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Anonymous No.82241150 >>82241162 >>82241165 >>82241180 >>82241189 >>82241194 >>82241338 >>82241519 >>82241534 >>82241552 >>82241665 >>82241733 >>82241761 >>82241875 >>82242027 >>82242320 >>82242333 >>82242347
is it creepy that i am dating a 16 year old girl at 20?
Anonymous No.82241162
>>82241150 (OP)
As long as you arent planning to pump and dump no its not
Anonymous No.82241165 >>82241726 >>82242290
>>82241150 (OP)
Not just creepy - it's problematic. Have you considered the power imbalance?
Anonymous No.82241175
>No high school freshman who can't drive yet gf
Anonymous No.82241180
>>82241150 (OP)
how many fucking threads are you going to make about this you fucking retard
get new material. larp or not it's tiresome.
Anonymous No.82241189
>>82241150 (OP)
People will judge you regardless. You could date a woman your age, older, regardless and people will judge you. There is an Aesop Fable involving a man, a boy and a donkey. The story revolves around the man's reaction to the people's thoughts and judgements of others and how it impacts his life.
Anonymous No.82241191
I was here before jannies took this thread down and IP banned OP. Also no, it's completely normal but modern society is a mental asylum and everyone is insane.
Anonymous No.82241194 >>82241503 >>82241726
>>82241150 (OP)
Yeah that's pretty creepy anon. Poor decison-making on your part and on hers. Why does a literal high schooler interest you? I'm thinking of the idea of listening to my girl telling me about her day in math class and shuddering.
Anonymous No.82241338
>>82241150 (OP)
no, treat her right
Anonymous No.82241503
>>82241194
shes cute and plus her parents know about us...
Anonymous No.82241519
>>82241150 (OP)
If you decided to date her already knowing that she is 16 then thats really fucked. But if you had no idea and youre not with her specifically because shes a minor then I really dont think its that bad. Its just a 4 year age gap. Could be worse
Anonymous No.82241534
>>82241150 (OP)
Dating is creepy people should just get married and have children. If the girl and her parents are not a family that you are joining then it's weird, if you are joing her family and you know her father and understand the family dynamic then it's cool, but obviously no sex outside of marriage
Anonymous No.82241552
>>82241150 (OP)
In reality, no. As long as you're not dating her specifically because she's young and stupid. People are going to think you're a pedophile, especially these days with zoomers thinking if you're not born within a minute of each other, yes a toxic unhealthy relationship
Anonymous No.82241665
>>82241150 (OP)
i started dating a 15 yr old at 20 and she had more experience than me, i lost my virginity to her
Anonymous No.82241674 >>82241682
Memes aside its weird as fuck.. im 31 now couldnt imagine dating a chick under 27 even then i prefer women over 35
Anonymous No.82241682
>>82241674
when I was 31, I dated. 22 year old. Ioved it, would do it again
Anonymous No.82241684
tell faye i said hi.
Anonymous No.82241726
>>82241165
Ironic shitposting is still shitposting.

>>82241194
Yeah, because listening to your snooty whorebag gf talking about how many dudes' dicks she sucked before you is just so much better than a cute young girl who isn't a fucking cunt.
Anonymous No.82241733
>>82241150 (OP)
Who cares? This is your second post on this
Anonymous No.82241761 >>82241909 >>82242016 >>82242256
>>82241150 (OP)
i dated a 13 year old in my 20s but it was long distance so it doesn't count.
we broke up because i told her we might get in trouble when in reality i was the one who would get in trouble.
she had a way higher sex drive than any girl i've ever spoken to and even myself, like she was horny 24/7
honestly i'm glad i ended that, it could have gotten bad, she was constantly trying to make me fap to her even if i had just done so like 30 minutes ago she would start sending pictures and videos unprompted, it was crazy.
that was the last internet gf i ever had.
