Thread 82224827

I joined a dating discord for an hour and had the most miserable experience.

>>82224827 (OP)
>Online dating
Talking to women irl is the only option why do men STILL not get this? White knuckle with rage at the absolute state of my own gender. Invest in CHR. TALK TO WOMEN.

>>82224838
This is only a viable strat if you are attractive, tho. What you need is for "third places" to be reestablished in society that allows the sexes to intermingle in a non-threatening social environment that would naturally lead to repeated interaction with the same people over and over which is where relationships naturally arise from

>>82224857
>This is only a viable strat if you are attractive, tho
I'm well aware of the death of the third place. I was woke about societal issues before you first started lusting after foids. I know about bowling alone. Regardless, you'll see plenty of low-tier men outside who still have partners. Like god damn dude, look at how many fat men have girlfriends. The true purpose of online dating is for 35+ year old people to find spouses after over-delaying their romantic pursuits. This new age idea of young people using it is useless because it results in 1% hookups 1% shit relationships and 98% failure. TALK TO WOMEN. Anywhere and everywhere you can. If you want someone particularly like minded then find one at uni or in the same career field. Women who aren't gutter trash have degrees and decent paying jobs in 2025. If you aren't in that circle then you're excluded by default. I work in a hospital and that's where I met my woman.

>>82224898
Everyone in my workplace is either under or above me. :(

>>82224857
Wdym third places?

>>82224912
the bronzelands

>>82224912
Places that people go to exist in public during their free time without the expectation of privacy. Places you go specifically to be social like coffee houses and pubs.

>>82224907
FIND A WAY. NEVER ADMIT DEFEAT. RAIL AGAINST THE MACHINE!!! EAT WOMEN BECOME EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT ENTER THEIR MINDS AND FUCK THEM!!!
>>82224912
>He doesn't know
It's the place that isn't your house and isn't your workplace.

>>82224912
Clubs, downtown areas (free from nogs and homeless), public pools, parks, etc.

Areas that arent your house (first place) or your work (second place). The closest we get as a society is schools but that ends when you're 21

>>82224931
Im actually going with the strat of aquiring resources until I have enough land to bag a 19 year old fundie and start absolutely CRANKING out babies.

>>82224827 (OP)
Tell us about those dating discords. I always wondered what those are like. They look like they'd be the weirdest sausage fests imaginable.

>>82224898
where do i meet my chinaboo white gf

>>82224838
Every woman my age ive met in the past 5 years has already had a boyfriend. It's like i'm living in some twilight zone episode. Part time jobs, hobbies, gyms, libraries. I meet a girl, talk to her cause i'm not autistic, think "holy shit i'm doing it" then BAM she drops the "my boyfriend and i..." FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK. WHY DOES EVERY NON OBESE WOMAN ABOVE 17 HAVE A BOYFRIEND SHE LIVES WITH WTF IS THIS. And its never just some short term thing, no, it's always "my boyfriend that i met in freshman year of hig hschool and live with and have been with for 4 years" FUCK YOU

>>82224961
an anon made a thread about it the other day saying how bad the one he joined was. i got the addy for it and joined. it was actually comfy but every ignored me, so i just kept forcing myself to contribute and addressed people i thought would reply
but anyway, you fill out a bunch of info about yourself that gets tagged, and then you just msg a relevant sever when you want people to DM you. i don't think the main chat lounge is 'the point', and i'm a loungecunt tout court, no much for dms

>>82224988
That's basically any discord you join though. A bunch of cliques that only interact with each other and are impossible to break into.

>>82225001
And it feels like the cliques are always annoying weirdos too. Then again ig theyre comprised of the people that stuck around to deal with that for 1-2+ years until they got absorbed by one.

The only women you can find on discord are bpd femcels that are collecting orbiters. they switch over to tinder when they actually want to fuck.

>>82224948
How gross. Find someone you love, fool. Age and impregnation focus? Women call people like you creeps.
>>82224972
Take a realistic look at yourself in the mirror, check your bank account & your investments, ask yourself "what do I add to other people's lives?", and ask yourself if you're worthy of such oddly specific standards. If you ain't out standing in your field then you ain't no farmer, son.
>>82224982
I'm not even going to bullshit you dude that's pretty much how it was for me too until my current gf appeared. Besides CHR you should also invest in LCK. Build up good karma too. I'm a really good boy so the spirits reward with me bagina.

>>82224961
For someone thats been doing this for years, do NOT go if youre not good looking, because if in real life women are already shallow, in these servers theyre twice as shallow, they will only care about your looks and say that they love you for your personality to make their whore minds feel better
If you are good looking though never look for a relationship and just use all the bpdemons for their lewds and attention :3

>>82225028
Yoooo you like steve zissou? It's my favourite anderson film. And if karma exists i have an overabundance of it. I volunteer at the red cross, church donations, soup kitchens, give away my old clothes, pick up garbage from the street, etc. But i am still the unluckiest motherfucker of all time - for example, 4 years ago i joined a university choir, partly because i like to sing and am a pretty good musician, partly because i thought it would be a great way to meet girls my age (girls like singing right?) Well the only women in the STUDENT CHOIR were 40+ year old university staff/professors and i was the youngest person in there in general by a margin of 5 years. This year i gave up cause the choir was actual dogwater ass and the conductor was a moron, joined a big symlhobic choir (which also has no young women)
BUT
the exact year i leave, a month later like 10 freshman/sophmore girls join the choir. But now i'm not in it anymore. It's like the universe is playing pranks on me.

>>82225001
i mean i was only there for an hour, that's not really long enough to make a friend or a few

>>82225101
>Yoooo you like steve zissou?
Of course I do. I'm based as fuck. That's why I'm sexhaver and gfhaver. I can't make you any promises but I can tell you that you sound like an even better lad than I am, so it probably is just bad luck. The morale of the story is don't try to force a relationship. Ride your wave in proper waters and some chiquita will be swept up in your vibes.

>>82225170
Ok, thank u. Ive never met anyone irl who likes wes anderson and my irl semi-friends called me a faggot for taking them to a screening of the Phoenician Scheme (they prefer marvel movies). Have good day, going 2 gym

>>82224961
>>82224988
Aren't they all full of children and pedophiles?

>>82224838
I dunno where to meet women because I don't drink, and I can't meet women through my hobbies either.

>>82224898
I never see ugly young men with partners, the only ugly men who find partners are much older men who found their woman years ago, or men from shitholes whose woman had no choice but to settle for him. You'll never see an ugly 25 year old, whether he's white or brown, raised in the west, with a girlfriend.

>>82224898
Yes, what >>82225319 said. The only average-ugly guys my age (early 20s) i see with girlfriends met them when they were like 16 and the only man in the girl's lkfe apart from her father and brother and stayed together. So barring insane timing and luck it's just not plausible for the vast majority of men.

>>82224838
What do you do if you're the equivalent of the guy on the right? Women would date any of the three other guys before him