>>82224538 (OP)
The ugly ones try harder that's all there is to it.
I have a successful relationship with my loving white guy. I am financially responsible and well read. I was behind the curve and lurked here for half a decade. Because of being a late bloomer I put much more effort into relationships. I treat relationships like any subject matter and study how to foster a healthy one.
My partner cherishes and spoils me, supports my dreams, takes care of me and treats me extremely well. I became more beautiful as a result, and got plastic surgery. On my beauty trips I met quite a lot of those pale skinned Asian beauties, and they are NEUROTIC. they're the types where 500k a year isn't enough. They're the types where if a man talks back to her when she berates him she feels entitled to cheat. They will have 5 boyfriends in the span of 7 years. They've always been beautiful so they expect the world to be handed to them. I spent the first 25 years of my life ugly and at the bottom of the totem pole.
I used to think I could help other women have healthy and successful relationships but it turns out you just invite jealousy in most women when they hear how well you're treated, except for my best friend who also grew up kind of masculine and is white (So I think the principles of healthy relationships work for all races) being a responsible and emotionally mature partner is much more attractive than a superficial beauty. Everytime those beautiful girls mess up, they think they just need to lose weight or get more surgery. If we mess up, we apologize and make it up to him.
