>>82240742 (OP)
I fucking hate self victimizers
I was in a shittier place than most women I've met, and I've made something of myself - and almost all women I meet just whine and whine and whine.
I had more hardships, more struggles, I was fat, I was ugly, I was unlovable, I never had a bf, I didn't have a degree, I didn't have money - and all of that, over the course of a few years, I fixed, fixed and fixed. Now I live a wonderful dream life.
Now women complain to me about their problems- beautiful women, well loved by family, with security, love, abundance, and whine about how their men who already go above and beyond, don't go even more above and beyond for them - NO! JUST NO! okay?! Stop it! STOP! I want to spray them in the face with water. WHY ARE YOU VICTIMIZING YOURSELF?! Well, I am the last person to have any empathy anymore. I used to think, wow, I came from a bad place and made something of myself, I should help others! Then you find out, other people just don't even help themselves. They are TOO blessed. And shit on all their blessings. Maybe a little bit of adversity and a little less empathy is the best thing that ever happened to me. HATE SELF VICTIMIZING WOMEN. I literally know women on like their second divorces. I'll give them advice on how to appreciate and respect their men, to repair their relationships, but noooo they want to complain about how it's all men's fault, or "it's cause men are shallow and want someone young and skinny." No, it's your annoying bitchass attitude!
