Thread 82240746

How do you deal with touch starvation as an incel with no friends or family nearby?

You don't. You die alone.
Jk
Idk, bump

not even my own mother hugged me growing up

Of course they show a poor who has been without chad's cum on her face for over 2 days, how horrible!

>>82240746 (OP)
i suffer from this deeply every day
i have family but hugging them is kinda cringe and disgusting so

>>82240746 (OP)
Hug your pillow at night

>>82240774
same. the first time she hugged me was when I was 31

>>82240788
I tried using a body pillow and a weighted blanket. Neither helped.

>>82240746 (OP)
>infographic on touch starvation
>subject is a beautiful white woman
You really, truly can't make this shit up

>>82240776
>>82240810
Ignore the cartoon moid in the pic. It's irrelevant to the thread.

>>82240810
if they put a chuddy incel on it people would laugh at instead of feel sorry.

>>82240804
I know this sounds kinda sad but the trick is to project a person (real or fake) onto it.

>>82240831
That sounds like it would work if you can believe the delusion, but I'm not sure I'm capable of that. I guess it wouldn't hurt to try though...

>>82240746 (OP)
I love how they have to display a woman next to that paragraph, as if they're really touch starved out of choice

>>82240746 (OP)
sharp objects and alcohol

I just live with it, like I have with most of my life.

This is the gayest shit I have ever heard. Just get a dog if you think this trash is real.

>>82241099
Pets annoy me.

>>82240746 (OP)
touch starvation isn't real
but if it were, use your imagination
the chemicals produced by imagination and reality are the same thing anyway

>>82240746 (OP)
Its been 2 years since I was last touched and I am perfectly fine

>>82241170
>touch starvation isn't real

What makes you say this?

>>82240746 (OP)
>touch starvation
Bullshit concept made up by jews to convince women that sleeping around isn't being a whore, it's "healing touch starvation"

>>82241305
Touch starvation has nothing to do with sex.

>>82240746 (OP)
>>82240776
>>82240786
>>82240800
>>82240804
Damn yall sound so pathetic

>>82241332
>yall
ironic

>>82241364
>ironic
Seethe

>>82241322
Prove it ninja

How old are you, OP? There is a chance that soon you will break. I did. I no longer feel emotions the same way anymore. Everything has been very numbed and faded. I feel empty for the most part. I no longer miss people, I no longer really care for anyone besides myself. I hardly even care for myself, actually. I care about nothing. I have become a ghost, a shell. That is what this lonely life will do to you. If your brain does not find a way to adapt, it will die. It is funny, when I was young I would do anything to make those feelings of pain go away, now at this point I am always chasing them. I have become a masochist, because it is better to feel pain than nothing at all. Right now I am even feeling a tiny semblance of sadness, so I am chasing it and trying to intensify just because I miss being able feel. I am always chasing feelings now like a drug addict chases a high. What a terrible thing, that this is what I have become. I hardly feel human sometimes.

Anyway, I sincerely hope you DO NOT become like me. Go out there and try to talk to girls, man. You do not want this life. Do whatever it takes, just keep your fucking heart.

>>82241457
It's already happened. I no longer enjoy my hobbies anymore either. Pretty much complete Anhedonia. I'm looking for ways to reverse it. I don't care how pathetic it is because I would rather be that than depressed 24/7.

>>82241412
Humans have a biological need to be touched that is separate from sex drive.

>>82241481
>I sit alone in my room and the only thing I can think about is how I'll never get to lay there suffocating under a girl's oppressive body heat. No sweaty limbs tangled together like a human space heater set to HELL mode. No sticky skin-to-skin contact making me feel like I'm trapped inside a damp sauna. No rancid morning breath blasting into my face at 6AM like a biological chemical weapon while she snores like a malfunctioning chainsaw.
Wow is you, faggot

>>82241546
>wanting intimate contact with a woman makes you a faggot.

?

