me question if it's all worth it.

>>82217004 (OP)
beats me. how I think I would respond and how I would respond are often two different things and I'll never get the chance to find out how I would respond to any form of positive attention from a woman that is not geared towards extracting money from me
>>82217154
lol based happy bday
>>82219473
idk I'm going for a bike ride before the damn sun sets

Please god kill me I hate being brown and single over 30

>>82217686
Forget that. Is it bad to fuck my 68 year old neighbor

>>82218384
still around?

>>82217004 (OP)
>personality ideal?
Growing old is realizing that foids cannot into personality ideal and settling means dealing with rotted hellspawn personality or only doing casual hookups or sex with ur hand.

>>82218384
I smoke cigarettes also so you can keep that in mind.

>>82219473
I'm on Kiwi Farms a lot these days. Discussion on most of my interests is slow though. At least it lets me say the words I want to say.
>>82217004 (OP)
I'm pretty content being alone at this point. It gets lonely sometimes but I'm usually okay. I assume it gets worse.

>>82220123
She'll still ruin you for 10 wonderful years

>>82217686
not if you treat her well
>>82220345
nah but watch out for stds, boomers are notorious bug spreaders even in their old age

Alone till I die almost everyone I met either dislikes me or thinks I'm a weirdo so I neeted till I suicide. Plus I'm not really into that type of stuff.

>>82217004 (OP)
>QOTT: Would you settle for a "mid" (as the youth say) partner if she was otherwise your personality ideal?
Of course. As a life-long incel that's pushing 40, all I want is a willing fuck partner who likes to chill at home, and not endlessly go out for all that expensive social crap. Sadly, I can never find such a woman. Not even an old one who'd just be happy for some cock.

>>82221129
ye bc ur cock is a smelly lil thing

>>82221159
Wrong, but whatever.
Sadly, fuck apps have even made old foids think that their shit doesn't stink.
They match and say nothing, or pussy out of having sex after they claim interest.

>>82221182
they think that but they still post

Am I getting old or are women dressing too slutty nowdays?

>>82222131
they like dressing slutty

>>82222155
It's more than that though, they are dressing slutty in settings that are completely inappropriate. Take
https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1755437588938234.webm
for example.

>>82217004 (OP)
I don't think I've settled, I have my personality ideal
literally her only flaw is she's on SSRIs&contraception and it's very difficult for her to cum

>>82219473
>Where do 30+ anons go
offline. Too many things to do, not enough time
>gym for strength & also running
>Social events +/ relationship stuff
>Work
>Self care/home care

>>82219473
>Where do 30+ anons go?
Tired of 20+ anons coping and lamenting. They have not yet learned that nothing ever happens.

>>82219473
I just shitpost here, and check R*ddit for celeb tits.

>>82222131
too slutty. it's like red light districts or strip clubs anymore
>at a cafe
>hammering away at werk
>look up
>some slut is standing right in front of me wearing "yoga pants" so tight I could just about make out her clit
>wearing barely anything up top
what made it worse is that she was probably underage

>>82217004 (OP)
>QOTT: Would you settle for a "mid" (as the youth say) partner if she was otherwise your personality ideal?
Yes.
But not if she's old. I want to have kids.

>>82217004 (OP)
I'm really not picky about looks. Personality means way more to me.

>>82222311
Good sets there

>turning 31 next week
>never ever had a gf
>In addition to that, this year wasn't that kind to me
Bros...

>>82217004 (OP)
>QOTT: Would you settle for a "mid" (as the youth say) partner if she was otherwise your personality ideal?
Yes?? like what kind of question is this?

>>82217330
>basically your best friend who also loves you intimately sounds amazing
isn't that also just a pipe dream? as in many people might get together but not be perfect for each other like that.
either way i won't have it. i just think it's too late. i think these strong connections can only be made by people who go through growth periods in their youth together.

How are you supposed to "go out there" if you've been a shutin for more than a decade? How are you supposed to be able to talk to normies? People at work find me weird

>>82217004 (OP)
Nah I already had the best two women I will ever get and now I am rotting until I get the courage to end it t b h

>>82223504
Are you bypassing the word filter you little shit

>>82223516
No it was an accident desu ;)

Is it hard to drive?

>>82217004 (OP)
32

fuck settling i spent my entire 20s alone im used to it and enjoy my company enough

everyone who has someone to love will one day bear the pain of losing them and it's not a fun experience

>>82217004 (OP)
relationships are extremely annoying. the only reason i would get into one is if my gf didnt make me feel like that, so yes of course

if one were to burn coal inside an enclosed space (like a bathroom properly sealed with towels and whatnot), a sleeping pill or two with enough alcohol, will they go out quickly? asking for a friend

who needs a job here?

Life is pretty bad, I'm starting to daydream more and more. Haven't done that since the Bad Times(tm). I just want life to not be so awful and keep fantasizing about someone or something saving me before I pull the trigger. Finding a magical pill to cure all my problems. Winning the lottery to buy my way out of the hole I'm in. Becoming a person I actually like and someone others can be proud of.