Anonymous No.82241875
>>82241150 (OP)
how about 20 when I'm 40
Anonymous No.82241909 >>82242044
>>82241761
There was a girl who 13 who was always coming up to my job to talk to me when I was 23. The single fat mother that was my coworker yelled EWWWW one time when I waved back to her. Sometimes I regret not talking to her more. Especially when I found out that the 19 year old girl I would hit on said that they would hang out together.... No one minded that the 19f and 13f were doing things.
Anonymous No.82242016
>>82241761
>casually admits to receiving large amounts of cp
Anonymous No.82242027
>>82241150 (OP)
My dad got my mom pregnant with me when she was 16 and he 34.
Anonymous No.82242044
>>82241909
i had a similar situation, but it was fishy.
this chick showed up as a customer at my place of work and was flirting with me, then the next day it turns out she got hired and had showed up at my workplace that day to scope the place out i guess. one day after work she had me make a snapchat, then a few days later she called me on snapchat and started masturbating while on call with me so i told her to just come over to my place if she wanted to poon, but then she told me she was 17, the whole time i thought she was 18 or above since she looked older. i wound up telling her i wasn't in the mood because phone sex is for like middle schoolers, in middle school i had phone sex with a girl and it was boring and my throat and mouth got dry as hell from pretending to moan, it was so cringy man.
anyways the next day she jumped in the elevator with me and told me it was a blind spot so i could do anything i wanted to her in there, but i've seen too many elevator footage to know that all elevators have cameras and microphones in case of emergencies. so i just stood there facing the door.

Anyways all that to say that it felt as though maybe she was like undercover and trying to get me arrested for inappropriate conduct with a minor or something it was such a weird situation.
Teenage girls can be hot, but it's best to keep away from them unless you can keep the whole relationship a secret, but the other problem with them is that when they grow up they can grow to regret the relationship and tell everyone you abused her and then next thing you know you're a pedophile rapist molester, it's just better to keep away from teenage girls, they're cute, but they're not worth the hell that you could fall into.
Anonymous No.82242256 >>82242303
>>82241761
This is bad anon. It's the law no matter where you live that receiving pictures and images of anyone under 18 is illegal and counts as CP. You're disgusting. Just because 'some' people here have dated children does not mean it's ok to do so, there's a massive difference in mental maturity.
Anonymous No.82242290
>>82241165
What fucking power u talking about, this ain't a digimon battle
Anonymous No.82242303
>>82242256
I am aware it's a long distance from a virtuous deed, but that's far in the past and i knew it was wrong at the time so i put a stop to it.
We all have lapses in judgement from time to time especially us who are in a desperate state.
Luckily i never saved any of the content i received. there was definitely a mental maturity difference that was hard to ignore. But like i said it was all in the past and it doesn't define me, people are more than some immoral action they might have engaged in in the past especially when no one was hurt during that time.
Anonymous No.82242320
>>82241150 (OP)
One time I was 15 and was friends with this 12 year old online. I never even wanted to do anything with her, but our other friends would constantly talk about how I wanted to fuck her and make jokes about it so I just ended up ghosting them all for a while. When I came back, everyone had kind of gone their own ways so we just talked for a little bit and split up again and then we all got together around the start of covid and it was like we never missed a beat. I wish I would've just told them to stop and stayed around because they really were probably the best friends I ever had. I just let the banter and insecurity get to me too bad. Now I have fucking no one.
Anonymous No.82242333
>>82241150 (OP)
Um I think its legal
Anonymous No.82242347
>>82241150 (OP)
My sister is 16 and is dating a 20 year old and I think its fucking gross cause she actually looks like a child. Her bf is a wannabe gangster white boy whos always fucked up and I actually want to curb stomp him every time I am in his vicinity cause he emotionally abuses the fuck out of her and shes just too dumb to see it and she thinks hes so cool just cause hes my age when hes actually a total fucking loser. Maybe the circumstances with ur gf are different and youre a good guy but I think its cutting it too close. A 16 year old is just halfway through highschool and a 20 year old is a grown man who works and drives and probably has his own place. The gap may not be super big but a lot of emotional maturity and life experience is gained in that 4 years.