>>82241507
I wish I could tell you the cure but I havent found it. I went to school, got a high paying job, achieved a bunch of things others would respect. The feelings of pride and duty are fleeting, and soon I find the emptiness coming back. You realize you are just running from this growing cloud of emptiness and chasing those fleeting emotions, but that isnt a fix. The feelings dont last and emptiness always catches back up to you. Once you get it is off to the next task, after that you keep going. When you run out of goals and missions? Emptiness. Jesus Christ. I even got a girlfriend, can you believe that? And what a piece of shit I am for doing it. In my mind, I believed that she could fill that hole. I didnt really love her, I loved the idea of what she could be and do for me. It did not work, I still felt empty. I broke up with her and broke her heart. I am just an empty, broken sack of turds running away from myself and fucking everything up on the way. It is like everything I touch dies. Sorry for rambling to you OP, I just have not talked to anyone about this shit for a long while. I used to post about my feelings a lot, but now I dont feel. I literally feel empty typing this, that little glimpse of faded sorrow I was feeling is gone already. I wish I had the answers for you, I really dont know what the fuck to do, brother.

>>82241562
Well you sound like one anyways so whats the problem?

>>82241567
Damn, I was hoping a gf would be the cure. Did you ever try to open up to her emotionally?

>>82241532
Get over it. That's what I did, and I'm fine and dandy

>>82241620
No. I have a hard time opening up to people, I cant really trust anyone. We only dated for two months. I knew I couldnt feel love for her anyway. I knew there was no point. That is another thing I lost, the ability to feel love. I think I am really fucked here. Like what do I do? I feel like my soul is gone. How do I get it back? Does anyone really know how to fix someone like me? I honestly think I am fucked for life and still spend the rest of my days as this cold corpse of what was once me.

>>82241546
Theres no justice in the world. All kinds of shitty people, morally evil people, meat eaters and animal killers, liars and hypocrites, nt's and moral trash, all get love and sex

I hate this world and god. There is no justice. I hate the smug moral trash who gaslight me to think physical intimacy isnt THAT important

If there was any justice in this world, most people would be sent to burn in hell

>>82241760
Go pay an hooker, nigger.

>>82241663
I have a crackpot theory that my brain has numbed myself as a defense mechanism against being hurt. I feel like the only solution would be to let out the emotional flood to a women and cuddle her through the night. I don't care if she gets the ick if I can unfuck my brain. I really just want my life back lol.

>>82241760
If you aren't given what you want, you have to take what you want. Unfortunately, vegans are incapable of this. Might as well rope.

>>82240746 (OP)
The last time I remember being touched and enjoying it was like 26 years ago, maybe more. Touch just makes me feel sick now. A revolting thing, permanently off limits to me.

>>82241779
Am I supposed to find this image impressive or worthy of respect? Oh wow guy shoots bear with a gun from hundreds of meters away and it dies almost instantly. Big fucking deal, he is a coward. It would be impressive and worthy of respect if he killed it with a spear. Even a bow wound be more respectable. But no, he killed it like some pussy and we are all supposed to think that is cool for some reason.

>>82240746 (OP)
Warm Showers.
Mindless / Tedious Tasks.
Being genuinely retarded.
Simple

>>82241779
Soon, asi will necessarily take over all power away from humans

- seductive power in the form of mass production of sexbot companions, devaluing the scare resource of sexy pretty girls
- physical power in the form of robots and nano-bots, making all forms of violence irrelevant
- charisma, as social power is predicated on humans being important, and once humans lose all forms of power, charisma and social prowess will cease to be a means to gain power
- intellectual power, as asi will be vastly more inteligent than any human at anything
- economic power, as asi will take over all jobs

the whole concept of being powerful to take what you want will cease to be a relevant concept in the presence of a godlike asi. humble yourself you moral trashcan

>>82241804
No, you were supposed to seeth over him being an """animal killer""", and you did. Thx bby.

>>82240746 (OP)
Intrusive family made me fucking hate being touched

>>82241882
Ah geez, that sounds intense. How long till that happens? Two more weeks?

Three letters: VRC

>>82241532
All of those physical responses are triggered by an illusion of the mind

>>82241853
>Being genuinely retarded

I wish.

