Thread 82237477

Do you fall in love with people that are no good for you?
I do

>>82237477 (OP)
What makes them no good for you?

>>82237519
I'm anxiously attached and she's unstable
She literally told me she'll keep leaving unless I live with her and hold her down

Let's be honest. People here, and the people they'd be bound to meet don't have the issue of someone not being good for them. They have the issue of fucking it all up with self-sabotage, or blaming others for their own untreated issues. Over 99% of relationship issues from people who'd be here could be addressed by letting good things happen, not overthinking everything, and not running away.

>>82237477 (OP)
i have never fell in love

>>82237560
How do u even find these crazy chicks?

>>82237560
>She literally told me she'll keep leaving unless I live with her and hold her down
Okay? That's fucking based nigga. Put a leash on her. I swear, the good things happen to the wrong men

>>82237606
>not overthinking everything
I'm guilty of this, but I was proven right before
>and not running away
Not this

>>82237621
Vent thread here. I won't act like she's an insane terrible person or anything. I'm not much better

>>82237638
Little hard to do when we don't even talk consistently

>>82237560
She needs therapy, you can't fix that. People like that tend to be too selfish to care that they hurt others, because they cannot love due their unwillingness to trust anyone or be vulnerable. So they don't bring up these sorts of issues to professionals, as they think anything to change hurting others is a plot to hurt them.

>>82237638
>not op
Yeah, then she becomes boring as shit. I want an equal not a dog.

>>82237477 (OP)
>tfw no no good mentally horrifying very bad gf

>>82237477 (OP)
I never been in love.

Sounds like cringe novel name.

>>82237657
She overshares and always regrets it after

>>82237665
I agree akshually. I probably wouldn't enjoy it if she was too agreeable. I don't want to be her father figure

>>82237668
She's told me she's a bad person and that's she'd fuck me up beyond repair
I miss her I miss her I miss her

>>82237726
She doesn't love you. People who know they destabilize the relationship and cause lots of pain to others by randomly fucking off, and do nothing to fix that other than blame an issue do not love anyone or anything but the comfort being able to blame everything on having problems brings. It's obsession with being miserable because you hate yourself or don't see things changing, and trying to make everything around you miserable.

>>82237894
Well how am I supposed to fix that

>>82237913
You have to make them go to therapy. DBT therapy specifically. Not a workbook, not anything self-guided. Actual one on one therapy. It and antipsychotic medications combined are the only thing that makes people who do shit like that stable.

I keep fucking married men in the ass, can't stop :(