Thread 82233969

I need a woman to basically throw herself at me because I have no confidence or charm. It's happened a good few times. So I just kind of wait patiently for sex to happen instead of pursuing it.

>>82233969 (OP) I had a bitch from work who basically threw herself at me, and I still fucked it up.

She had a major crush on me. She asked our team leader if she could switch desks so she could sit next to me. She even said it exactly in those words.

On our company profile pics, we could choose a random photo of ourselves that we like from our photo gallery. I chose a pic of myself at the beach. She told me I looked handsome and told others in our team that she saved that picture to her desktop to look at it.

She invited me around for drinks several times on a Friday night. I made lame excuses not to go because I literally hate bars and clubs.

I even once caught her at work wearing my jacket that I left at my desk because she was "cold."

I really dropped the fucking ball on that shit. She was giving me every indication that she liked me, and I was like "Nah, what if she doesn't though." And I just let that opportunity slip me by.

>>82233969 (OP)
>It's happened a good few times.
Damn, that is genuinely crazy.
You must be pretty attractive, or pretty outgoing in non-romantic ways.

>>82234137
I'm not OP, but you must be deluded into thinking that girls only go for hot guys. I am proof that they will go after guys who are completely average looking, is long as they're trying to baby trap someone. They couldn't turn me into a Sim though, and after a couple weeks of trying to make me some henpecked little bitch, and realizing it was never going to happen, they took their consolation prize of Child Support and left. And then I got a vasectomy. And then I had 10 years of no other girl ever being interested in me. And now that I am 37, I make very little money because I refuse to make any more until those child support cases are done, I won't be attracting anybody else. That's right, I have chosen to live on 24,000 a year before tax, to make sure those two bitches don't get any more money out of me. One child is going to turn 18 in 2029, the next one in 2034.

>>82234198
>you must be deluded into thinking that girls only go for hot guys
No, but they sure don't go for me or any of my friends, is all I can say. So OP must have something going for him if that happens so often, like being hot or super interesting. Or maybe it's just international cultural differences and I live in shit-hole where women never act up.

>>82233969 (OP)
Same, OP. Though as a NEET shut-in, it will never happen for me.
The few foids who have stared at me in public never fucking spoke to me, and always had company anyway.
I'm 39 this week. On my 38th, this cute redhead was staring at me all night, but as above.
I know I will never get to see her again; or that she'd be tuned off because I'm a manlet.

>>82233969 (OP)
>It's happened a good few times

This is how I know I'm a truecel. Because after 30 years of living, this has literally never happened to me

>>82234137
It's just the former. Even a good chunk of wizards have had many at least 1 or 2 girls approach them. The "male loneliness epidemic" is almost entirely turbo normalfags.

>>82235146
It just means you're not at least 8/10 facially, which is almost all men. If you have not actively been rejected you could be ugly or decent-looking and still have had zero chances given to you for free.
>>82235138
>woman stared at short boomer, she must've been creaming her pants
Damn, I can't imagine how much you had to have failed at life to be here at 40.

>>82235167
>Damn, I can't imagine how much you had to have failed at life to be here at 40.
Oh, eat shit.

>>82235167
Facially I'm a 2/10. I have that mouth breather look. I've thrown in the towel long ago.

>>82233969 (OP)
Youll never get a cute gf that way. Maybe a Becky might do that.

>>82234119
You're legit retarded if she gave you that many clues and hints. She did everything except outright say she liked you. She invited you for drinks WITH her multiple times. I mean for fucks sake man does she need to suck your dick in public for you to understand she likes you? Not to mention I feel bad for her, she probably gave up thinking you didn't like or care for her at all.

>>82234198
Why not be in your kid's lives? It could be fulfilling.

I'm at the point where the only way I'll commit to a woman is if she rapes me. I don't want to put in any effort out of fear I'll say/do something to make her lose all interest.

>>82235401
Bro those kids are better off with him just giving money and him interacting as little as possible. No dad is better than a bad one. Pity they were created though

>>82235147
Black women don't count
Fat women don't count

>>82235167
I hate you little fucking fsggots

It is much easier when you're gay. I've been approached twice. I've even briefly lived with one of my boyfriends.

>>82233969 (OP)
I approach lots of girls, until finally find success. I usually fail though.

>>82235708
Were you guys ever monogamous or are gays truly just pleasure freaks that fuck randoms in bathrooms constantly? Don't lie it's anon