>>82241769
i want to be sexually validated, voluntarily
i want a girl to fall in love with me. so much so that its the only thing she cares about. like those yandere girls or obsessive stalkers
i want it to be real, not her pretending
ill probably use prostitutes eventually..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jMW3szhdBg
i think those paid cuddling services would be a nice alternative, but im still a bit uncomfortable with using them. i will soon enough i think

>>82241899
agi in 3 yeas 4 months. a total of 40 months from today
asi i dont know when, that is really something i cant say
its unreal how arrogant you have to be, to think like you do, when the rest of the entire world is obsessed with how impactful ai is. its already the most impactful and transformative technology

>>82240746 (OP)
>shows cartoon of conventionally attractive woman
It's so fucking funny that when talking about touch starvation, they picked a pretty white girl, they least likely person imaginable to be touch starved. Women don't know what loneliness is.

>>82240776
>>82240810
>>82240819
>>82240821
>>82241481
I dislike women so fucking much it's unreal.

>>82241925
VRChat? I genuinely don't know what this means.

>>82241882
I can't wait till robo gfs are a think. I just I was born later so could have had access to them earlier in life.

VRC its a social app with user generated content, pretty chaotic but if you find your step you can make some good friends.
pretty big like cuddle community, dystopian future out of the way, it can be really comforting, a lot of people even find it easier to fall asleep while in game. Not that hard to find other people down for some free platonic cuddles or movie & chill type stuff

At the very least that's what works for me :P

>>82242111
Do you use a headset?

>>82242111
yeah if ur a girl and a sociable normie

yea, though its not necessary, runs on pretty much everything. You can get good mileage with just your phone

wont deny that you get wayyyy more attention being a girl, but most people don't care you don't even have to talk just pick a cute avatar and sit Infront of a mirror, eventually you'll get some headpants

I'm lucky my crush gave me permission to hold on to her one time and she petting me. I relive it at least twice a day when I hug my pillow and I pretend it's her. Once when going to sleep, once when waking up, and sometimes in the middle of the day when I'm bored and I miss her. If it wasn't for that I might be more stressed out than I already am.

I fucking hate being tocuhed. Hugs disgust me.

>>82242391
*hugs you* there there nonny it will be ok

>>82242405
I'll kick you in the cunt and or dick.

>>82242408
You can hit me all you want nonny I'll never let go of you <3

>>82242418
You should kill yourself tranny uwu faggot.

>>82242427
It's ok I know you're hurting inside. Just let it all out while I hug you and play with your hair.

>>82240746 (OP)
I hit up someone I used to chat with. They do massages. We made plans for me to spend the weekend together. We haven't even seen each other. I'm really excited about it and if she doesn't immediately send me home I'm going to touch her all over and cum in her.

>>82242440
also I want to cuddle and kiss her for hours just because I haven't touched anyone else for such a long time.

>>82242438
I would never let a man hug me.
Of you're a girl and cute I MAY consider it, but probably not. Touching literally makes my skin crawl. I don't even like my fingers touching another persons hands. I even wear gloves sometimes just in case when I'm out in public.

>>82242474
>Touching literally makes my skin crawl
Same here desu and no I am a guy but this isn't a gay thing it's a totally normal hetero bonding thing it's fine.

>>82242491
No its not normal or hetero. Neck yourself queer.

>>82242502
No it's completely hetero. Just two straight guys sharing a hug. What's wrong with that?

>>82242523
Everything. Absolutely everything. Men shouldn't hug each other.

>>82240746 (OP)
>How do you deal with touch starvation as an incel with no friends or family nearby?
I simply live with the pain.
I sure as fuck hope I get that early death in middle age that they keep promising.
I'm just 16 and 14 years away from reaching my folks ages when they died. I don't want to see 60.

>>82240746 (OP)
Play lots and lots of games with people both online and in-person.

Go to local game stores and play card games.

Play table sports at pool halls and athletic clubs.

Acquire and walk a dog if allowed. If your apartment doesn't allow dogs, walk other people's dogs.